Are these good signs that she probably be open to hotwifing?

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My wife is not the usual conservative woman (we are near Sabah, Malaysia) but i am not sure and still scared to confess to her about what my fantasy is.

As i said shes not the usual conservative, there are perhaps “signs” that she might be okay and open with the fantasy or its just me hoping too much that shed be okay with it.

I need your help. Heres the list of, at least what I think, as a sign she might be open to the idea:

1- few years ago i explained to her about Double Penetration, she simply said “oh that sounds fun”

2- when we still dating (20 years ago), i asked what she thinks of MMF - she said the thought of two men focused on her, for her pleasure, sounds “cool”

3- she suggested that we watch hardcore porn while having sex.

4- only recently, while I fuck her, she would grab my forearm and would kiss it and lick it like its someones cock and also she sometimes take my finger and sucks it.

4.b (edited): she sometimes would finger herself (after i cum) and she wants to suck me while she finger her self. As if like she wants someone to eat her or fuck her while shes suckimh me.. i dont know hahaha

5- heres the latest one, i told her i dreamt we are at a beach naked with others. She replied “oh thatd be amazing, nudist beach”

So guys, are these good signs that she probably be open to the idea of either swinging, hotwifing etc
 
My wife is not the usual conservative woman (we are near Sabah, Malaysia) but i am not sure and still scared to confess to her about what my fantasy is.

As i said shes not the usual conservative, there are perhaps “signs” that she might be okay and open with the fantasy or its just me hoping too much that shed be okay with it.

I need your help. Heres the list of, at least what I think, as a sign she might be open to the idea:

1- few years ago i explained to her about Double Penetration, she simply said “oh that sounds fun”

2- when we still dating (20 years ago), i asked what she thinks of MMF - she said the thought of two men focused on her, for her pleasure, sounds “cool”

3- she suggested that we watch hardcore porn while having sex.

4- only recently, while I fuck her, she would grab my forearm and would kiss it and lick it like its someones cock and also she sometimes take my finger and sucks it.

4.b (edited): she sometimes would finger herself (after i cum) and she wants to suck me while she finger her self. As if like she wants someone to eat her or fuck her while shes suckimh me.. i dont know hahaha

5- heres the latest one, i told her i dreamt we are at a beach naked with others. She replied “oh thatd be amazing, nudist beach”

So guys, are these good signs that she probably be open to the idea of either swinging, hotwifing etc
Bring up your desires.
She sounds very open minded and would at least consider it.
Good luck and keep us posted please.
 
I think she is telling you she's open to more. She probably feels as nervous about the conversation as you do. Why not start with something simple like going to the nudist beach. Something like "I've been thinking about how you thought a nudist beach was cool. Let go to ....... And try it out"
If she is up for it, when you are there you can whisper to her how guys are checking her out. If she responds well to that, you say something like "I wonder if these guys are here looking to meet women"
See how she responds to that then follow with something like "he sure looks like he wants to meet you. I could introduce you."

It may take several visits to get to the finish line, but you don't know she could get the hint right away and take the plunge
 
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