Baby steps - how to progress

Snoopsissy

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Need a bit of advice on how to lead my wife to maybe being a bit more risqué to start with - we were on holiday in Spain at quiet holiday home - my wife is very vanilla - she had on a black bikini and we were sitting enjoying the sun - caretaker approached - older guy and was liking what he saw - he hardly looked at me lol and tried to buzz away an insect leaning forward getting a better look at her tits and was so close I thought he was going to hit her bikini top - when we came back home I’ve been saying as I bought her another two gorgeous white / patterned bikinis that when old Mike sees her in theee he’ll be hard lol . She keeps saying no they’re only for you etc but can tell by her replies she is a bit excited , she’s definitely not saying her usual shut down stuff . I haven’t kept on about it so how or what can I say to maybe get her to show a bit more or be open to maybe a. Bit of flashing - I’ve thought of saying well I was a bit turned on he seemed to be enjoying the view and turned on that another man was appreciating her sexy body . I’ve said don’t know last time he saw a pair and be a shame not to give him a treat but again - no that’s only for you - apologies it’s so long too guys / girls
 
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First thing is make sure you show her how hard it makes you thinking about her showing off. Then maybe ask if she could have her top untied next time and accidentally show her tits to him?
Well I’ve mentioned that it was a turn on for me when he was checking her out , she is aware of my desire to share her too but I feel this could be a good starting point - but it’s quiet gated area so maybe not the ideal place to go to topless ( just yet ) . She only had her bikini on but I could say to her to leave her halter neck loose and if it ‘ accidentally comes loose so be it but that could be a hit or miss I suppose but mentally for her would be a big win if she agrees to it - her new bikinis are both white so even hopefully he might even get a look at her cunt if she’s sweating - that would be awesome
 
Sounds so hot! Love to see some pics of her in white. Be open with her and communicate to her how turned on it makes you when she teases other guys showing off. Reward her with some great oral as you tell her how hard she makes you doing it
 
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Sounds so hot! Love to see some pics of her in white. Be open with her and communicate to her how turned on it makes you when she teases other guys showing off. Reward her with some great oral as you tell her how hard she makes you doing it
I think we may have a compromise- she has suggested maybe wearing a sheer top and no bra on as the caretaker guy Mike is about now and then - if he sees her he will definitely come over for a chat and if we on the balcony it’s a bit more secluded - so we’re going to pick up her white bikinis and look for a sheer top - here is the view he got in black one 33F2910E-CE3C-40B9-A555-ACE732F15E35.jpeg
 
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Ok so the white bikinis arrived and she didn’t like them - doesn’t like the padded cups - got her nice kitten heeled white sandals for them too but she said she has a white lace top she will take - that will probably work even better as her tits are tanned but her ends / nipples areas are white so they like two targets lol 7F5EAAE8-3323-4ED4-905C-639D1F787FB0.jpeg
 
think she think she will still need a bit of encouragement to show so any gentle hints or tips would be appreciated - I’ve jokingly said - when do think last time he saw any boobs ? And surely you could give the handyman a wee treat ? . She laughed but I have on occasion mentioned like - lol that mike will be rock hard when he sees you in your shoes and bikinis . First couple of times was her usual dismissive - only for you but I can tell she’s been thinking about him looking at her and her answers now are not dismissive at all - she mentioned the lace top but not directly about him and that lace top so that’s why I know she been putting thoughts into it .
 
Here are two texts - look at the emojis / if my wife was not happy she wouldn’t be sending those unless she’s just going along with it - which for my wife is entirely possible I guess - I don’t think I’m at the stage to ask her outright if she’ll show him as I’m trying to let her set the pace E5CCAB7D-7FF9-4068-A10C-5B4CFC0A9E13.jpeg
 

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Any updates?
Hi thanks for the follow up but no real update as such - the new bikinis were a bust - she doesn’t like the tops with any padding . Stepdaughter was at the house ( no competition there she’s fucking massive and wears a full swimsuit but has massive tits - ) lol . Also seemingly she said there was other women in the pool . When she heard this my wife sort of glanced at me , but haven’t followed it up by mentioning anything as yet . When I do I will post / we going back over to Spain in 5-6 weeks so anything could happen yet . It’s too quiet for topless so that is out so looking like maybe yet another dead end - I live in hope
 
Sounds so hot! Love to see some pics of her in white. Be open with her and communicate to her how turned on it makes you when she teases other guys showing off. Reward her with some great oral as you tell her how hard she makes you doing it
Here she is in white for you - I live white too. It’s the best colour for tits and tops too
 

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With some bikinis you are able to remove the padding with little effort. If the padding is loose and lies between two layers of fabric, use a razor to slit the inner fabric and pull out the padding from the hole you've made. It is best to do this along one of the shorter seems.
Hope this helps.
 
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With some bikinis you are able to remove the padding with little effort. If the padding is loose and lies between two layers of fabric, use a razor to slit the inner fabric and pull out the padding from the hole you've made. It is best to do this along one of the shorter seems.
Hope this helps.
Thank s for that - she actually prefers bikinis with no padding and bras also - mesh ones being her favourites . We are back over in Spain in 6 days time so Hopefully get a few more bikini shots as she has new ones to take . Think the pool will be busier and you never know if another woman has her tits out I’m sure my wife will follow and even more hopefully ( it’s a given lol ) Mike the handyman will pop by for a chat and look at her 36c tittles . Her nipples are usually out most of the time but will see how hard they go if he’s looking and chatting of course lol
 
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Been sort of testing the waters in the vain hope of planting a seed in her mind about showing the handyman guy a bit more tit or maybe pushing her bikini bottom into her hole a bit - I mentioned if the pool is busy she might have competition on the boobs front - she replied - I’m not bothered about them but with two laughing emojis so she may just be thinking about it - here’s hoping