Beginners : Only Real Guys

[Giani]

Hi there,

Im new in the Forum (2 weeks) im not a cuckold, and my wife is not a Hotwife...yet.
As many of you here I came looking for people vibrating the same frequency, meet people with same fantasies, needs and desires.

I have found lots of guy like me, trying to understand how this lifestyle works, learning new terminology, etc. Guys that are rising the topic with their wife, wife that aren't ready yet to be shared or having a bull, guys that have tons of pictures of their wife and are eager to share with the forum to receive back a "nice boobs" "great ass" "she needs a cock".

This Forum have real guys that are in another level, years of experience, with real hotwifes, gorgeous and beautiful in every sense. I have tried to start chat with many of them but it seems most of them don't have time to guys like me: I have a lot of questions.

I also realized there is a lot of non real guys trying to pretend either being a bull with "a lot of experience" or guys playing the role of "cuckold of the year" while sharing stories like "the last weekend my wife took 3 BBC". sometimes you can tell they are sharing tons of pics that aren't their wife.

Bottom line, I wanted to create thread were we can be real and honest, without pretending or fooling each other with our life story.

Am I the only one?

 

[Giani]

Ill start with, I believe, is a very valid question: why do we fantasize about sharing our wife (partner, spouse) with another man?

anyone with a realization?

 

[keilin]

Ill start with, I believe, is a very valid question: why do we fantasize about sharing our wife (partner, spouse) with another man?

anyone with a realization?

Well I think my wife is soo sexy and its such a turn on to see her getting used by her bull. Kinda like a real life porn right in front of you (most time) and your wife is the star My wife has seen the same guy for a few years now and just recently started letting him come over while i am at work. Hes not some random deadbeat haha.

 

[Giani]

Well I think my wife is soo sexy and its such a turn on to see her getting used by her bull. Kinda like a real life porn right in front of you (most time) and your wife is the star My wife has seen the same guy for a few years now and just recently started letting him come over while i am at work. Hes not some random deadbeat haha.

hey! man, wait, I have lots of questions for you. how did it happen the 1st time? how it affect the relationship (for good or bad) do you have kids?

 

[Nerdy3rd]

Awesome, and agree about discussing both the good and not so good realities leaving monogamy behind.

We are about 4 years in and don’t regret it but it does come with complications and tempered expectations.

 

[Giani]

Awesome, and agree about discussing both the good and not so good realities leaving monogamy behind.

We are about 4 years in and don’t regret it but it does come with complications and tempered expectations.

How was the process that leads you to start the lifestyle

 

[Nerdy3rd]

How was the process that leads you to start the lifestyle

After around 12 years of marriage, I finally fessed up to my fantasy of watching her fuck another man. To my surprise she was intrigued and want to know if it was just a ploy to get permission to fuck other women. In the same moment, I asked her what her fantasies were. They usually involved sensual massage or her being the entertainment for a bachelor party!!! That finally broke the seal on talking about sex that didn’t just mean the two of us. This went on for a couple years, ramping up to some role play and serious fantasies casting people we know to seduce her. Finally, someone flirted with her at the right time and she was up for it after making sure I was ok. I encouraged her to see where it would go. It took off fast.

You just gotta plant those seeds that leave her no doubt you are turned on by it and then wait for the right moment.

 

[Giani]

After around 12 years of marriage, I finally fessed up to my fantasy of watching her fuck another man. To my surprise she was intrigued and want to know if it was just a ploy to get permission to fuck other women. In the same moment, I asked her what her fantasies were. They usually involved sensual massage or her being the entertainment for a bachelor party!!! That finally broke the seal on talking about sex that didn’t just mean the two of us. This went on for a couple years, ramping up to some role play and serious fantasies casting people we know to seduce her. Finally, someone flirted with her at the right time and she was up for it after making sure I was ok. I encouraged her to see where it would go. It took off fast.

You just gotta plant those seeds that leave her no doubt you are turned on by it and then wait for the right moment.

Sounds smooth, so ok, that was a one time guy? He became like a voy friend? She has night out with him?

 

[Nerdy3rd]

Sounds smooth, so ok, that was a one time guy? He became like a voy friend? She has night out with him?

Sounds smooth, so ok, that was a one time guy? He became like a voy friend? She has night out with him?

He’s now her regular. She’s actually with him right now as I type. I’m awaiting my sloppy seconds

 

[Giani]

He’s now her regular. She’s actually with him right now as I type. I’m awaiting my sloppy seconds

Oh shit. How often? Do you do your thing too? Have a girlfriend?

So basically your wife has 2 man. Is not a bull , that guy is part of her life now. Not sure I’m ready for tha 🤣🤣🤣

 

[Wannabe97]

Ill start with, I believe, is a very valid question: why do we fantasize about sharing our wife (partner, spouse) with another man?

anyone with a realization?

Because i was and am her only one and i wish for her to explore more flavours out there. Also part of reason is that im sexually submissive and it would be hot to see someone satisfy her submissive cravings.

 

[mariobrother]

Hi there,

Im new in the Forum (2 weeks) im not a cuckold, and my wife is not a Hotwife...yet.
As many of you here I came looking for people vibrating the same frequency, meet people with same fantasies, needs and desires.

I have found lots of guy like me, trying to understand how this lifestyle works, learning new terminology, etc. Guys that are rising the topic with their wife, wife that aren't ready yet to be shared or having a bull, guys that have tons of pictures of their wife and are eager to share with the forum to receive back a "nice boobs" "great ass" "she needs a cock".

This Forum have real guys that are in another level, years of experience, with real hotwifes, gorgeous and beautiful in every sense. I have tried to start chat with many of them but it seems most of them don't have time to guys like me: I have a lot of questions.

I also realized there is a lot of non real guys trying to pretend either being a bull with "a lot of experience" or guys playing the role of "cuckold of the year" while sharing stories like "the last weekend my wife took 3 BBC". sometimes you can tell they are sharing tons of pics that aren't their wife.

Bottom line, I wanted to create thread were we can be real and honest, without pretending or fooling each other with our life story.

Am I the only one?

curious to start as a bull and zero experience. 50 now and when I was 30 a couple approached me at a club and it was my first, husband watched. no sword crossing. now I want to pick up where I left off.

 

[hubbysexywife]

Hi there,

Im new in the Forum (2 weeks) im not a cuckold, and my wife is not a Hotwife...yet.
As many of you here I came looking for people vibrating the same frequency, meet people with same fantasies, needs and desires.

I have found lots of guy like me, trying to understand how this lifestyle works, learning new terminology, etc. Guys that are rising the topic with their wife, wife that aren't ready yet to be shared or having a bull, guys that have tons of pictures of their wife and are eager to share with the forum to receive back a "nice boobs" "great ass" "she needs a cock".

This Forum have real guys that are in another level, years of experience, with real hotwifes, gorgeous and beautiful in every sense. I have tried to start chat with many of them but it seems most of them don't have time to guys like me: I have a lot of questions.

I also realized there is a lot of non real guys trying to pretend either being a bull with "a lot of experience" or guys playing the role of "cuckold of the year" while sharing stories like "the last weekend my wife took 3 BBC". sometimes you can tell they are sharing tons of pics that aren't their wife.

Bottom line, I wanted to create thread were we can be real and honest, without pretending or fooling each other with our life story.

Am I the only one?

Totally agree with you! Very good thread.

 

[ChubbyGermany]

we have just had sex again fantasizing about a MFM

 

[ChubbyGermany]

I think it is VERY important, that there are many MUNDANE issues in the way of the lifestyle. Kids for example. They shall NEVER become aware of "our lifestyle" if we ever start it. Well my kids are still in our house. There will be NO man couple whtsoever visiting us when they are present.

 

[Azncouple21]

Ill start with, I believe, is a very valid question: why do we fantasize about sharing our wife (partner, spouse) with another man?

anyone with a realization?

Wife and I been together going on 15 years but was introduced to the "scene" with my ex girlfriend. For me, its the planning, set up and anticipation of watching my partner get it on with another guy, as someone previously mentioned: its watching live porn. Ive been lucky where my last 3 partners (current wife included) have been willing to partake

 

[Vincenzo]

Hi there,

Im new in the Forum (2 weeks) im not a cuckold, and my wife is not a Hotwife...yet.
As many of you here I came looking for people vibrating the same frequency, meet people with same fantasies, needs and desires.

I have found lots of guy like me, trying to understand how this lifestyle works, learning new terminology, etc. Guys that are rising the topic with their wife, wife that aren't ready yet to be shared or having a bull, guys that have tons of pictures of their wife and are eager to share with the forum to receive back a "nice boobs" "great ass" "she needs a cock".

This Forum have real guys that are in another level, years of experience, with real hotwifes, gorgeous and beautiful in every sense. I have tried to start chat with many of them but it seems most of them don't have time to guys like me: I have a lot of questions.

I also realized there is a lot of non real guys trying to pretend either being a bull with "a lot of experience" or guys playing the role of "cuckold of the year" while sharing stories like "the last weekend my wife took 3 BBC". sometimes you can tell they are sharing tons of pics that aren't their wife.

Bottom line, I wanted to create thread were we can be real and honest, without pretending or fooling each other with our life story.

Am I the only one?

Not at all. We started doing it for me. Not to be a cuckold or humiliated but to see and hear her pleasure. I always join in (never worh him) and we have a great time

 

[somos2conmuchos]

Empezaré, creo, con una pregunta muy válida: ¿por qué fantaseamos con compartir nuestra esposa (pareja, cónyuge) con otro hombre?

¿Alguien que se haya dado cuenta?

ME gustaría mucho poder dar mi opinión personal sobre esta pregunta aunque primero debo decir que mi opinión viene de la experiencia personal de ser un hombre negro dotado y primeramente bisexual que soy un super fan del cuerpo femenino no puedo dejar de disfrutar del organo sexual masculino solo eso por lo que en mi caso personal además de que la idea de compartir a mi mujer con otros hombres y mujeres la siento como la posibilidad de que ella pueda disfrutar de mucho más placer del que da una relación monogama sexualmente hablando ( este estilo de vida para mi no tiene nada que ver con los sentimientos entre la pareja) y en mi caso personal lo que me hace proponer a mi mujer que tengamos sexo con otros es algo tan simple como el deseo de poder ver bien de cerca como sus agujeros se van abriendo ante el avance de una Barra de carne dura al ser penetrada y que también ella pueda ver mi culo ser abierto frente a ella

 

[somos2conmuchos]

Estoy contigo en este hombre. A mi esposa y a mí nos gusta mucho hablar sucio y realizar fantasías en la cama, usar juguetes, etc., pero parece que con todos aquí es solo 0-100. Mi esposa está abierta a la idea de ser compartida o potencialmente de que yo la vea divertirse, pero ella no es el tipo de mujer que responde a muchas de las cosas del tipo "déjame meterte mi enorme polla de 10 pulgadas" que parecen ser frecuente aquí.

PARA nosotros es además bien complicado encontrar alguien en estos grupos porque la mayoría no entienden que siendo negro con 24.5 cmt de largo ppor 6.5 de gordo no solo me gusta ver como mi mujer disfruta de otras pingas sino que también me gusta ser penetrado junto con ella sin sentirme ni sumiso o humillación ni dominación solamente me gusta mucho disfrutar la experiencia de estar juntos desnudos siendo penetrados por varios amigos

 

[JustMike]

Just a wannabe here. I want to see it because I love porn, and she is the most beautiful woman in the world. I also have a strong submissive side. I want to put those passions together and watch my wife have mind-blowing sex with someone who is better at it than me. Or failing that, for her to go out to have mind-blowing sex and come home to tell me all about it, with evidence. She, of course, is against the idea. Since I want to be the sub in that arrangement, I can't try to force her or take action to make it happen; it has to be her idea or I'm not excited. She knows what I want and will roleplay it with me, and that is enough... getting it for real would just be a bonus.