Big cocks bringing orgasms is a myth.

So, I’ll try and keep this as short as I can. Been thinking about getting my wife into the lifestyle I’ve mentioned it, she bat it away. I’ve seen stories of how men slowly over years got her there. Because they knew how much better a ‘big cock’ would be. I make my wife cum tonnes, dripping wet, mouth open. I’m six inches and a little girthy. Some positions we could do with me taking an inch off ‘doggy’ then there are more complicated position where an extra inch would help. So I was chatting to a guy and he invited me to attend a few of his swingers nights. I said I just wanted to observe, my wife doesn’t know. I did get naked as it would have been weird if I didn’t. I saw guys with huge cocks pounding women. Not one decent orgasm observed. Loud noises and grunts. But no orgasms. UNLESS he was playing with her clit while banging her or she was grinding him! I saw guys with average cocks and big ones fuck the same women and guess what, exactly the same outcome in terms of the women having an orgasm regardless of size! Some women were in pain with the big ones but seemed to like it, some who were a lot more vocal with the big ones seemed way more relaxed and at home with the more average ones. One guy had a really long thin cock and he got loads of attention and showed me a thing or two! All in all. I’ve been 3 times and not seen A SINGLE WOMAN have an orgasm from penetration only. Unless there was clit grinding cowgirl style or toys and fingers used while being fucked. Can’t lie. The women seemed to love the variety of men and were certainly loving it. But big dicks bringing orgasms never happened. I read so many bulls and ducks writing ‘he slid in her and she came 5 times on five thrusts’. I’m calling this nonsense now. Whereas before I was believing it! Certainly has ruined a few sexual fantasies that got me hot though. Any thoughts? Females, especially VERIFIED ones would be AMAZING.
Hi Jennifer here. While I agree that it's not the length of the wand but the skill of the magician that makes the rabbit pop out of the hat, I have had some very amazing orgasms on big thick cocks.... I do also want to say that the majority of men I fucked and orgasm with don't have big cocks.
 
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Hi Jennifer here. While I agree that it's not the length of the wand but the skill of the magician that makes the rabbit pop out of the hat, I have had some very amazing orgasms on big thick cocks....
I think it comes down to how one uses what they got ... I for one have had several women orgasm as we connect and they usually beg for more ... I know that anytime I can get together with a sexual lady there will always be a return ... Not everyone that is well endowed can treat a lady to something so special it takes a lil passion and delicate hand to work such magic ... I for one have never really had a issue , I even been with a gal that I bottomed out on , even though it hurts she wanted more and I enjoyed the tears that came with it , because it gave me a chance to provide after care ... Love a women that needs a lil after care , I enjoy caressing , and holding their bodice next to mine as I make them feel wanted and appreciated...
 
My wife about this subject:
- "Very big cocks aren't real stiff like yours. I like a hard cock."
- "I prefer more a cock with big girth than a long one. The feeling it fits just is beyond imagination. Disadvantage is that a deep throat BJ is more difficult."
- "General speaking I can say that a size doesn't matter me. It is the way how I have been fucked."
- "Of course it is always very hot if a long cock fits just. Even when it a little painful. Being on top of him, so when I can decide how deep a penetration will be, it is always okay. "
 
My wife about this subject:
- "Very big cocks aren't real stiff like yours. I like a hard cock."
- "I prefer more a cock with big girth than a long one. The feeling it fits just is beyond imagination. Disadvantage is that a deep throat BJ is more difficult."
- "General speaking I can say that a size doesn't matter me. It is the way how I have been fucked."
- "Of course it is always very hot if a long cock fits just. Even when it a little painful. Being on top of him, so when I can decide how deep a penetration will be, it is always okay. "
She should see mine. Even at 66, it’s nit only thick, but stands proud hard and throbbing.
Stamina better than ever, and so are second and thrirds, especu With enthusiastic oral worship
The one change with age, I don’t the the volume of cum is as much
 
Sorry, I accept the opinion of every user here, but as a bull, I have to say that ALL THE WOMEN I met during my life told me that sex with me was completely a huge difference compared to their previous lovers, or in the case of a married woman, to her husband.

But as I already wrote in different posts before, when you are above average, you need to be very careful. I don't know how other guys do it, but in my case, I can say that IT TAKES A WHILE until I can start having normal sex with a woman. Not all the women are the same, not all teh vaginas are the same. But IN GENERAL, a thicker penis is more pleasant than a thin one. Longer doesn't mean better if they don't enjoy cervix stimulation.
Thank you - the reality is different than the fantasy. It's just as good, but plays out differently.
 
Women have told me that it's not a length thing, more girth. They like the feeling of being stretched (but not too much). But in terms of size, small is a problem for enjoyment. It's difficult for them to get it to hit the right spot.

In terms of technique, I just let partners ride me and use my cock how they want. Some are embarrassed because they don't want to be seen losing control, but once we get past that barrier (ie that first orgasm), then they just keep coming back for more. One partner rode me for hours on-and-off, coming repeatedly. The bed was so drenched we had to move to another room to ......
I have noticed that some women fear orgasm, maybe because of losing control. Why do you think this is?
 
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I have noticed that some women fear orgasm, maybe because of losing control. Why do you think this is?
One exgf told me she was afraid I would see a side of her that I wouldn't like and that I wouldn't respect her anymore. I persuaded her once to let her inhibitions go and it was a wild ride, but she wouldn't do it again because she'd convinced herself that I was just being polite when I said: Jesus fucking christ, that was so fucking hot!!
 
So, I’ll try and keep this as short as I can. Been thinking about getting my wife into the lifestyle I’ve mentioned it, she bat it away. I’ve seen stories of how men slowly over years got her there. Because they knew how much better a ‘big cock’ would be. I make my wife cum tonnes, dripping wet, mouth open. I’m six inches and a little girthy. Some positions we could do with me taking an inch off ‘doggy’ then there are more complicated position where an extra inch would help. So I was chatting to a guy and he invited me to attend a few of his swingers nights. I said I just wanted to observe, my wife doesn’t know. I did get naked as it would have been weird if I didn’t. I saw guys with huge cocks pounding women. Not one decent orgasm observed. Loud noises and grunts. But no orgasms. UNLESS he was playing with her clit while banging her or she was grinding him! I saw guys with average cocks and big ones fuck the same women and guess what, exactly the same outcome in terms of the women having an orgasm regardless of size! Some women were in pain with the big ones but seemed to like it, some who were a lot more vocal with the big ones seemed way more relaxed and at home with the more average ones. One guy had a really long thin cock and he got loads of attention and showed me a thing or two! All in all. I’ve been 3 times and not seen A SINGLE WOMAN have an orgasm from penetration only. Unless there was clit grinding cowgirl style or toys and fingers used while being fucked. Can’t lie. The women seemed to love the variety of men and were certainly loving it. But big dicks bringing orgasms never happened. I read so many bulls and ducks writing ‘he slid in her and she came 5 times on five thrusts’. I’m calling this nonsense now. Whereas before I was believing it! Certainly has ruined a few sexual fantasies that got me hot though. Any thoughts? Females, especially VERIFIED ones would be AMAZING.

Looks like I'm going to have to repeat that experiment with many girths and lengths and report back!

Hope you got to have some fun and made the ladies cum ;-)



 
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