Can I be cuck and bull at the same time?

[Brosef2020]

I feel like I want to be a bull and a cuck at the same time. Does it work that way?

Hi. As the title says I’m looking for guidance... I’m what you’d call well endowed, muscular and pretty masculine, an alpha if you’re into that nomenclature. Before I was married I was even a bull for a few couples, always bigger and more manly than the other guy.

Recently I’ve very strongly been wanting to explore the bull lifestyle again. However, I am finding I also have very strong feelings of wanting to see her with other men. And not in a swinger context but in the traditional hotwife, me watching her getting blasted by big cocks context.

Admittedly these feelings are confusing. I had always thought the role of the cuck was one of inherent weaknesses, a kink like BDSM where the wife was essentially punishing the cuck. But what I am finding is that the thought of watching her take another man is somehow empowering for me. And I still want to fuck other guy’s wives...

My question is, is there a role in this world for someone with both tendencies? And how have you handled broaching the topic to wives? Because I’ve never told her about wanting to see her done by other men like that.

 

[Robert Smith]

I think the best aspect of the Cuckold/Hotwife lifestyle is the many different angles and complexities for people to enjoy. If you can find something that works for you and your partner just enjoy it and do not worry about what other people think or say. I love reading and talking to other folks about their kinks and fetishes. I think the best aspect of the Cuckold/Hotwife lifestyle is the many different angles and complexities for people to enjoy. If you can find something that works for you and your partner just enjoy it and do not worry about what other people think or say. I love reading and talking to other folks about their kinks and fetishes.

I met Elaine when I was 32 and she was 29. We were both divorced with no kids. After dating for several months I really started liking her. I had done some swinging and wife sharing with my ex wife. I don't think that led to our divorce, but one never knows. In between marriages I was a bull for several couples too. I never have considered myself a cuck. I love to share my Hotwife. I am always present and participating on some level. I got Elaine to pose for sexy polaroid pics and she didn't seem to object like some women do. For my birthday she surprised me with some lingerie photos done by a professional she had hired. I was more than pleased with that attitude. After about a year I decided to broach the idea of sharing her. Started with sex talk in the bedroom. While having sex she acted willing saying it might be fun, but nothing ever actually happened. I knew for our relationship to go further I was going to have to press the issue to see if she was all talk and no action. I kept telling her to pick out some guy she would like to fuck. I didn't care if it was old lover or friend. She said she could not approach someone about having sex with them if she really loved me. You can read about our adventures in the lifestyle in Elaine's First Time thread in the Share Your Real Stories section if you go to page one.

I always love watching Elaine playing with other men and watch them fuck her so I could enjoy sloppy seconds. I love the feel of cum on my cock in my wife's used pussy. There is nothing as sexy as feeling your cock as it is swimming inside your wife's pussy, lubricated by someone else's cum. Feel free to ask any questions you may have about us and our lifestyle

 

[whotoo]

I've always liked both sides of the fence and my wife is even more so. We really got going with her friend Sue. Sue loved girls but didn't like guys that didn't get her ready first or being banged hard so Bev asked her to join the two of us. After meeting Sue and Bev got down and started to 69 lying on their sides with me behind Sue. When Sue was hot enough Bev slid my cock into Sue's pussy and I started fucking her from behind. It was awesome having your wife slide your cock into another woman and even better feeling her lick my cock and Sue's clit on every stroke! It didn't take too long for both Sue and I to cum (no hard banging) especially watching her chow down on my wife's pussy the whole time. When I pulled out, Bev cleaned my cock then sucked and licked Sue's pussy clean.
A week later A friend of ours Dave came over to borrow a tool and we invited him in for a glass of wine. We had swung with him and his wife in the past and I knew he had an 8" dick like mine. We asked him if he would have a threesome with me 69ing Bev. It took him about a second to say yes. Stripping and laying on our sides I did the same as Bev and slid his cock into her from behind while she sucked me. It was great. I loved licking the two of them and Dave even jacked my cock in her mouth. We all came very close together and my wife never came harder. It was especially nice because I was in her mouth when she had a super orgasm. I loved watching and tasting them while they fucked, and his cum tasted so good in her pussy. My friend's dick taste good with her juice and his cum on it. We both ended up with new favorite things and Dave's dick was so much like mine that I finally got to feel what it was like in my mouth. Since then we go for it all we can and we both like it both ways. Dave and I now had a new service to offer for the ladies. A lot of guys think I'm crazy to fucklick and eat cum out of a woman's cunt, but their wives dont.

 

[Allen Amboy]

There are no rules or laws. If you want to watch your wife getting fucked tonight then fuck your friend’s wife the next night who’s to stop you?

 

[vej54]

I feel like I want to be a bull and a cuck at the same time. Does it work that way?

Hi. As the title says I’m looking for guidance... I’m what you’d call well endowed, muscular and pretty masculine, an alpha if you’re into that nomenclature. Before I was married I was even a bull for a few couples, always bigger and more manly than the other guy.

Recently I’ve very strongly been wanting to explore the bull lifestyle again. However, I am finding I also have very strong feelings of wanting to see her with other men. And not in a swinger context but in the traditional hotwife, me watching her getting blasted by big cocks context.

Admittedly these feelings are confusing. I had always thought the role of the cuck was one of inherent weaknesses, a kink like BDSM where the wife was essentially punishing the cuck. But what I am finding is that the thought of watching her take another man is somehow empowering for me. And I still want to fuck other guy’s wives...

My question is, is there a role in this world for someone with both tendencies? And how have you handled broaching the topic to wives? Because I’ve never told her about wanting to see her done by other men like that.

I feel like I want to be a bull and a cuck at the same time. Does it work that way?

Hi. As the title says I’m looking for guidance... I’m what you’d call well endowed, muscular and pretty masculine, an alpha if you’re into that nomenclature. Before I was married I was even a bull for a few couples, always bigger and more manly than the other guy.

Recently I’ve very strongly been wanting to explore the bull lifestyle again. However, I am finding I also have very strong feelings of wanting to see her with other men. And not in a swinger context but in the traditional hotwife, me watching her getting blasted by big cocks context.

Admittedly these feelings are confusing. I had always thought the role of the cuck was one of inherent weaknesses, a kink like BDSM where the wife was essentially punishing the cuck. But what I am finding is that the thought of watching her take another man is somehow empowering for me. And I still want to fuck other guy’s wives...

My question is, is there a role in this world for someone with both tendencies? And how have you handled broaching the topic to wives? Because I’ve never told her about wanting to see her done by other men like that.

Affirmative, your sexuality is always evolving and you want to explore both roles simultaneously (cuck-bull) to spice-up the bedroom. It sounds that your role as a cuck is just cerebral foreplay - fantasy while, playing the role of the bull to seal the deal. As for broaching the fantasy with the wife begins with telling her the truth and presenting the benefits of the Hotwife. I do say, listen to some of the podcasts by Front Porch swingers to introduce her to the Lifestyle and more importantly, how it has become very popular amongsts many married women. Oh yes, explore her sexual fantasies then, leverage them into the Hotwife scene..

 

[Blackhunk]

There are no rules or laws. If you want to watch your wife getting fucked tonight then fuck your friend’s wife the next night who’s to stop you?

That jst answered me because I do both

 

[vej54]

Burning the Candle at both ends while, at the same time is gutsy but, most gents lack clarity and emotional self-confidence to engage in such a RISKY Game of Chance....Salute

 

[Allen Amboy]

That jst answered me because I do both

Nice. I would do both if the opportunity comes up but I being a cuck is my first love.

 

[cuckycuckold]

There are no rules or laws. If you want to watch your wife getting fucked tonight then fuck your friend’s wife the next night who’s to stop you?

You remind me of Walter Mitty.
One minute I'm this the next I'm that.

 

[Allen Amboy]

You remind me of Walter Mitty.
One minute I'm this the next I'm that.

I use that in life. One day I’m straight, next day I’m bi.

 

[cuckycuckold]

I use that in life. One day I’m straight, next day I’m bi.

I'm not sure what your trying to say.

 

[BigJake]

Yes you can be both Cuck and Bull. That is what all Swinger guys are. You can move from watcher to active bull. I have done both with the same couple.

 

[Ozzcuck]

I feel like I want to be a bull and a cuck at the same time. Does it work that way?

Hi. As the title says I’m looking for guidance... I’m what you’d call well endowed, muscular and pretty masculine, an alpha if you’re into that nomenclature. Before I was married I was even a bull for a few couples, always bigger and more manly than the other guy.

Recently I’ve very strongly been wanting to explore the bull lifestyle again. However, I am finding I also have very strong feelings of wanting to see her with other men. And not in a swinger context but in the traditional hotwife, me watching her getting blasted by big cocks context.

Admittedly these feelings are confusing. I had always thought the role of the cuck was one of inherent weaknesses, a kink like BDSM where the wife was essentially punishing the cuck. But what I am finding is that the thought of watching her take another man is somehow empowering for me. And I still want to fuck other guy’s wives...

My question is, is there a role in this world for someone with both tendencies? And how have you handled broaching the topic to wives? Because I’ve never told her about wanting to see her done by other men like that.

Once again this silly idea that cuckold means weak or submissive. The role of a cuckold is to be the husband of an unfaithfull wife, there is no other requirment. If you are swingers then you are already a cuckold. The how you explor your particulare kink, swinging, wife watching, bdsm or what ever turns you on and the emotional connection to that kink does not impact wether you are cuckold or not.
So the answer to your question is YES you can be both bull (I hate that term) and cuckold, in fact I would sugest you already are.

 

[keylife022]

I feel like I want to be a bull and a cuck at the same time. Does it work that way?

Hi. As the title says I’m looking for guidance... I’m what you’d call well endowed, muscular and pretty masculine, an alpha if you’re into that nomenclature. Before I was married I was even a bull for a few couples, always bigger and more manly than the other guy.

Recently I’ve very strongly been wanting to explore the bull lifestyle again. However, I am finding I also have very strong feelings of wanting to see her with other men. And not in a swinger context but in the traditional hotwife, me watching her getting blasted by big cocks context.

Admittedly these feelings are confusing. I had always thought the role of the cuck was one of inherent weaknesses, a kink like BDSM where the wife was essentially punishing the cuck. But what I am finding is that the thought of watching her take another man is somehow empowering for me. And I still want to fuck other guy’s wives...

My question is, is there a role in this world for someone with both tendencies? And how have you handled broaching the topic to wives? Because I’ve never told her about wanting to see her done by other men like that.

Not with the same woman

 

[Sirramm]

I can tell you, the OP, I have really NEVER stepped down from my role as a bull even when sharing my wife or GF with another guy(s). I love to watch and share my woman with other men and although have an orally bi side and have absolutely no issues sucking another man's cock during our playtimes I ALWAYS remain in control! My woman knows, understands, and agrees that ANYONE who enters our 'chambers' is there solely for OUR pleasures and OUR pleasures alone. Neither of us gets into the humiliation, degradation, or disrespect thing so maybe that is where/what sets us apart.

 

[sterling]

yes you can do both. My wife and I have enjoyed a cuckold/stag lifestyle for many years and found it to be exciting and rewarding, takes a strong relationship but it works for us. I am not porn star huge but above average for sure and have been asked to play the bull role for a few different couples over the years. Also found that to be enjoyable for obvious reasons.