My soon to be ex wife and I realized early on that our sex drives were very mismatched. Tried using toys and licking the clit while working the dildo, tried Viagra and public stuff. Asked her if she had any unrealized fantasies she'd like to try without judgement or worrying about me wanting some experience in return. Very attractive, athletic, professional mature women about 10 years older than myself. She confessed that she had always been curious about having multiple guys at once. Always wanted her to have exactly what she wants so we came up with a plan to make it happen in Winnipeg where we could be anonymous and just meet someone at the hotel bar. She wore a short on semi transparent knitted dress with nothing else. 3 guys later she asked if we could stay another night. We moved closer to her family and everything stopped due to paranoia of someone she knows finding out. Plus covid started and the virus freaked her out. I couldn't keep up with her without some backup and things fell apart. So.... Does a true hotwife need multiple cocks to be satisfied? Never had a problem with jealousy and was happy knowing she was getting the satisfaction she deserved.
Can you keep a hotwife satisfied by yourself?
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For that reason that my wife is open season all the time. She’s free to open her legs . When where and to whom she wants.
Ex wife soon....too bad...sounds like there were bigger problems unfortunately..
There's no easy answer to the question you're asking. Some hotwives are happy with just one lover on the side, others like me like to fuck a lot of different guys and sometimes several at once.
But the real question as Mrs Hotwife suggests, is that there are other issues here if she is soon to be your ex wife. Having differing sex drives shouldn't be a reason in itself if as you say you are happy for her to fuck other guys. But that isn't going to address other problems in a relationship so you need to ask yourself what the deeper problems were.
I am sorry though that your marriage seems to be coming to an end x
But the real question as Mrs Hotwife suggests, is that there are other issues here if she is soon to be your ex wife. Having differing sex drives shouldn't be a reason in itself if as you say you are happy for her to fuck other guys. But that isn't going to address other problems in a relationship so you need to ask yourself what the deeper problems were.
I am sorry though that your marriage seems to be coming to an end x
you cant keep a hot wife satisfied by yourself its the whole reason we are hot wives we enjoy veriety
As I get older I understand wives need more and accept that
its a pitty people dont relise that earlier
Interesting question. In theory our agreement is that if either of us ever want to stop, then we stop. Our view is that we are in this together.
Reality is though we never have actually tried for a full stop. Had a few times we took breaks for a variety of reasons (ie when we wanted to have kids so she stopped birth control, no way we were having her fuck others then). During those breaks we both found ourselves missing it (and yeah she did suck a few dicks but no fucking).
So do we really know we could stop? No we don't for sure
Reality is though we never have actually tried for a full stop. Had a few times we took breaks for a variety of reasons (ie when we wanted to have kids so she stopped birth control, no way we were having her fuck others then). During those breaks we both found ourselves missing it (and yeah she did suck a few dicks but no fucking).
So do we really know we could stop? No we don't for sure
We are very much in the same boat but have never really put it to the test and doubt we will while we are still fairly fit and able. We were forced to take a break during lockdown and that just confirmed that we'd find it a struggle having a more traditional relationship x
That has always been my mentality as well
She's early 50's, I'm 40. When we moved to where she's from to be closer to the kids and grandkids it really seemed like a sudden change. She enjoyed younger men and became very apprehensive about inviting over a former student or friend of one of her kids by mistake. And of course covid was no help restricting the option of meeting someone at a bar or event. Very intense sex drive, has that vibe that just turns heads and legs that can cause car accidents. We always found each other attractive, but I'm horny like once a month and she's horny all the time. The secret visitors seem necessary.
All women just want the good sex my friend. My wife is in her mid 20s, and im in my 30s, but unfortunately I cannot give her what she needs, so she is getting it from her boyfriend who is in his 50s. Now, my wife has had sex with many other men while being with me, but she prefers him specifically because he matches her drive, and the way he handles her keeps her attached to him, sexually speaking.
I can’t. I cum fast and not enough to fill the gap lol
Sounds like your divorce has nothing to do with this, because she's the one that asked to stop. But if you get a second chance to try this in the future with someone else, and she's paranoid about family finding out, then you need to be clever and creative and make sure that doesn't happen.
I can satisfy my wife because she has a lot of toys. My dick is small, so she needs other men. I clean her pussy and I’m happy with what I get from her.
Really? That might be true if it's something that a couple engage in occasionally as a way of stopping their sex life getting in a rut. And I'm sure you're right that in many cases it's the husband who instigates exploring the hotwife lifestyle.
BUT if this is a big part of your life, it has to be because you both get something out of it. Much as I love my hubby and as much as I want to make him happy, I fuck other guys because I want to! Our relationship works because he loves me being slutty too so we are a very good match. After 23 years, I think it would have become a bit of a chore if I was fucking other guys just to keep James happy. And wouldn't that be a bit one sided and selfish? It works because we both want the same thing from it x
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