In my younger years I was deathly afraid of getting a girl pregnant. I had too many guy friends end up with a pregnant girlfriend.As much as bare sounds hot and in my fantasies, we always use protection. I know, not the popular choice here. While we had a regular for a while, he wasn't exclusive so we aren't taking chances. She did try bare once early on, the stress and worry afterwards took away from our experience. We also had a friend who preferred bare and caught an STD. We have only had an issue once where the guy didn't want to cover and it was his loss. It was even discussed before hand but he thought that in the moment he could get away with it. Nothing against anyone else's decisions and preferences but condoms are a must to play with her.
I was 19, running around with this 18yo girl from church, she was the slut type but on the pill, all good. On our third "date" after we'd fucked she said she should probably take her pill tomorrow. I freaked out as I know hie birth control pills work. She said she only takes one "when she needs to". I was scared as hell for a friggin month. As soon as she told me she got her period I avoided her like the plague.
Yes there was women I didn't use rubbers with but looking back that was not very smart.
Wife and I enjoy mfm with a guy we know and trust. Wife is past the age of pregnancy worries so we don't use protection with him.
With a stranger we sure as hell would.
Fuck yes sex is better bare but...