It’s a risk. My wife and I roleplayed the fantasy and watched a lot of that kind of porn during sex which finally led to a threesom with my neighbor. She had an incredible time and I had given her permission afterward to hook up with him wherever as long as she told me. I never thought she would but told my neighbor I’d be out of town one weekend secretly hoping. Well he took me up on it and turned her into his slut behind my back. She did whatever he wanted her to including fucking his friends and his dad and I didn’t find out for a year. It was tough and the dynamics between being turned on by her behavior and hurt by it almost ruin me and our marriage. She didn’t want to lose me but couldn’t say no to her new activities and eventually I had to accept it
Cuckolding goes wrong....!!!!
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She does now for the most part. That was almost 5 years ago and it went for about a year before I found out. Its just tough to accept that the woman you love is under some other guys spell and won't say no to him. I'm still turned on watching her but I never wanted to be cucked. I wanted the ability to say no and control the situation but that ship has sailed and she knows it and he knows it and a few other guys know it a take full advantage.
I'm never harder than when I watch his face when she sucks my cock after I pull out of her ass
Its amazing the sexual atraction that can pull 2 people together even after years of not seeing each other.
I hope I don't get flamed for resurrecting an old thread.
I lost my first wife to cheating while being cuckolded. Luckily enough Ive been remarried and cucked again for a long time now. But there are always dangers in any type of relationship.
I lost my first wife to cheating while being cuckolded. Luckily enough Ive been remarried and cucked again for a long time now. But there are always dangers in any type of relationship.
manotick
Male
When entering the cuck world people have to know that this can and does happen. In some cases the wife moves on with her lover and leaves you behind. It takes a strong marriage and a LOT of communication to make this work successfully. So a lot of talk before and rules and agreements. Even so the cuck feelings are so powerful (humiliation and pleasure combined at amazing heights) that many men do let their wives go farther emotionally than they want with bulls/boyfriends/lovers and then it is a roll of the dice.
But lying and cheating should never be apart of it, especially when you were the one who gave her your consent to have sex with other guys in the first place. That is a gift that a lot of married woman would crave. At that point where lying and cheating enters your relationship there needs to be a sit down conversation and agreements before it goes further.
Many men will only let their wives have sex with a guy for a short time to ensure that it doesn't get out of hand. The husbands even choose the guys. That way she gets lots of cocks and the husband is really happy and feels safe. However, there are women, like mine, who have to have emotional feelings for another man before they will have sex with them. Those are the tenuous situations. Luckily it worked for us because we have a very strong marriage and communicate daily about everything. But still it can always go south. And the husband has to wear it if he gave his consent.
Wishing everyone a happy and honest cuckold life.
But lying and cheating should never be apart of it, especially when you were the one who gave her your consent to have sex with other guys in the first place. That is a gift that a lot of married woman would crave. At that point where lying and cheating enters your relationship there needs to be a sit down conversation and agreements before it goes further.
Many men will only let their wives have sex with a guy for a short time to ensure that it doesn't get out of hand. The husbands even choose the guys. That way she gets lots of cocks and the husband is really happy and feels safe. However, there are women, like mine, who have to have emotional feelings for another man before they will have sex with them. Those are the tenuous situations. Luckily it worked for us because we have a very strong marriage and communicate daily about everything. But still it can always go south. And the husband has to wear it if he gave his consent.
Wishing everyone a happy and honest cuckold life.
This lifestyle has worked wonders in our marriage, but a few years back, my best friend was fucking my wife, and they fell in love. They would hang out like teens and just forget about me. It would hurt, and though i enjoyed knowing he was doing so much to my wife, it hurt knowing she was so close to forgetting about me. I later found out he wanted us to separate and then stay with her, which i realize he got too attached. Finally, i sat down with my wife and we talked and got through that rough spot, and then his baby momma showed up, making the situation even more difficult. Thankfully though, after all of that we’ve found happiness, and everything worked out.
I'm in a somewhat similar situation now. Stacey has enjoyed the same lover for well over the past ten years. He is married and now lives out of state but comes back to Florida on business every couple of months. If she's not in love with him, she's very much infatuated and they definitely have a deep connection. When he comes to our home I'm pretty much ignored as they cavort like teens. It hurts, but at the same time turns me on, to see them embracing, kissing, touching in our den while we watch tv or frolic in the pool. I don't participate in their love making though I do listen from the hallway. When he's here I stay in the guest room while he stays in our master with Stacey. We eat meals together and even take day trips (away from our town) - but when we do, they are the couple. It works - though I have to work hard not to be any more jealous than I am. She's nearly monogamous with him sexually but occasionally still needs a new lover to keep her sexual appetite fulfilled.
Wow, sounds like they have a strong connection. The thing is, sometimes the women do fall in love with the bull, more than just sexual, and that can really cause a strain in the marriage, even if its hot, because i know i would jerk off like crazy thinking of what he used to do to my wife, but it also hurt that i was put aside. Luckily though, she found men who were not trying to break us up, and made it much easier to stay in the lifestyle.
cuckold2112
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My ex wife leaving me was hurtful but was also what really solidified me as a true cuckold.
With my current wife I entered it as a cuckold and no preconceptions of being the “man” in her life if that makes sense.
My wife has no rules or limitations. She goes on actual dates and has real relationships and has fallen in love with another man in the past. In fact she is still in love with him and talks about him often. Fortunately for me he is also married and unwilling to leave his wife or they would certainly be together.
I know this kind of cuckold relationship isn’t for everyone but I know I’m just not the type to be able to provide the type of pleasure a woman needs or wants and love the feeling of knowing I could lose her at any time.
With my current wife I entered it as a cuckold and no preconceptions of being the “man” in her life if that makes sense.
My wife has no rules or limitations. She goes on actual dates and has real relationships and has fallen in love with another man in the past. In fact she is still in love with him and talks about him often. Fortunately for me he is also married and unwilling to leave his wife or they would certainly be together.
I know this kind of cuckold relationship isn’t for everyone but I know I’m just not the type to be able to provide the type of pleasure a woman needs or wants and love the feeling of knowing I could lose her at any time.
Are you playing with fire? Yes & no!
For us it's about the sex, nothing more. I was concerned about a connection with a 'partner' early on, we agreed that will not happen EVER. She cuts a guy loose when she feels a connection from either her or him, and certainly repeats can cause a bond to form, like it or not.
BUT
She has had a few 'regulars', one I labeled 'Mr commuter' was good for 2-5 times a week, sometimes twice a day. Another 'the bartender' was good for once a week but would cum in/on her 3-4 times in a row.
She kept her emotional distance by compartmentalizing them. She didn't like the bartender but liked the sex and his perks. Mr commuter she says was OK and considered him a 'fill-in'.
So IMHO it's up to her whether there's fire or not, but the more contact the more chance of fire, sometimes the highway to hell is paved with the best intentions.
Disclaimer: During my 1st marriage I had a sex partner on the side, it was for sex only, for us both, nothing more ............................. we are now married!
Love is an uncontrollable emotion. All the communication the world won't change it.
For us it's about the sex, nothing more. I was concerned about a connection with a 'partner' early on, we agreed that will not happen EVER. She cuts a guy loose when she feels a connection from either her or him, and certainly repeats can cause a bond to form, like it or not.
BUT
She has had a few 'regulars', one I labeled 'Mr commuter' was good for 2-5 times a week, sometimes twice a day. Another 'the bartender' was good for once a week but would cum in/on her 3-4 times in a row.
She kept her emotional distance by compartmentalizing them. She didn't like the bartender but liked the sex and his perks. Mr commuter she says was OK and considered him a 'fill-in'.
So IMHO it's up to her whether there's fire or not, but the more contact the more chance of fire, sometimes the highway to hell is paved with the best intentions.
Disclaimer: During my 1st marriage I had a sex partner on the side, it was for sex only, for us both, nothing more ............................. we are now married!
Love is an uncontrollable emotion. All the communication the world won't change it.
I can identify. We've never been in a situation where her lover challenged our marriage but it was (is) impossible for me to think Stacey would have periodic or frequent sex with another man and not develop an emotional attachment and have feelings for him. She's never humiliated me - always sensitive to my feelings.
That sounds quite mechanical almost, I would have thought your wife (and women in general) would have wanted more of an attraction with the men she has sex with.
manotick
Male
Something not all cuckolds might be aware of is Oxytocin.
It is a natural hormone produced in a man's and woman's body and is sometimes called the "love hormone". It is associated with sexual activity including hugging and kissing and orgasms as well as with child birth. It is the body's natural reaction to an emotional and physical event. It is more powerful in women than in men. Oxytocin is produced in the hypothalamus, a part of the brain and released during sex, childbirth, and lactation to aid reproductive functions. You can Goggle it on the Net.
It enables a mother to love her new baby. But it also brings about strong physical and psychological emotions during sexual activity including your wife falling in love over time with the man who has his cock buried in her pussy and filling her with his cream. And the more she has sex or physical contact with that person, the stronger her emotions will be. On the one hand this is the woman you want to see in bed with another guy, yet you fear you may have lost her.
I found that since my wife met her current boyfriend she is on cloud nine for two days after they have sex. He is such an excellent and powerful lover with a large cock and great stamina that she is basically a lump after he has left. Her mind is a million miles away. She is on a drug. And for those next two days I can basically do and have whatever I want. She will make me anything I want to eat, do anything I ask of her and is just a dream to be with.
So I sure love him pumping her full of his thick cream. I even thank him for fucking her when he leaves at night.
But, and there is always a but, those concerns many husbands have about their wives falling in love with her lover are real. The love hormone flows in her brain and body and she becomes single focused on him and how he makes her feel. And with time she will have less sexual contact with you and want it only from him as her bond grows deeper.
Now cuckolds who are in strong marriages are not so concerned about this emotional response as they believe their wives will not leave them, although they are prepared to be denied sex with her and willingly accept becoming the secondary or sub in the sexual aspect of his marriage. Indeed this is the basis of their humiliation/pleasure mindset. But if this is not what you want in your marriage, then you will have to control the amount of oxytocin flowing from her brain into her body because of her sexual contact with a specific male. This can only come about from regular communication and letting her know what you want while having to compromise with her needs. This is the cost of your decision to walk down the cuckold lifestyle path....it works well only if the marriage is already strong. Because cuckolding will quickly expose any weaknesses in a relationship.
It is a natural hormone produced in a man's and woman's body and is sometimes called the "love hormone". It is associated with sexual activity including hugging and kissing and orgasms as well as with child birth. It is the body's natural reaction to an emotional and physical event. It is more powerful in women than in men. Oxytocin is produced in the hypothalamus, a part of the brain and released during sex, childbirth, and lactation to aid reproductive functions. You can Goggle it on the Net.
It enables a mother to love her new baby. But it also brings about strong physical and psychological emotions during sexual activity including your wife falling in love over time with the man who has his cock buried in her pussy and filling her with his cream. And the more she has sex or physical contact with that person, the stronger her emotions will be. On the one hand this is the woman you want to see in bed with another guy, yet you fear you may have lost her.
I found that since my wife met her current boyfriend she is on cloud nine for two days after they have sex. He is such an excellent and powerful lover with a large cock and great stamina that she is basically a lump after he has left. Her mind is a million miles away. She is on a drug. And for those next two days I can basically do and have whatever I want. She will make me anything I want to eat, do anything I ask of her and is just a dream to be with.
So I sure love him pumping her full of his thick cream. I even thank him for fucking her when he leaves at night.But, and there is always a but, those concerns many husbands have about their wives falling in love with her lover are real. The love hormone flows in her brain and body and she becomes single focused on him and how he makes her feel. And with time she will have less sexual contact with you and want it only from him as her bond grows deeper.
Now cuckolds who are in strong marriages are not so concerned about this emotional response as they believe their wives will not leave them, although they are prepared to be denied sex with her and willingly accept becoming the secondary or sub in the sexual aspect of his marriage. Indeed this is the basis of their humiliation/pleasure mindset. But if this is not what you want in your marriage, then you will have to control the amount of oxytocin flowing from her brain into her body because of her sexual contact with a specific male. This can only come about from regular communication and letting her know what you want while having to compromise with her needs. This is the cost of your decision to walk down the cuckold lifestyle path....it works well only if the marriage is already strong. Because cuckolding will quickly expose any weaknesses in a relationship.
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