Difficulty Cumming Without Cuckold Fantasies

[MarcoPoloFL]

I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.

 

[Motoman]

I am in the same exact boat as you except my wife can't cum sometimes either. Wife is open to the idea, just wants to be extremely careful and selective about who and when. That being said I always go down on her until she cums and then I fuck her. When she is having trouble cumming, I'll talk about what it's going to be like when we finally go through with it. She typically cums pretty damn quick from that. And same with me. I'll struggle to get off either myself or with her and thinking of that gets me all the way and then some

 

[YourNewBull]

That's not uncommon for someone with a strong fetish. I'd be happy to help, but I'm afraid I'm not in Florida. However sexy chat with your wife is something I'm glad to help with. Keep her moving forward for you