Difficulty Cumming Without Cuckold Fantasies

[MarcoPoloFL]

I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.

 

[Motoman]

I am in the same exact boat as you except my wife can't cum sometimes either. Wife is open to the idea, just wants to be extremely careful and selective about who and when. That being said I always go down on her until she cums and then I fuck her. When she is having trouble cumming, I'll talk about what it's going to be like when we finally go through with it. She typically cums pretty damn quick from that. And same with me. I'll struggle to get off either myself or with her and thinking of that gets me all the way and then some

 

[YourNewBull]

That's not uncommon for someone with a strong fetish. I'd be happy to help, but I'm afraid I'm not in Florida. However sexy chat with your wife is something I'm glad to help with. Keep her moving forward for you

 

[shorebird]

Not always true sometimes I'm just distracted but sometime true. Without saying it my wife knows this. This has led her to the most intense dirty talking to me. the things she will say to me or a guy when she wants the person to cum are extremely hot!

 

[lickitup]

I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.

Same thing happened to me. I could not cum or stay hard if I didn't think about her sucking a big cock while I watch. It became a "huge" problem for me. She knew it also. I didn't tell her but she knew. Even though we talked about her fucking and sucking her co worker with a 10 inch dick. I wanted her to suck and jerk him off at work.

But it began to get in the way of a normal lifestyle for me. All I thought about was her sucking big cocks. I had this big cock fascination. I wanted to suck cock with her. But, I didn't tell her, but I think she knew. Things didn't work out for us and I regret not being able to have sex with her and make her cum unless I thought about her with a 10 inch dick in her mouth.

She got turned off me always talking about her sucking other guys. She needed more love from me and I didn't have it for her. Mind you she was the biggest flit on the planet, she needed attention from every guy. It used to drive me nuts. So I finally got to the point to where I just went along with it knowing I could not give her all she needed. So, I guess it back fired on us both.

So be careful of this fantasy. It can backfire on you.

 

[Kneel2Zod]

I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.

I'd say more than perhaps even many will admit. Communication in this case definitely is key. Then who knows where it could lead.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.

We had to deal with it for some time.

After we got further into this lifestyle, then came a time we only (but mostly husband) could think and talk about it whenever we were up to have some sex between us, too. It reached a point from what I (husband) couldn't get really excited without remembering what she did with other men or by her telling all of it again and again.

And sometimes, the couples just want to have good sex by their own sake.

Giving some break staying without bringing too much about the lifestyle while we were about having sex, solved it!

 

[triciawest1970]

I think my husband is like this also. We can never just be about the two of us anymore. He almost insist I discuss other guys during sex and it is the only thing that makes him finish it seems.

 

[jwhfun]

I'm wondering if others here have experienced this. I've noticed that I often struggle to finish when having sex with my wife... unless I'm fantasizing about her being with another man. The arousal and intensity of those thoughts seem to be what really gets me going, and it’s become a regular part of my experience.

My wife and I have talked openly about it, and we’re both interested in exploring the idea of bringing in a third. It’s something we’re aligned on, but we’re just waiting for the right time/person to make it happen.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of thing? How do you manage it in the meantime? I’d love to hear from others who’ve gone through something similar.

Bring in another guy and you will have fun