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I told my wife I'm a cuckold 10 years ago,and for now I didn't make it.She only stays in fantasy,she says she want to suck someone's dick,want get raped,get gangbanged,but only in fantasy.
Fantasy vs. Reality
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that is because you are only THINKING OF YOURSELF, YOUR NEEDS. not hers. change your perspective towards your wife and she will cuckold you.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. let her do this on her own terms. not yours. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you. trust is key.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was how i convinced my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friend. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me helped a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won. never did i suggest that we have sex with the american guy as she was reluctant at first.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part. she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.
secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. but do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or there's something behind the compliments.
send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.
this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.
i did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.
rushing into cuckolding
sharing your wife is already a big step. getting her to cuckold you is even greater. so consider taking this one step at a time.
my advice to you is to leave out the cuckolding part of it for now. That will come later. Currently you are only focused on your needs which is for her to cuckold you.
So leave that part out for now. instead, focus on HER PLEASURES. make sure she reaches new heights, better climaxes and mind-blowing pleasures. Get her more involved in the sex. Introduce a dildo, if you have not already. Then show her 3some porn - mmf, orgies, gbs where there are more men than women. This will engage her curiosity about having more than one cock.
but always keep these in mind - persistence, patience, non-pushy.
this is all a plan.....as once she starts experiencing all these new things, your sex life will change and then you slowly bring cuckolding into place. so your time will come my friend.
that will be the ultimate. get her the tools. and then fuck her with it, while watching a nice cuckold porn movie. find out who she likes to fuck her. colleague, neighbour, friend etc. then introduce the vibrator as the person. in her pussy or mouth while your cock does the free hole. your wish to be cuckolded will come (cum??) true.
try to understand the bigger picture of what i am trying to say and more importantly, shift the focus on her needs. not yours.
dan
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Kind of but in a weird way I get a sting of jealousy followed by my dick beginning to get hard and me wanting more and not wanting it to stop. From what I hear is there can still be feelings of jealousy but followed by intense feelings. Can anyone confirm? It is hard to explain how it makes me feel. When she talks about another guy sometimes that rush also comes. Slight jealousy hits but then my blood rushes and excitement hits. Like near immediate hard on. When a guy clearly checks her out hard or talks to her. Might be the society expectation still in my head “I shouldn’t like this” but after the initial jealous sting I want it to keep going.
Hasn’t happened for me either, she does know what I want at this point and she will periodically tease me with it when she feels like it. Saying how hot a guy is or talking about a cock etc. of course I don’t know how I’ll really feel after, it is the only kind of porn I can get off to now and I still want it after I cum. You might not be ready, jeez maybe I’m not either but it’s the best way I can explain the jealous type emotion that hits me. I’d love to see if anyone who is actually in this reality can confirm the jealousy mix- but it is a thrill I can’t explain.
There's different levels of sharing, and no need to advance to full "cuckold" status with all of the humiliation, cages, bulls, breeding talk and so on. A simple MFM is hot beyond comprehension for those who haven't experienced it. And mfm can be a regular thing with the right guy. It's easier to discuss with our wife, especially if we sincerly ask her what she fantsizes about, or what she sometimes dreams about. And.....under the cover of a "dream" you can, in nuanced fashion reveal your fantasy, sit back, and let her react. I wouldn't make it too wild, though. Stay away from all the bullshit porn terms and concepts. This shouldn't be difficult assuming your relationship is strong and the two of you communicate well.
Expecting our wife to quickly warm up to the idea of humiliating, putting a chastity cage on, and cutting off from sex the man she loves and married is a big leap. There's few, if any, statistics on how many couples practice cuckolding. On the other hand, with very little effort you can find stats on threesomes and open marriages. And how those worked out.
A threesome with a guy she really likes is much more realistic, and as a husband participating in mfm you'll begin to experience many "cuckold" feelings and emotions while watching your sexy wife enjoy the other man. But there's always this: she may not want to fuck another man. Going back to the "dating process" is the last thing many wives want. You just have to stand in her shoes and try to see things from her viewpoint before you broadside her with your idea of IR sex with a stranger - a huge bull who knocks her up while you watch and ejaculate in your cage. That's a tough sell....
Expecting our wife to quickly warm up to the idea of humiliating, putting a chastity cage on, and cutting off from sex the man she loves and married is a big leap. There's few, if any, statistics on how many couples practice cuckolding. On the other hand, with very little effort you can find stats on threesomes and open marriages. And how those worked out.
A threesome with a guy she really likes is much more realistic, and as a husband participating in mfm you'll begin to experience many "cuckold" feelings and emotions while watching your sexy wife enjoy the other man. But there's always this: she may not want to fuck another man. Going back to the "dating process" is the last thing many wives want. You just have to stand in her shoes and try to see things from her viewpoint before you broadside her with your idea of IR sex with a stranger - a huge bull who knocks her up while you watch and ejaculate in your cage. That's a tough sell....
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