I wonder if any of you pre-selected a partner based on his or her compatibility to cuckolding and the LS. I often think that something I should have done in my young adulthood was to place a detailed and explicit ad in swinger magazines (this would have been long before the internet). I would have made clear that she had to be ok with being shared with other men (including groups of men), had to be ok with interracial play, had to be sexually uninhibited, and be ok with sharing me with other men and women. Would have made clear that she had to be over 30, could be bisexual or straight, could have normal appearance and didn't have to look like a porn star, and could be any race/ethnicity. Have any of you men or woman used personal ads, including today's online platforms, to select a long-term partner or spouse who conformed with your demands for cuckolding and the LS along with specifics like I mentioned? I wonder if this is a much more practical way to ensure that partners or spouses are sexually compatible instead of the hit-and-miss practice of dating and hookups. On the other hand, there is no mystery or excitement about crossing new boundaries when everything is out in the open from the beginning.