Finding Right Partner for Cuck-Lifestyle

I wonder if any of you pre-selected a partner based on his or her compatibility to cuckolding and the LS. I often think that something I should have done in my young adulthood was to place a detailed and explicit ad in swinger magazines (this would have been long before the internet). I would have made clear that she had to be ok with being shared with other men (including groups of men), had to be ok with interracial play, had to be sexually uninhibited, and be ok with sharing me with other men and women. Would have made clear that she had to be over 30, could be bisexual or straight, could have normal appearance and didn't have to look like a porn star, and could be any race/ethnicity. Have any of you men or woman used personal ads, including today's online platforms, to select a long-term partner or spouse who conformed with your demands for cuckolding and the LS along with specifics like I mentioned? I wonder if this is a much more practical way to ensure that partners or spouses are sexually compatible instead of the hit-and-miss practice of dating and hookups. On the other hand, there is no mystery or excitement about crossing new boundaries when everything is out in the open from the beginning.
 
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I wonder if any of you pre-selected a partner based on his or her compatibility to cuckolding and the LS. I often think that something I should have done in my young adulthood was to place a detailed and explicit ad in swinger magazines (this would have been long before the internet). I would have made clear that she had to be ok with being shared with other men (including groups of men), had to be ok with interracial play, had to be sexually uninhibited, and be ok with sharing me with other men and women. Would have made clear that she had to be over 30, could be bisexual or straight, could have normal appearance and didn't have to look like a porn star, and could be any race/ethnicity. Have any of you men or woman used personal ads, including today's online platforms, to select a long-term partner or spouse who conformed with your demands for cuckolding and the LS along with specifics like I mentioned? I wonder if this is a much more practical way to ensure that partners or spouses are sexually compatible instead of the hit-and-miss practice of dating and hookups. On the other hand, there is no mystery or excitement about crossing new boundaries when everything is out in the open from the beginning.
Wife used Craigslist in the past for fun. She had one boyfriend for almost 4 years from there. Some of her other dates were from school and from her girlfriend’s recommendations. When they say girls don’t talk about things like that well not exactly true
 
I found my current wife on SLS. First time we met was at a threesome with her boyfriend. She was really into just swinging then. Now she is mostly just a hotwife. My job is to find guys to come over and play with her. We have both straight and BI friends. After expeniencing life like this i cannot imagine ever going back to the life of monogamy and don't ever look at another woman etc.
 
I have had I’d say around 3 or so women who I dated that absolutely in one case was instantly was up for being shared and wanted me to watch her bring fucked etc etc - she was separated and I think had a stake sex life with her hubby . The other2 or3 I’m sure would not have taken much to have them try it or swing or take another cock . You will know when you date them if they like / enjoy sex and are sexual women I’m pretty sure with a bit commitment from you they will be down to fuck . If they open minded - wear sexy stuff and watch porn with you I’d say try them with it or a 3 sum at first . In fact another one I had while we were chatting I joked and said I will turn her out to my workmates and that was her fantasy to be pimped out - loads of women have done kinky stuff in there mind . You will soon know if you are lucky enough to get / meet one of these type of woman .