hi i am married and bi my husband is not when i first started to feel i was bi was in school going in open showers i liked to see other girls nude when i made a friend then we hung out a lot having sleep overs things like that seeing each other nude was exciting to me one night we got into checking each other out close up i would look at her pussy open up look inside holding my butt cheeks open so she could look i remember the first time i was touched felt her fingers open my pussy and she said i was wet ,that day we just liked looking and touching i remember doing it to her and feeling my fingers wet it turned me on so much wanted to do much as time went on with us we did .but i knew i was bi then
first experiences that you did to know you were bi
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I'd always suspected I might be, then suppressed it. Once I started cheating on my wife, I met couples pretty much exclusively. I always enjoyed being with the woman (still do) but every now and again I would fixate or get a little too turned on by the other guy's cock.
I met a couple that was giving out massages (for a price) and they mentioned the guy was pretty bicurious. He was big, porn star big, so I wasn't about to do anything crazy but when he couldn't get it up from exhaustion and seeing other people before me, his wife blew him and I gave my first handjob. She liked seeing it and I liked having a cock in my hand.
I have tried more over the years, but very small steps. I met a guy one on one, he dropped his pants and I hotdogged him, which was fun but I wasn't super into it. That's when I realized that while I get super hot and wanna play with whoever, I'm just not that into guys outside of a group context.
The biggest and last step I took was meeting a bi couple for a gb, but I was the only one that showed up. We went upstairs, I got to experience dp'ing a woman for the first, and so far only time, and when it was over and I still hadn't cum they both sucked my dick.
Since then, I love jerking with other guys but that's about it if we're alone. Maybe a handy if the mood is cool, but it really has to be a couple for me to wanna do more. I haven't had any luck in recent memory, so for now porn and other people's stories are the only way I can experience it lol.
I met a couple that was giving out massages (for a price) and they mentioned the guy was pretty bicurious. He was big, porn star big, so I wasn't about to do anything crazy but when he couldn't get it up from exhaustion and seeing other people before me, his wife blew him and I gave my first handjob. She liked seeing it and I liked having a cock in my hand.
I have tried more over the years, but very small steps. I met a guy one on one, he dropped his pants and I hotdogged him, which was fun but I wasn't super into it. That's when I realized that while I get super hot and wanna play with whoever, I'm just not that into guys outside of a group context.
The biggest and last step I took was meeting a bi couple for a gb, but I was the only one that showed up. We went upstairs, I got to experience dp'ing a woman for the first, and so far only time, and when it was over and I still hadn't cum they both sucked my dick.
Since then, I love jerking with other guys but that's about it if we're alone. Maybe a handy if the mood is cool, but it really has to be a couple for me to wanna do more. I haven't had any luck in recent memory, so for now porn and other people's stories are the only way I can experience it lol.
Mfmcan42
Male
I remember once a male friend of mine drunkenly started making out with me at a party. Although I wasn’t attracted to him, I immediately went to the bathroom after and jerked off. I’m not sure I knew I was “bi” but I knew it made me feel something I’d never felt before.
Shortly afterwards my girlfriend at the time had a book of pornograpic stories. One of them was about a straight guy mmf encounter that accidentally turned bi. I had never considered an encounter such as that in all of my many jerk off scenarios (this was pre internet when I had to use my imagination). It turned me on so much that I’ve been craving cock ever since.
Shortly afterwards my girlfriend at the time had a book of pornograpic stories. One of them was about a straight guy mmf encounter that accidentally turned bi. I had never considered an encounter such as that in all of my many jerk off scenarios (this was pre internet when I had to use my imagination). It turned me on so much that I’ve been craving cock ever since.
You really should go for it. I went from bicurious to a full blown cock sucker after sucking my 1st cock.
My first time was with a great guy who we saw over a time and who was very open and experimenting. He had an amazing way with my wife making her come over and over again and making her fall in love with really rough sex and light bdsm. It turned me on to see how crazy he made her. One time in a threesome he began playing with my cock and ass and before I knew it Inwas being fucked by him while I licked my wifes soaking wet pussy. It was a huge turnon for all three of us and the awakening of my bi side😊
Mfmcan42
Male
Oh I’ve sucked a few cocks since then. Once while that same girlfriend (now wife) was there and sucking too. But it’s been a LONG time since I’ve had one in my mouth.
Discretefun66
Male
I was in my early 30's when I had my first experience with another man. We had just started in the lifestyle and after our first MFM adventure I was curious. I admit at that time or before if you had asked me if I had any interest in other men the answer would not only be no but hell no. Something changed in me after that first MFM with the wife. Nothing happened between me and that guy it was just a change in my thinking. I became more open minded for several reasons and wanted to at least explore the idea. I was able to connect with another man who was experienced and we met, that was the first time I sucked another man's cock. So that was 1998 and my interest evolved over the last 25 or so years to where I am today as far as my comfort level with having sex with other men. Based off of my experience and limitations I typically do not refer to myself as bi but get the reference. I would add that for me with out question opening up to this side of me has been a positive. For our adventures, having the dynamic of me participating in a MFM with another man who is at my comfort level sexually has made our experiences that much more awesome.
Mfmcan42
Male
Same here. I don’t identify as bi, but I’m ok with the label. It’s hard to find people that are in the same boat as me. Straight acting, married, family man. But who is interesting in exploring more with other men.
There's a lot of men out there just like you and like most straight men, don't want to use the gay dating apps.
Try some of the apps, your search won't be long.
Discretefun66
Male
I think I have been lucky as far as finding other like-minded men. Some have come from the MFM adventure the wife and me have had but I have many solo adventures to. Started when Craigslist was a good source and now use Doublelist mostly, but have found some people on Adult Friend Finder.
Mfmcan42
Male
Any recommendations? I’m assuming most are paid. And for obvious reasons, I can’t really go that route.
when i was very young at school,-+10yrs,i didn,t know what bi mented,but i was many times token by older students or groped in toilets,playground or in classroom under the table,and i had to french kiss them(i was good in it),going with my hands in their pants to jerk them off or grind with my ass against their cock (sometimes sitting on their lap)and teachers must seen it!why they took me?I ,m not sure but some guys said i was better than girls because i was so cute&obedient,so i never heard what bi was at that age but i didn,t complained to feel my first cocks
I never really had any thoughts of being bi. My wife had expressed before how hot it is to her to watch two men together. She had pegged me and caged me before, witch all started by her caging me from three days before our wedding till the night of. That night she started, what I would realize later, the training of my pussy with butt plugs. One night she invited her ex over for some bedroom fun. She had me caged and in some assless panties. After a few drinks she told me to come over and eat her out. While I was doing that with my ass in the air, completely unaware of her intention, she told her ex "come over here and show my husband what it feels like to be fucked by a real cock." My heart immediately started pounding, not knowing what to expect. I felt his larger than mine, cock press against me. As I felt his 8 inches starting to slide into what we now refer to as my pussy, I was shocked to how good it felt feeling him deep inside me. Since then we have been with other men and I have sucked there cock and been cucked, but I'm still waiting for the next cock to fuck my pussy. We recently found a new Bi bull and am now eagerly waiting to receive his huge load deep in my pussy.
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Yep I am thinking the same thing
1st time I had a dick in my mouth I was about 12. Another kid from the neighborhood, Charlie, and we started ti play with each others dicks on a regular basis, we used to call it "fooling around", it was natural for me to take his dick in mouth.
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Then there was a 40+ year hiatus.
Got involved on Manhunt based upon a story in the newspaper and a lot of curiosity. I never looked back. I am a born cocksucker and love every second.
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For years I had been encouraging my wife to take a lover, a sex partner. A person or persons to satisfy her sexual needs and desires. She has absolutely refused. Early on this quest I setup an AFF profile for her, gave her CL links, got her condoms and her favorite lube and an extra (for travel) dildo. Even setup a private massage for her hoping she would accept his 'extra'.
After years and a lot of discussion she has finally agreed to an MMF. But she is definitely giving me the slow roll. Each time I say let's look at ads for a candidate she says OK but then begs off for various reasons. Only once have I been able to get her to the computer. We started looking at 'men seeking a couple' then she said let's look at 'men seeking a female'. Candidly my plan is to let her and him have at it and try to move out of the action.
She does understands that I MUST be present, she doesn't want to be watched that's why the MMF. As an aside one of her fantasy's and her turns on's has always been being to be watched. OK so things change, I got it.
Each ad we looked at had an issue; too young, too old, too big, too small. Then she threw me off by saying why don't we look at 'men seeking men'. WTF. She said she would be interested in watching me with another man. I think she did this as a tit-for-tat expecting me to resist thereby justifying her past resistance. BUT 2 can play that game. I asked her is she was sure, by asking her how she'd feel about me after watching me on my hands and knees sucking another cock. She mirrored what I always have told her 'it's only sex'.
I agreed. At that computer session, with us both at the computer I set up a 'play date' 2 days hence with a guy visiting a nearby tourist area. I think she was a little surprised, that I would actually do it and so soon. I told her, why wait?
I did follow through with the M2M thing.
So I found a guy on CL. We went to his motel. He & I stripped as she sat in the chair fully clothed. He laid on the bed and I got between his legs on my knees and took him in my mouth. Within moments he was hard. Surprisingly she got up and rubbed my dick. He was about to cum but wanted to wait so I let up for a moment. Then went back to his cock. He asked her to rub his cock. She complied. She was jerking the shaft while the head was in my mouth. Then he announced his was gonna cum, she didn't let up, neither did I. She jerked him to completion into my mouth and I took his entire load. When done I tried to kiss her with some cum on my lips, she turned away.
He quickly got up and dressed. I followed suit and we left.
On the way home I asked her if she liked it, she said not really. She didn't ask if I did, so I told her to ask me, she did and I told her it was great, I loved it, it was fun, that cum wasn't so bad.
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Then there was a 40+ year hiatus.
Got involved on Manhunt based upon a story in the newspaper and a lot of curiosity. I never looked back. I am a born cocksucker and love every second.
==============================
For years I had been encouraging my wife to take a lover, a sex partner. A person or persons to satisfy her sexual needs and desires. She has absolutely refused. Early on this quest I setup an AFF profile for her, gave her CL links, got her condoms and her favorite lube and an extra (for travel) dildo. Even setup a private massage for her hoping she would accept his 'extra'.
After years and a lot of discussion she has finally agreed to an MMF. But she is definitely giving me the slow roll. Each time I say let's look at ads for a candidate she says OK but then begs off for various reasons. Only once have I been able to get her to the computer. We started looking at 'men seeking a couple' then she said let's look at 'men seeking a female'. Candidly my plan is to let her and him have at it and try to move out of the action.
She does understands that I MUST be present, she doesn't want to be watched that's why the MMF. As an aside one of her fantasy's and her turns on's has always been being to be watched. OK so things change, I got it.
Each ad we looked at had an issue; too young, too old, too big, too small. Then she threw me off by saying why don't we look at 'men seeking men'. WTF. She said she would be interested in watching me with another man. I think she did this as a tit-for-tat expecting me to resist thereby justifying her past resistance. BUT 2 can play that game. I asked her is she was sure, by asking her how she'd feel about me after watching me on my hands and knees sucking another cock. She mirrored what I always have told her 'it's only sex'.
I agreed. At that computer session, with us both at the computer I set up a 'play date' 2 days hence with a guy visiting a nearby tourist area. I think she was a little surprised, that I would actually do it and so soon. I told her, why wait?
I did follow through with the M2M thing.
So I found a guy on CL. We went to his motel. He & I stripped as she sat in the chair fully clothed. He laid on the bed and I got between his legs on my knees and took him in my mouth. Within moments he was hard. Surprisingly she got up and rubbed my dick. He was about to cum but wanted to wait so I let up for a moment. Then went back to his cock. He asked her to rub his cock. She complied. She was jerking the shaft while the head was in my mouth. Then he announced his was gonna cum, she didn't let up, neither did I. She jerked him to completion into my mouth and I took his entire load. When done I tried to kiss her with some cum on my lips, she turned away.
He quickly got up and dressed. I followed suit and we left.
On the way home I asked her if she liked it, she said not really. She didn't ask if I did, so I told her to ask me, she did and I told her it was great, I loved it, it was fun, that cum wasn't so bad.
had a conversation, with my wife, about how much she like sucking dick. i told her i liked how much she liked it & that it made me curious to try it, myself.
she shocked me by asking, without hesitation, if she could watch. unfortunately, we never got the chance.
she shocked me by asking, without hesitation, if she could watch. unfortunately, we never got the chance.
My ladyfriend knows I like to suck cock and she's OK with it. She also expressed an intest in watching. I had a hookup one morning and texted her (after his OK) if she really wanted to watch now is the time. She was at my house in minutes, just before he arrived. She sat across the room watching as he stripped and sat down, I got on my knees and started to suck him immediately. After a few minutes she asked if she could get a closer look and sat on the couch with us. After few minutes of this she reached over to hold his cock which led to us both sucking him off. I moved a way for a moment and she took over. I whispered i her ear it's OK if you wan to fuck him. She then asked him if he wanted to fuck, he said yes, we headed to the BR and all stripped and got on the bed.
She got doggy and he lubed his cock with saliva and was in her in seconds, she was sucking me while he fucked her, her a true spit-roast. He was alternating between her cunt and ass, she loves anal. When he was ready he filled her beautiful cunt with cum. She laid flat and I cleaned her as he dressed and left. When she was clean she sucked my cock until I came in her mouth.
It was great experience. It was our 1st 3-some but not our last.
i would have loved that.
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