first experiences that you did to know you were bi
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Years before I was married I got bored and horny and this guy online IM'd me.. kept on asking me to come over get a blow job and leave. We exchanged body and dick pics .. I kept on putting him off until in night I was horny as fuck and he said come over dark bedroom and find his bedroom.. so I said fuck it and he loved 3 mins away... found the house walked in for the bedroom I walked in stripped and got into bed and felt him naked and then I felt rock hard cock!! I stroked and he said suck on it!! So I did and did and did until he rolled me over on my back and straddled me and jerked his cock until he exploded on my cock ... then her jerked and sucked my cock with his come on it and I finally exploded in his mouth... that's when I knew I was bi I havnt messed around since I till a month ago with wife's blessing!!!
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dinoo-2
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When we moved to the south of our country after six years of marriage, we lost the opportunity to visit a nudist beach regularly.
However, not far from our new home, there was an inland lake with a club where nudity was even compulsory. And gay and lesbian couples also went there, to a limited extent.
My wife's attention was drawn to two men who were playing with each other. When one of them looked around to see if other people had noticed, my wife gave him a thumbs up to show that she didn't mind.
He smiled and continued, but now more openly. Much to my wife's delight. She told me she found it very exciting to see two men playing with each other.
Decades later, in what became our favorite club, I helped a man fuck his own wife. Completely unexpectedly, he put his cock in my mouth. And even more unexpectedly, my wife started jerking him off.
The difference between the relatively soft glans and the hard penis was a revelation to me. Only then did I understand why my wife loved giving men blow jobs so much.
Giving men blow jobs became a ‘normal’ activity, much to my wife's delight.
However, not far from our new home, there was an inland lake with a club where nudity was even compulsory. And gay and lesbian couples also went there, to a limited extent.
My wife's attention was drawn to two men who were playing with each other. When one of them looked around to see if other people had noticed, my wife gave him a thumbs up to show that she didn't mind.
He smiled and continued, but now more openly. Much to my wife's delight. She told me she found it very exciting to see two men playing with each other.
Decades later, in what became our favorite club, I helped a man fuck his own wife. Completely unexpectedly, he put his cock in my mouth. And even more unexpectedly, my wife started jerking him off.
The difference between the relatively soft glans and the hard penis was a revelation to me. Only then did I understand why my wife loved giving men blow jobs so much.
Giving men blow jobs became a ‘normal’ activity, much to my wife's delight.
That feeling of lust when my wife is really getting off on fucking someone- I can relate. Seeing her getting off so much on her friends cock makes me want to get his cock off or fucked by him. Sharing his cum with her and seeing how turned on it makes her is win/win for all involved.
Had some m/m experiences during those formative years and always understood guys just wanting to get off. As I got older as a teenager I was the young guy hanging out with some guys in their late 20's or older. Lots of comments about my sucking their cock or bending me over and "cornholing me". Came to a head one night when one of them dropped his pants and offered me all his cash if I'd just suck his cock. Someone else in the group put an end to it but I was about ready to swallow my first cock. The idea of getting used like that was a huge turn on despite my attraction to woman. Fast forward to a few years later and a few mfm's later and I was on my knee's sucking my first cock. Instantly understood why it was such a turn on and got comfortable with being bi from that point on.
I am just like you, buddy. I only like dudes if there is a woman in the mix. It is really weird how I am wired. I sometimes lust after a man, but it’s very much a competitive thing: I want to outdick him when a woman’s present. I like dudes to see my Big Boy, but really do not want them to interact with it. The only exception would be maybe a hot dude giving me a handjob or holding my big dick when a woman is blowing me or something like that. Some ass- slapping when we are both with a woman at the same time— that is hot! But just man-on- man without a woman— not my thing. Also, I don’t ever like sucking dick or really getting sucked my a dude. A handjob is all.
I am really into impregnation fantasies that involve other men watching me up close.
My bisexual side is really just rooted in competition for the female. Like you see in the animal world. Male animals get aroused by other male animals they see as competition.
Nice story & I know the excitement a choice like that can send through your body as I have a somewhat similar story. My wife & I had played with another guy but I'd never done anything on my own. The guy & I would chat about getting together but never really acted on it. One day I decided to let loose a little & see what might happen so I invited him over to watch porn while my wife was out. We put some video on & started rubbing our own cocks then I think I reached over & started rubbing his cock. At some point I said fuck-it, I'm want to know if i can do it, so I got down between his legs, put his cock in my mouth & just started sucking. He seemed to be enjoying it so carried on, playing with his balls & stroking his cock with my hand while I sucked. Next thing I know he's getting close & I think he expected me to pull off but I wanted the full experience so I let him blow in my mouth. He seemed a little surprised that I took his cum but enjoyed the experience. At this point this is the only time I've done this alone. I still think about doing it again but need to find another willing participant.
Yup, accepting.embracing and owning your desire for cock is the final step. Plus it's very liberating. Now I find it hot when my lovers call me a faggot, cock sucker and other names. I love it when I'm on my knees being a cock sucker.
Meeting my buddy later on… he was the first that I knew I was bi and he said he wants to fuck me tonight
Being a competitive male makes me get aroused by other men. It is not the same kind of feeling I get when I want to breed a woman, or lick her pussy. It is a competitive attraction. Gay sex videos just don’t turn me on — they bore me. But watching a sexy man Jack off or show his ass for the women — that can get me very aroused. And if his dick is big lager, that will really get me hard. But I still don’t have a desire to suck his dick or get mine sucked by him. Hard to explain. A little feeling-up and ass-slapping would suffice— and that is only of a woman is present.
