I figured I should throw my two-cents in as an observer of this debacle. I have to admit that I was very nervous and anxious before he arrived. Half of me wanted to lock the door and hide my wife. The other half wanted to punch through every wall.
Once he arrived, there was some small talk. He said he was bringing a nightcap, but he showed up with two cans of something in his sweatshirt. Yikes.
Once it started, I was able to relax some. Still some jealousy but I figure that’s a part of this, especially in the beginning. The kissed, she stroked and blew him. He kind of fingered her although it didn't really seem as though he knew what he was doing. I know my wife’s body language but it was like he wasn’t paying attention room to any signs.
Then it began: The great tug off of 2021. My wife gives great head and killer hand jobs but after 45 mins, it was like a windsock on a windless day. This was supposed to be so thrilling and hot but I found myself more interested at times in the football game on tv.
When he finally got “hard”, he tried to circumvent one of our major rules, and go bareback, but luckily my wife is amazing and stopped that really quick.
Then the sex. A few moments of maybe good thrusting, but literally five minutes and he asked for a break.…yikes. I love my wife so much and I’m so proud of her for taking that big step, but damn it was awful and cringey to watch and from what I understand, it was even worse to experience.
I made her cum after he left and then we fucked for a while. Sadly the awfulness of the sex kind of ruined the reconnection because we were both laughing a bunch.
There are some things I need to work through emotionally but hopefully there are better interactions in our future because fuck me that was bad.