First timer freaking out a little bit!

Hi all! My husband has been talking about this cuckold fantasy he's had for the past couple of years now. We've role played a lot and he really wants this to happen. After many lengthy discussions I learned exactly what he has in mind. I've agreed to do it so he set up a profile on a site and we've talked to several guys. We met one guy a couple of weeks ago but I wasn't a fan of him. He made the whole thing seem like a business transaction and like he was doing us a favor! He kind of is but he is getting NSA sex so he should be a tiny bit grateful! Anyway, we're meeting another guy soon and nerves are hitting me hard. To those that have done this before, were you super nervous? Anything go badly that you didn't think about and want to warn me of?
My wifes first time, I watched her cum again and again as he fucked her and listened to her moan how much she loved his cock. Then after he was finished I took his place between her legs and fucked her. Afterwards she started crying and cussing me asking "How could you get excited watching another man pleasure the woman you love?" Then she tried to tell me she didn't enjoy fucking him. I knew it was a lie though. After lots of discussions about it she admitted she felt guilty afterwards because she didn't want me fucking other women and wouldn't want to watch for sure. Finally she understood I didn't want other women but did get pleasure watching her enjoying other mens cocks and she admitted she loved fucking him as I watched and wanted to fuck other men. Shes been doing it ever since and that was about a month after we got married. We've been married 17 yrs. now and we both love her fucking other men often.
 
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Hey there,just putting my 2 cents in lol
We have been in the lifestyle for over 30 years,hubby has been with a few women with me over the years,I enjoyed it as did he,but he loves sharing me with the fellows,he and I both are open and honest I don't step out on him without his blessings and only have 2 guys that I meet alone.he says to see someone enjoy me as much as he does is his turn on .when I'm having sex with someone and look at him enjoying it ,its like a mirror ,I myself love it as much as him.and like hubby he loves to fuck me after I've had a good fuck and am ful of cum the feeling for us both is amazing.we have just recently got into the cuckold scene and are still finding our way thru.be safe be honest be careful and have fun.feel free to ask anything if u need 2.xoxo Lynn
 
Sure those type of things will increase your cucks anxiety level thus making the experience more rewarding for him, but I would tread lightly with this kind of stuff at first. Even though he says this is what he wants, being cuckolded in reality is much different than the fantasy he has going in his head. You should expect him to be a little moody over the next few days while he processes what he's seen. You may as well have some feelings of guilt and shame. This type of thing for you will soon pass. You most likely will soon be looking for your next play date. I suggest you take your time and develop your cuck slowly. He will be experiencing emotions he never new existed. Ensure he knows he's your number one, and these other guys are just dicks to you. You two need to talk all the time. If you sense he has an issue talk it out, and never let an issue fester. If you don't the results can be devastating to your marriage. Living the hotwife/cuck lifestyle can be a lot of fun. But, dealing with a first time cuck hubby can be a lot of work. Definitely worth it in the long run if you can talk things out and negotiate all the bumps in the road. I have always said the journey is more fun than the destination. Developing his angst the days before a play date will help get him in the proper mind set to see you with another man. My wife will often tell me a few days before she can't wait to suck her new lovers cock and feel him inside her body. She'll let me read some of the steamy texts she's had with him through out the week. You might want to tease and deny him a few days before your play date. You should refrain from letting him cum. I know it sounds mean especially if you've been teasing him. But cucks like that kind of thing. Save your sex for after your play date and let him "reclaim" you. You will find it to be some of the best sex you've ever had with your husband. good luck!
Your advice is a carbon copy of what we would suggest. Thank You so much for sharing. Sometimes we wonder if we are all alone as being misfits of society because we have these fantasies and playdates. Nobody in their right mind would ever share their partner with another......
 
Great conversation, trying to get my fiance in the lifestyle, we watch IR porn, have blindfolded her along with tieing her up and enjoyed the pleasure, would like to step up our fantasy and have her enjoy the pleasure of another while watching, slowly or should I say very slowly getting there, but fun. Any advice on reaching that next level without freaking her out? Understand communication is important, just looking for a more exotic fun way.
 
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