The guy from Chicago was just something I made up on the spur of the moment because she started wearing lingerie for me and I thought it would be fun and it was she has a 7 inch rabbit vibe that she has used on herself wile I jerk off on her the last time was when she had me eat her out after I shot my load all over her pussy then she felt bad about it and it hasn’t happened again
Found a hotwife beginners manual my wife actually liked
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We are going on vacation in October by ourselves no kids so we are going to play hotwife the whole week I’m get her an anklet to wear that week with a vixen charm on it I can’t wait to see how attention she gets it will help her a lot she is a BBW but has lost over 70 pounds in the last 18 months or so she is still self conscious about her body but I think if she gets enough attention from the ankle the will help her
Sounds like fun... very similar to our role-playing. I've tried a bunch of different vibrators, but not a rabbit type yet, but I do like playing with my realistic silicone dildos... looks and feels like the real thing, only in my case,, a little thicker and a little longer than my hubby's...lol
My hubby also bought me an anklet to wear out and it's kinda thrilling to think other guys may know what it means, and them wondering if I know what it means. Did you get the idea from the hw book? I was pretty nervous about this whole hw thing until I began to treat it like a big fun game of dares and challenges that I get to pick out from the book for me and my hubby to do. And for me the ones we have to act out in public are the best.
Yeah I got the idea from the book we live in a small rural town in central Iowa so we need to go away from were we live me know just about every one in town or we know someone that knows someone so we figured that we would do it when we were out of the state people around here are very judgmental and the plan is to take 1 vacation each year by ourselves and do whatever we want for that week
Agree. Mine anklet has a heart charm on it - gets me many “hits”
Wow I said this before but if my wife decides to become a cuckoldress in real life she is going to be great last night I was teaching her how to edge me by jacking me off and she was getting it down really good she edged me 4 times and on the 5th time I told her to stop but she just kept going and put me over the edge she loved the control
my wife has worn an anklet for years and never has anyone picked up on it. It has 3 hearts on it
A Complete Guide to Figging
Published by Kristan X on 4th February 2022Figging is the practise of inserting a peeled ginger root (the same kind you might find in your kitchen) into a willing victim’s arse. Why? For the delightful/painful burning sensation that this causes.
Some people enjoy the sensation caused by figging. Others hate it. Thus it can be used as a sensory reward or a punishment as appropriate.
The advantages of figging as a kinky activity are numerous:
- It’s a completely natural, organic kink
- It’s relatively safe
- It’s weird and, for most people, novel
- It produces sensations you can’t get any other way
Contents
How to fig
Safety considerations
Variations on figging
Other substances
How to fig
Like most great adventures, this one begins with a trip to the grocery store. You’re looking for a whole piece of ginger – preferably a fairly chunky one that hasn’t yet been cut up. Here’s a good example.
As well as being a particularly handsome chunk of root, this piece of ginger also has several convenient “fingers”. These are perfect for whittling into something that can be inserted into the tender orifice of your choice.
Take your ginger root and trim it down. Keep the central knob of root, and cut away all but one of the fingers. You’ll have something that vaguely resembles an alien butt plug.
Now, remove the skin from the finger, but leave the skin on the “handle”. While you’re at it you can whittle down the finger so that it resembles a butt plug even more closely. That means a tapered tip and a narrow neck near the base. Not too narrow, of course – you don’t want it to snap.
Once you’re satisfied with your tool, it’s time to play. Run it under the tap to wash off any debris and make it nice and slimy. Have your partner get into position and ease the root into them. It should be slippy enough to slide right in without any lube, but use some if you need to. Try and keep it minimal, though, as lube will diminish any burning sensations.
Your partner might only be comfortable with the tip, or they might be able to take the root all the way down to the little neck you carved two paragraphs ago. This will help hold it in place and stop it moving – although bear in mind the root is real slippy and the arse is a strong muscle. If the whole thing could conceivably fit into their arse it’s best to keep hold of the handle to prevent this from happening.
The receiver probably won’t notice anything right away (well, they’ll notice that you’ve stuck a root up their arse, but no burning sensation). It may take from five or ten minutes for the sensation to really kick in. It’ll ramp up the longer the root is left in, topping out and then subsiding after about half an hour.
And that, my friends, is figging. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
Safety considerations
Ingestion
The ass, as a muscle, is legendary for its ability to suck things in as well as expel them. If you don’t leave a sizeable “handle” of ginger root, this could well happen to you and your partner.If you don’t want to be the couple who have to go to the emergency room to have an inconvenient vegetable removed from an orifice you should:
- Leave a big “handle” of ginger at the base of any figging tool
- Don’t make the finger too narrow, or it could snap
- Keep hold of the handle of your figging tool while it’s in use
Intensity
Figging produces an intense burning sensation. It doesn’t last forever – 20-30 minutes at most, in fact, but once you’ve gotten started there’s really no way to stop it. If you find the burning uncomfortable… well… you’re just going to have to ride it out.For this reason I recommend starting slowly. Experiment with a small finger of ginger and a short period of insertion. Stick it in for five minutes and then remove it and see how long the burning lasts (and how tolerable it is) before going back for more.
Your precious eyes
While cutting and shaping your ginger root, you’ll inevitably get a fair amount of ginger oil on your hands. Unless you had the foresight to wear gloves, you’ll want to give them a good wash before doing anything else. Just like with chillies, getting ginger oil in your eyes will burn in a way that’s anything but gentle and warming.Variations on figging
You’ve figged yourself or your partner. It went down well. What next? Well, there’s actually loads you can do to make this simple freaky act more interesting.
Combine with impact play
There are some claims floating around out there that this is a traditional practise. I can’t speak about their accuracy one way or another, but the Victorians did get up to some pretty wild stuff, so who knows?Stick some ginger in your partner. Give it a minute to take effect, then whack them with the cane. Your partner’s natural response will be to tense up, thus clenching down on the ginger and enhancing the burning sensation. Oof.
Other sensitive areas
As I’m always telling people: you don’t have to limit yourself to the anus. Ginger can be used to inflict a punitive or pleasant burning sensation on many parts of the body. Try it on any of the following.| Clit | Cut a notch into a wedge of peeled ginger and snug it into place over the clit. |
| Vagina | Select a fat finger of ginger and carve it into something like a dildo. Use cautiously, though: inserting anything oily or foreign into the vagina is a recipe for a UTI. |
| Glans | Lop off a protrusion and press the exposed flesh of the ginger to the glans. |
| Mouth | Ginger burns a little when eaten. Making someone eat a nub of raw ginger is, thus, rather fun. |
| Hands | You don’t want to accidentally get ginger oils on your hands, but you might wish to deliberately ginger up a finger or two and then touch your partner with them. |
Ferment the ginger
Enjoy the burn but want something a little stronger? You can increase the potency of ginger by fermenting it – which sounds like a complex process, but is actually dead simple. Just put your whole ginger root in a plastic food bag, press out most of the air, seal it and stick it in the fridge.You can leave it there for quite a long time. Three days will be enough to have some effect, but you can leave it for up to two weeks to increase the strength even further.
When you come to unwrap it the root might have gotten a little gross. Mold spots and black patches on the skin are totally normal – you’ll remove them when you peel the root anyway. If it’s gone manky all the way through, though, bin it and try again.
Use this fermented ginger like you would a fresh root. You should notice that it is significantly more effective. And (if you want to save some for the kitchen) tastier too.
Other substances
Some brave souls enjoy experimenting with other substances that also cause a burning sensation. Chilli peppers and peppermint oil are two that come to mind. I recommend EXTREME CAUTION when playing with any of these. Capsaicin, I will say from experience, does not fuck around. If you must experiment, though, I recommend starting out with some of these on a non-sensitive area of the body.
My hubby got me one on a dare, and I wear it when we go out, and I can't say that I get "hit on" because I'm wearing my anklet, but I think most of the thrill is in my mind about me being out there, and what if some of those men knew what it means - are they looking at me differently?
I do know my hubby likes it when I wear it, and often comments (makes up?) that guys are checking me out. Doesn't really matter because either way it leads to great fantasy HW sex when we get home.
From the original post:
"The book is "The Faithful Hotwife: Exploring America's Fastest Growing Fantasy" I found it on Amazon as an ebook, but it might be at other places too."
It's probably a post by the books author. Duh
My hubby loaded this ebook
on my Kindle but I know he read it first on his own (maybe to see what he was gett into) because he was pretty anxious for me to read it to see what I thought.
He'd given me several hotwife type books before but I couldn't get through any of them, except I liked this one,
I liked reading it first on my own so I could digest all the information at my own pace. I really liked that it was written by a woman and explained why this fantasy is so popular with men.
After I was done reading the book on my own, it was really fun to read the book together and discuss the ideas and go through some fun hotwife challenges given in the book, but it got even more interesting when we got to the cuckold challenges.
on my Kindle but I know he read it first on his own (maybe to see what he was gett into) because he was pretty anxious for me to read it to see what I thought.
He'd given me several hotwife type books before but I couldn't get through any of them, except I liked this one,
I liked reading it first on my own so I could digest all the information at my own pace. I really liked that it was written by a woman and explained why this fantasy is so popular with men.
After I was done reading the book on my own, it was really fun to read the book together and discuss the ideas and go through some fun hotwife challenges given in the book, but it got even more interesting when we got to the cuckold challenges.
Took the advice from folks on here and bought two digital copies Of the above mentioned e-book. One for me and one that I sent to the wife. So far I don;t think that she’s looked at it as I only sent it the end of last week. I in turn have read it through. Some of the challenges/activities, we have already done but cannot wait to see if she rises to the challenge and attempts some of the other things in it. I am about to travel for 10 days and I’ll ask her to read through it and try some of them out. Will wait with anticipation to see if she reads and acts on these challenges.