I have this desire in my heart to fuck my wife with someone else in front of me but I don't have the courage to tell her. I have tried to tell her in gestures. But I can't open it. She watches porn with me. Videos with three people or wife fucking in front of husband have also been seen. But he didn't give any response. Need advice as there are many friends in this site who are into this lifestyle. Being Asian, our culture is different from other countries.
Guidance is required
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In same boat.. try make her lil tipsy and slowly share fantasy like role playing.
Haven't shared mine and tell her about my fantasy.. when she is horny she does take my both wrist and start sucking my fingers .
Tell her next time you are watching porn and fucking her.
It's not that simple and easy to tell her directly
I know the feeling. Maybe ask if she ever had that fantasy.
Instead of telling her my fantasy I should asked her that what is your fantasy,?
So I have asked many times what is it that turns you on, you tell me so we can turn it on even more. She says it turns me on when thought or imagination your cock and and you were fucking me
Buy a realistic, but not large dildo. make sure it doesn't smell and isn't too hard. Give it a first name. Only tease her with at first. DO NOT over do it at first. I soak my wife's favorite dildo in a large bowl filled with hot water to make it even more lifelike. Use lube on it before inserting it into her vagina. As you slowly fuck her with it, speak as if the dildo were real and its owner was fucking your wife.
After watching a movie or TV show or even porn, and you two are making love, tell her: If I were [the guy in the movie] and this was his cock, what would he do to you with it?
After she gets used to this sort of mild roleplaying, use the guy at the store or a neighbor or an old ex of hers as your stand-in in the fantasy.
The whole point is expand her mind, not her pussy. First, she must imagine herself in the situation of being fucked by someone else before she can imagine actually letting it happen.
After watching a movie or TV show or even porn, and you two are making love, tell her: If I were [the guy in the movie] and this was his cock, what would he do to you with it?
After she gets used to this sort of mild roleplaying, use the guy at the store or a neighbor or an old ex of hers as your stand-in in the fantasy.
The whole point is expand her mind, not her pussy. First, she must imagine herself in the situation of being fucked by someone else before she can imagine actually letting it happen.
Thanks for your guidance.
A positive thing is that she is willing to use sex toys.
But the role play you are talking about I did once with a lot of courage. She didn't say anything about it after that and I still haven't said anything. Now I don't know how he must have felt.
(If you think it is appropriate, then can we talk or chat on anybother messenger where we can talk easily?) I mean out of the website
“She watches porn with me. Videos with three people or wife fucking in front of husband have also been seen. But he didn't give any response.”
Just by watching this kind of porn is actually a response in itself. She may not be telling you verbally but if she’s receptive to watching it, that can be telling you just as much. I would suggest next time you’re both watching it again, without looking at her, ask her if she’s ever thought about or fantasized about her being in the position like the girl in the porn is in. Now when you ask her, it’s very important to look at her and that you immediately make it perfectly clear to her that you could see and completely understand that you’re sure that most women probably would, and that “if” you were a woman, you’d definitely consider it, and that as a man, you just can’t help but think it’s a really big turn on, and that in total honesty, it would be even a bigger turn on to actually watch her having such an amazing experience in real life. Go back to watching the porn and DON’T say another word! Keep your eyes on the movie and wait to see if she says anything afterwards or not. Using your peripheral vision however, pay very close attention to how she acts! Watch her body movements and what she does with her hands. Her body language can be extremely revealing, regardless of what she might say to you.
Thanks a lot for the advice.
The fact that she sees such content and she is excited to see it.After watching for some time she gets ready and ask me to fuck her.
From what you said above, while watching porn,I have ask her do you imagine yourself in the place of a female porn star, or ask her too, Will you be able to take the male star's cock?
But she doesn't give any specific answer
Well said that's how I started with my wife she soon took control and went wild for a week during our holidays fucking a different stranger every night for the week she picked up the men she wanted wasn't shy at all asking me to enjoy the show was she fucked hard by a few of them
Most often, people do not reveal things because they lack trust in how another person will react. And you know this is true because you are feeling it yourself.
If you really want to step forward, then you need to begin by building and enhancing your trust with your wife. This does not mean that you lack trust - it means you both fear judgment.
Every day that goes by, you can work on this. Keep in mind that it takes time and is not a fast process.
And that doing so *only* addresses trust for clear and open communication. It does not mean that your fantasies will get fulfilled.
This is done in many ways: Reducing the times when you question her about something like what she is doing or a decision she makes. When you catch yourself about to do that, stop yourself. If you don't stop in time, then stop yourself out loud to catch your tongue and say, "Wait, nevermind. I trust you. Forget that I asked that."
Show interest in her interests, but refrain from making disparaging comments. Like, "Why do you like to eat that?" These are judgments and suggests disapproval. Each day, ensure what you express is openness and understanding.
When she opens up about something (Yes, the nonsexual stuff) Encourage it. Politics, what movies she likes. Dont fake agreement. You can like different movies or not be interested in her favorite movie. But do not ever judge those interests.
Disagree without arguing. When you disagree over something and everything is fine after without any negativity - it helps. And the more that happens, the more it helps.
In Time, she will grow in her trust toward you and feel more comfortable to answer your questions and more receptive to your answers. Do not worry about tomorrow.
Maybe your fantasies will be realized, maybe not. But you still win by building something powerful and long lasting, too.
If you really want to step forward, then you need to begin by building and enhancing your trust with your wife. This does not mean that you lack trust - it means you both fear judgment.
Every day that goes by, you can work on this. Keep in mind that it takes time and is not a fast process.
And that doing so *only* addresses trust for clear and open communication. It does not mean that your fantasies will get fulfilled.
This is done in many ways: Reducing the times when you question her about something like what she is doing or a decision she makes. When you catch yourself about to do that, stop yourself. If you don't stop in time, then stop yourself out loud to catch your tongue and say, "Wait, nevermind. I trust you. Forget that I asked that."
Show interest in her interests, but refrain from making disparaging comments. Like, "Why do you like to eat that?" These are judgments and suggests disapproval. Each day, ensure what you express is openness and understanding.
When she opens up about something (Yes, the nonsexual stuff) Encourage it. Politics, what movies she likes. Dont fake agreement. You can like different movies or not be interested in her favorite movie. But do not ever judge those interests.
Disagree without arguing. When you disagree over something and everything is fine after without any negativity - it helps. And the more that happens, the more it helps.
In Time, she will grow in her trust toward you and feel more comfortable to answer your questions and more receptive to your answers. Do not worry about tomorrow.
Maybe your fantasies will be realized, maybe not. But you still win by building something powerful and long lasting, too.
Thanks for the information u shared I looking forward to hear from u
The best way is to show how much it turns you on. The next time you two are watching some porn with cuckold scenes just get the little guy out and show her how it makes you cum,. Might be a bit humiliating but isn't that part of the thrill?
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Sometimes "telling" might not be how your wife prefers to receive the information. Sometimes doing it might be the best way to communicate to her.
The experts say that you two would benefit 10 times more if you can have her do a hands-on training.
you two coming to the U.S. anytime? If she is here, it might be easier for you two to get help. Just a few notes:
Does she use contraception of some kind?
The beginners' lesson brings with it some other possibilities you need to know though.
After giving my first lesson to a couple I have learned to set expectations first.
So theres no disappointments on either side. What are the possibilities?
First, she could get pregnant and
Maybe she could end up with some mild fissures, slight bleeding, slight abrasions in the back door department.
If you are ok with that, you can have her jump in with both feet. It should be a great learning experience for you both.
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