I think most of the people here truly fantasize about the sexual freedom and speak as if they are sincere in accomplishing those dreams. But there is a breakdown in communication somewhere down the line . I have been here a short time and have had several heated intimate discussions and perhaps one serious inquiry . To sum it up , i think the fantasy , to some , is as good as the reality . I have a very active and creative imagination so im comfortable in either arena. Don't know.if I answered the thread but I wanted to.display my feelings on the subject