Has the lifestyle made your wife sexier?

It has definitely done more for her self confidence. She used to never flirt, not even a little. But now, she will find moments to touch, make little comments (innuendo). It's pretty fun when she will flirt right in front of me because the guys always seem confused.
 
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It did indeed make my wife a lot sexier and brought out her kinky side too. However one of her long term lovers collared her to him and she collared me to her, permanently. I knew by this time my sexuality was redundant in her eyes, so started my semi feminisation at her hand.

It started off with me becoming a daily paintie wearer and continued....
 
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Very much so, wife always dresses sexier even at home when no guests are expected, is flirty, and far more fun loving than before.
Sex is also much better so is the small talk...
She has got much more vocal during sex and also more demanding, like she will explicitly ask for how she wants to fuck.

Now sometimes when going to a party, I have to ask her if the dress is appropriate, she will go out like this.
 

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Very much so, wife always dresses sexier even at home when no guests are expected, is flirty, and far more fun loving than before.
Sex is also much better so is the small talk...
She has got much more vocal during sex and also more demanding, like she will explicitly ask for how she wants to fuck.

Now sometimes when going to a party, I have to ask her if the dress is appropriate, she will go out like this.
Another benefit we feel this lifestyle provides is the motivation to keep fit and eat healthy, fit = sexy, many of our friends from School and Uni who are our age are much less active and have put on a lot of weight.
 
As I said previously, a Bull is not doing his job if she does not start to look and feel sexier. One of the reasons why I love to bring wives into the lifestyle is to see the transformation in a wife who had stopped thinking of herself as a sexual person bloom into a vibrant sexually reinvigorated woman. They will start to pay more attention to themselves, get a makeover, dress sexier. And of course, sharing the excitement of new love with a newly sexually reawakened wife for me is tremendously is both a very emotional and ego gratifying experience. Finally, there are the little treats that happen like the cuck telling me how he came in his bathing suit at the community pool as she took off her cover-up and he noticed the nipple rings under her one piece bathing suit or when he came home and there was a picture of she and I naked in each others arms, her holding my cock and my hand on her breast on his night table. It simply does not get better than that. It is a privilege to be a Bull.
 
As I said previously, a Bull is not doing his job if she does not start to look and feel sexier. One of the reasons why I love to bring wives into the lifestyle is to see the transformation in a wife who had stopped thinking of herself as a sexual person bloom into a vibrant sexually reinvigorated woman. They will start to pay more attention to themselves, get a makeover, dress sexier. And of course, sharing the excitement of new love with a newly sexually reawakened wife for me is tremendously is both a very emotional and ego gratifying experience. Finally, there are the little treats that happen like the cuck telling me how he came in his bathing suit at the community pool as she took off her cover-up and he noticed the nipple rings under her one piece bathing suit or when he came home and there was a picture of she and I naked in each others arms, her holding my cock and my hand on her breast on his night table. It simply does not get better than that. It is a privilege to be a Bull.
Very well said.
 
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You know this is a very interesting topic and I would have to say yes since getting in the lifestyle I think my wife has kind of taken a little bit more pride in her appearance she began working out a little bit more obviously dressing a little bit more sexy she still has curves and all the right places, but she is much more of a sexual woman when she dresses she shows off a little bit more And I love it
 
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When we started messing with our guy friend our thoughts about sexy fun have really changed. She's more confident, she realized she's attractive and it shows. She's bought quite a few outfits and dresses that look fantastic. Not stripper, not swinger clothes just classy.
On a side note, she has several younger gal friends, 40-45, all married that have since started dressing similar. One of the gals had a pool party and they all wore high heels and swim suits. Us guys loved it. Nothing sexual at all happened but it's was sexy as hell.
 
My wife and I had always had a great sex life but when she had her first guy fuck her she definitely started to dress more sexy and she felt sexier. When she finally got me to suck cocks that really made her even more into seeing other guys
 
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YES....since we started all this my wife has way more self confidence, she works out more than she ever did. She dresses differently than befor, not necessarily sexy but classy.
We are late 50s, started about 4 years ago, it's been a semi regular thing for us for about 2 years, same friend every time.
Yes she's more sexy.
We are similar, we started swinging in our twenties nothing serious just fun with certain friends. As the years went by I just got to like watching Julie being fucked, we are now in our sixties and now have a old friend who comes over three or four times a year and will spend the weekend with Julie and I just fucking and having fun.
 
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