Help moving to next step…

[BigJake]

I REALLY want it to happen. I Want her to get there on her own but the process feels stuck at this point. She is SO into it when we talk about it during sex but is concerned it will affect our relationship if we take the next step and do it…

She is following your lead and willing to go there and has told you so. She can and will do it if you lead her there. now think of a few steps that move her in the right direction. Play spot the hot guy while out in public. Start by pointing out guys and asking her if he is hot or not.. then invite her to point out hot guys to you. Remember if she thinks he is hot it really means she could indeed do him in the right situation., Then when you are in public and have the time. If she points out a guy she like, consider going up to buy drinks and tell him "My wife thinks your interesting... I would like you to meet her. ....Can I buy you a drink? Then just introduce him and site back and see if he has the game to flirt... She will flirt back for sure... And just let it go from there. Either way you and she win., with a fun evening, and are closer to the final experience.

 

[Cuckhubby_1]

brief update: We continue to make slow and steady progress. The latest breakthrough is that she agreed to get a massage by a man. She also agreed to be fully nude during the massage. Any thoughts about the best way to arrange this? Her thought is to go to a local spa and get a massage. I’m hoping it leads to more…

 

[jwf114]

That is awesome. Its actually one of the things i fantasize about happening with my wife. I hope you keep updating us with your progress

 

[Dusseldorf26]

Looking for advice on how to progress from fantasy stage. Wife is at the point where she will talk about how much she wants other cock when we have sex. She REALLY gets into it, telling me how she wants to suck and fuck them while I watch them use her. I can tell she is into it as her pussy gets SOAKING wet whenever we roleplay this during sex. Much wetter than with any other type of fantasy. We watch a lot of MFM/cuck porn together, and she does on her own too, but we are stuck at this point. She gets uncomfortable thinking about moving on to trying something in real life. I respect her comfort level but would love to have things progress, any advice on next steps?

Hello I'm in the same situation as you, You have to be patient I would advise you to take her to bars with sexy clothes and she will be more sure of herself
good luck

 

[SophiaCouple]

I'm in a slightly different situation. My wife is extremely fiery and I'm absolutely sure she would accept MFM, but the problem is really me. I read a lot about this world and I'm still pretty insecure. I don't know if this doubt will persist or if we will do it.

 

[Johnfun]

Looking for advice on how to progress from fantasy stage. Wife is at the point where she will talk about how much she wants other cock when we have sex. She REALLY gets into it, telling me how she wants to suck and fuck them while I watch them use her. I can tell she is into it as her pussy gets SOAKING wet whenever we roleplay this during sex. Much wetter than with any other type of fantasy. We watch a lot of MFM/cuck porn together, and she does on her own too, but we are stuck at this point. She gets uncomfortable thinking about moving on to trying something in real life. I respect her comfort level but would love to have things progress, any advice on next steps?

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[BigJake]

brief update: We continue to make slow and steady progress. The latest breakthrough is that she agreed to get a massage by a man. She also agreed to be fully nude during the massage. Any thoughts about the best way to arrange this? Her thought is to go to a local spa and get a massage. I’m hoping it leads to more…

Give her the massage as a gift. Arrange a guy to massage her. Tell her he has a surprise for her. and leave it at that.
Then get a guy to massage her at home and you can then go all the way. I would massage many wifes and this always lead to her reaching out for my manhood.

 

[Cuckhubby_1]

We continue making slow progress. She went to a local spa and requested a man for her massage. She went completely nude and admitted she got wet when he was rubbing her bare ass. She says nothing more happened but, if he had tried to finger her pussy, she definitely would have let him. When she got home she was super horny and I’m hoping this continues to progress…

 

[BigJake]

Cuckhubby make sure you are positive with her. tell her how proud you are of her. reinforce the positive.

 

[hubbysexywife]

I'm in a slightly different situation. My wife is extremely fiery and I'm absolutely sure she would accept MFM, but the problem is really me. I read a lot about this world and I'm still pretty insecure. I don't know if this doubt will persist or if we will do it.

Any updates?

 

[Cucky]

We’re just about right in the same boat as you… me wanting to move forward and my wife happy with the role playing aspect… so far.
We did introduce a couple very realistic looking and feeling dildos into our role play which has been great. She loves sucking on a cock suctioned onto the wall while I drill her from behind…. Sometimes putting on a cock sleeve to make my cock thicker and longer so she feels like she is really getting shared by 2 of her fuck buddies.
I do love the thought of her fucking other men…. But the role playing is pretty good without all the complications that can come with doing this for real.
Would love to chat to compare our journeys.

Literally on the same boat too. We’re both always super horny and making progress every day. She now starts roleplaying as soon as I put it in her and sometimes even before while we’re making out. Her sexy talk is getting pretty nasty in a great way. DM me.

 

[toolman2c]

We approached getting a bull for my wife in that he would be providing a service. It took awhile to find the right guy. He’s married, only services one couple at a time. Except for the first time, he services my wife at our home. Everyone’s friends but because of the way we approached it, there’s very little chance of a strong emotional connection developing. You have to lay out all of the ground rules before you take the plunge. Also, we were in couples therapy at the time which helped in how we made decisions about it.

good luck,, I've found that ground rules go out the window just b4 he deep seeds her yearning hot married pussy..