Here we go 😮 and I don’t know how to react tbh

We’ve gotten gradually more into this fantasy and exploration of my personal kink here lately, with more anonymous chats a couple of times while we’re both present and she interacts sly fully with some guy who may or may not be who they’re purporting to be? So, that part’s pretty much strictly about fun fantasy what ifs with a fictional character on the other end. Blah
But we’ve also begun openly referring to her favorite huge dildo by name, it’s the name of an ex boyfriend from almost 40 years ago. She’s often told me (at my urging) about how big he was and how she’s never seen a cock as big ever, not even in the bbc pornos we’ve often watched together.
Now tonight, after two years of tempting and joking about the outside possibility of her ever being open to hooking up with the guy and me together. Out of the blue tonight, she says, ā€œokay if I ever happen to see him out and he approaches me, I’ll concede that it’s fate and I’ll call you immediately and tell him what’s up.ā€
I believe she’s completely serious, although he lives many towns away and we’ve not seen or heard from him around here for many years, and she’s truly convinced he’ll never be up here and run into her but is literally saying she’s gonna give it a go if it does. I’m not sure whether I’m really ready for that or not. Not sure whether it could be a controlled environment thing beyond a one time deal if that’s what we both want and have agreed.
Scratching my head a bit
Anyone want to tell me how I have to commit or forget it? Smpn like that or possibly any real insight from experience?
 
We’ve gotten gradually more into this fantasy and exploration of my personal kink here lately, with more anonymous chats a couple of times while we’re both present and she interacts sly fully with some guy who may or may not be who they’re purporting to be? So, that part’s pretty much strictly about fun fantasy what ifs with a fictional character on the other end. Blah
But we’ve also begun openly referring to her favorite huge dildo by name, it’s the name of an ex boyfriend from almost 40 years ago. She’s often told me (at my urging) about how big he was and how she’s never seen a cock as big ever, not even in the bbc pornos we’ve often watched together.
Now tonight, after two years of tempting and joking about the outside possibility of her ever being open to hooking up with the guy and me together. Out of the blue tonight, she says, ā€œokay if I ever happen to see him out and he approaches me, I’ll concede that it’s fate and I’ll call you immediately and tell him what’s up.ā€
I believe she’s completely serious, although he lives many towns away and we’ve not seen or heard from him around here for many years, and she’s truly convinced he’ll never be up here and run into her but is literally saying she’s gonna give it a go if it does. I’m not sure whether I’m really ready for that or not. Not sure whether it could be a controlled environment thing beyond a one time deal if that’s what we both want and have agreed.
Scratching my head a bit
Anyone want to tell me how I have to commit or forget it? Smpn like that or possibly any real insight from experience?
I suggest that is for you to decide.

But do be sure before acting.

So far as logistics go, that shouldn’t be much of a problem. You can explain the situation to the guy on the side. He will take care of the rest.
 
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I suggest that is for you to decide.

But do be sure before acting.

So far as logistics go, that shouldn’t be much of a problem. You can explain the situation to the guy on the side. He will take care of the rest.
I appreciate that and I do agree. At this point, him figuring out the logistics of the situation would necessitate his knowing anything about the entire situation and that we even remember that he’s in the world. But he is (I checked) she says it has to be organic and simply happen? IF he happens to come to town and see her out
 
Bro, she’s talking to him either by text, app, or phone. She brought it up for ā€œpermission,ā€ bc she knows it’s going to happen. Just watch how it magically happens all of a sudden, and you’ll know I was right. Might be a week, a month, or a few, but it’s going to happen.
 
I appreciate that and I do agree. At this point, him figuring out the logistics of the situation would necessitate his knowing anything about the entire situation and that we even remember that he’s in the world. But he is (I checked) she says it has to be organic and simply happen? IF he happens to come to town and see her out
its either already planned or she knows full well what and when... smh
 
its either already planned or she knows full well what and when... smh
We’ll see. Ha
Thanks again, be assured that my head’s not in the sand. Whether it’s something either of us would ultimately, moment of decision possibly agree to and mutually act on (it’s admittedly only a ā€œmaybe, but probablyā€ at this point for me)
She just said to only satisfy me šŸ˜‰ that IF the situation ever arises, Then she’d turn to me or call me immediately and ask me first (without even acknowledging him before) if I was serious about wanting her to do it and then decide. but she also said she honestly just doesn’t want it, him or any other man ever, (female third is probably more appealing to her fantasy side tbh) and what she really, really wants is for me to drop it and forget about it.
We’ll see
 
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its either already planned or she knows full well what and when... smh
She brought him up first thing this morning ā€œjoking aroundā€ about what he would like for her to do if he had the chance with her first thing in the morning. 😊
Later today, it was brought up again and she let it slip that she ā€œbets he’s probably hanging out often at a marina nearby ***** if he lives where she guesses he doesā€.
Whatcha think guys? Does she have a plan and is really hiding it that well?
 
Bro, she’s talking to him either by text, app, or phone. She brought it up for ā€œpermission,ā€ bc she knows it’s going to happen. Just watch how it magically happens all of a sudden, and you’ll know I was right. Might be a week, a month, or a few, but it’s going to happen.
Absolutely right she is playing him she already knows it is going to happen and now he cant say anything when it does happen , smart woman , šŸ‘
 
She definitely is a smart woman. As far as the ā€œstate of playā€ and whether any communication has occurred, it’s a bit of a mystery at this point but she’s had it on her mind.
 
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She brought him up first thing this morning ā€œjoking aroundā€ about what he would like for her to do if he had the chance with her first thing in the morning. 😊
Later today, it was brought up again and she let it slip that she ā€œbets he’s probably hanging out often at a marina nearby ***** if he lives where she guesses he doesā€.
Whatcha think guys? Does she have a plan and is really hiding it that well?
She definitely has a plan and she way ahead of you,šŸ‘
 
She definitely has a plan and she way ahead of you,šŸ‘
We’re about to see. Gonna suggest we ride down to the lake area where the guy lives and see if we happen to run into him. She said she’s uncharacteristically bored today and wants to go find something to do. When I said we’d ride out there, she got all giddy and said she’s going to get ready.
I’ll update if anything transpires.
 
I’ve thought a lot about contacting the guy myself and initiating a ā€œcoincidental meetingā€ but I’m going to see what comes out of going to the hangout spot she says ā€œhe probably hangs out at, if she knows him.ā€
Yeah, she probably has smpn in the works.
 
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We drove down and I purposefully put in an incorrect address first.
She was silent but then as we approached the neighborhood said, this ā€œdoesn’t look like himā€. šŸ˜
We went by the right place after that and stopped at the store which by ā€œamazing chanceā€ was next to his place. He wasn’t there, appeared no one was at the place but she’s suggested we might create a fake social media account to reach out to him together anonymously and see how that would work.
We were obviously off schedule.