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funchris

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My GF and I play and play and play with the hotwife fantasy. She loves to imagine she is with someone else while I am fucking her. loves to taunt and tease me with words.
However, she gets very upset when my talk gets very open about me giving her a hall pass if she wants. we have had extensive discussions about the topic. mostly turns to
arguments of course. note. we have massive amounts of sex. has not waned in over the year and 1/2 we have been together. 1.3 times a day (of course that is averaged in). sometimes 4-5 times in 24 hrs. thank god for Cialis. we are both 53. she is absolutely INSATIBALE and LOVES men and maleness but thinks that no woman can fuck just to fuck. That men only use women. its quite odd. I have discussed a lot with "The Cuckold Consultant" even though my wish is not cuck its hotwife. you all know the drill. just want to see her get pleasure (of course that is selfish of us) and the line from fantasy to reality is super precarious. how many of us ACTUALLY want to go through with it. the man will not be like the super hot models in the tumblr gifs. In the light of day, I'm sure a lot of the particulars are far from ideal. I do what I am told never to do. ive inundated her with all the literature about how it is in my dna. it is the fastest growing trending thing. that couples become closer and more intimate more than not, communicate better and on and on but am told that I need to appeal to the other side of her brain. not her reasoning side.
what do you guys think about my situation. anyone been where ive been. gf would probably do it but only to be punitive. to "show" me why it wouldn't be a good idea. I could go on. she is a hot 5-3 blonde with an amazing ass. wears very skimpy clothes, she is in a teeny thong bikini now at the beach and pool. before I met her not so much. we play pee and exhib and flash and naughty naught stuff. but when it comes to me wanting her to fuck other men for real, it gets bad quick. we love each other deeply. like seriously, you would not believe how much. she has so many qualities beyond sex that I would NEVER find in another woman. you guys would be jealous. (OBTW) she begs to suck my cock. she can almost cum from doing it. she calls herself my little whore and slut. You would NEVER know she is like this. to the outside world she looks so sweet and innocent and cute. aw heck. just please help me get her to go for it.
 

funchris

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Thanks for the likes. anyone have any words for me to help me out? your experience. I have read lots of threads here and other places and the general theme is very similar to all but in this case I am wondering why she can really go there in all the way she does but not actually take the plunge. she says she will try anything once but in this case I don't think that applies. please shoot me a reply folks. I would really appreciate it. congrats to all who have adopted this lifestyle successfully.
 
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Well, i'm not an expert on how to convince your wife/gf. However, the past week I have been talking about the subject with others and we came up with the idea of arranging an erotic (tantra) massage for her.
This way she can get used to being touched by another guy. Of course you can talk to the masseur beforehand to make sure he takes it easy and sees how far he can go before she stops him.

If she gets aroused it's a big first step and you can use that to convince her further :)
 
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