I’ll be very honest, both this forum and the interracial forum are more people having a fantasy. I myself was fascinated with the idea of my wife trying someone else and actually met someone on here I would have chosen, but she has pretty much, at least for now said no. I have talked to several other people on here and on the other forum, and in general nothing really happens. The interracial site in particular makes it sound like married white women are all bbc hungry and once they try it the husband is now just a bystander. The fact is white women are the second least likely to have sex outside their marriage and when they do it’s almost always with white men. So in short most of what you see on these forums is fantasy with a few actual hook ups, but you do get to meet and talk to people and no harm is done