How long did it take your husband to convince you to become a hotwife? Are you glad you tried it? Any regrets? I have been trying to convince my wife for about a year and a half now. She says she has interest and wants to try it, but always has an excuse not to, such as might affect our marriage, don't want to try it too close to home, want to lose 5 or 10 lbs. Any advice to help me, or to help her get over the hump?