I’m all about pleasuring my wife. I want to share my wife with another man. I want my wife to experience pleasures she never experienced before. How do I bring it up to her. 
How do I bring up my fantasy to my wife
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You know your wife better than us. Do you have a solid relationship built on trust? That is a must.
I would start with pillow talk before or during sex with her. Tell her how hot certain situations would be. Then afterwards introduce the topic again once she has come down from the sexual excitement.
Our marriage is awesome. I tried to put porn on and she got a little upset. I’m sure she probably thinks that I’m not happy with her. I’m trying to figure out a way to share my fantasy with her we have never shared any of our fantasies with one another. We have been married for 10 years.
yowie169
Male
Agree with yowie. Dirty talk can help and be opened amd share your fantasies together
Agree also - my wife says porn doesn’t do anything for her ????- recently talked dirty to her as she vibes - slowly built it up , now openly mentioning names from her past and ex work colleagues and she not joining in talking dirty back but openly and obviously turning her on - start there slow and gauge her reaction - her body is a better indicator than what she says to you - she can’t fake that eh 😀😀😀
A big turn on for her is having sex with the hotel curtains open or the beach the thought of being watched really turns her on maybe that could be a way to make it happen
Yes or how about a bit of flashing , then reliving it back in the room ? Tell her how hot it was and really turned you on 😀
We were away for a weekend and guy at next table kept checking out her legs and heels , after a few vodkas I persuaded her to show her let her skirt ride up , if you looked you could see where her stockings stopped and white flesh started and almost a bit of pantie gusset , she was nervous but could also tell excited , here is a pic of same night , wedding ring on show 
Since she likes an audience, tell her you would like to watch her pleasure herself. If she uses a dildo, tell her it is hot to watch it slide in and out. Then say, it would be hot to watch her get fucked for real.
Benja8
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Women are always on the lookout for clues that indicate their partners are cheating. Any time you introduce an outside source of stimulation it sometimes raises their defenses and makes them suspicious. You need to let her know that your attention is always on her, that your focus is on her pleasure and not on seeking outside stimulation.
Compliment her, point out when other men notice her. Tell her how sexy she is and how other men think so. Tell her how sexy you find it when she sucks your cock, talk about her pleasure and how you love to make her feel good and how that is reward enough for you. Plant a seed that tells her you are focused on her and her pleasure.
When you point out how other men lust after her, make it fun, make it a situation that you can bring up to her in the throws of sex and tell her how it excites you to think of him having his way with her, giving her orgasms and feeling new (and better?) things.
Compliment her, point out when other men notice her. Tell her how sexy she is and how other men think so. Tell her how sexy you find it when she sucks your cock, talk about her pleasure and how you love to make her feel good and how that is reward enough for you. Plant a seed that tells her you are focused on her and her pleasure.
When you point out how other men lust after her, make it fun, make it a situation that you can bring up to her in the throws of sex and tell her how it excites you to think of him having his way with her, giving her orgasms and feeling new (and better?) things.
He told me about his fantasy last night and this morning after it sit in I’m game
Jxmmy69
Male
sexysamurai
Female
If porn makes her upset, I think better without it. Maybe better way is to watch some romantic cuckold movies together, become horny, then carefully discuss about... It can works
Jxmmy69
Male
Or maybe if she don't like porn then it's a no go let alone him wanting her to fuck someone else .
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