Malena and I have been married 23 years and dated 5 years prior to that. She's latina, late 40s and I'm mid 50s. When we were young and dating, we did some exploration and hot stuff including several group situations. Specifically, a threesome with another woman and then two threesomes with another guy (I'm straight so focus on her) and once, me and two guys and her. But that was like 25 years and three kids ago. Our kids now are teens and we have more time and I have suggested we do some wild stuff again but she says no. I know she's self-conscious of weight she's put on but she's put it on in the right places and looks very sexy-not just to me, she turns heads. She also says "we're older now" but I don't get why that matters. Nonetheless, sometimes when we have sex, we talk about those things we did and she gets really turned on. How do I rekindle that old magic?
How Do I Get Her To Get Wild Again?
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Im in the same boat. My wife and I together 15+ years. During dating phase and early in marriage we had multiple 3 ways with other guys. After our son was born who is now 6 there is very little interest. Id love to hear and share my stories as well.
Mack351
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I was wondering the exact same thing…then I found some “hotwife challenge caption” pics on the internet. I thought that I would send some to her anonymously, so I copied and pasted them into my photo library and emailed them to myself so I could have them on my phone, but…I accidentally emailed them to her!! OMG!! I thought. This COMPLETELY reignited her libido!!! We are in our 60’s, and married for 30 years and we are, seemingly, back to our earlier sex lives!! Fantasy’s (and fantasy realizations), and all!! Best mistake I ever made!! She told me that she thought my libido was gone, and I thought hers was…both wrong!
Who knows what will work on a particular lady but I do know what works on mine so here goes. Watching sexy movies not necessarily porn but those with a sexual undertone. Mine does like a little porn but not all of it. I make sure it is something she likes since I just one to get her excited and what she like is different from what I like. I had to learn what she will watch and get excited over by talking to her and trying things.
A little wine and the right atmosphere get her excited. We bought a hot tub and use it very often including with visitors.
Going out dancing to clubs where sexy people our age hang out (she is in her mid 50s and a little overweight but very sexy). Wearing sexy clothes which I purchase and giver her. I have to put effort into this. It doesn't just happen.
I took her to a nudist resort. I thought that would be a big stretch for her but it wasn't. We started going places where swingers hang out (nudist resorts, some clubs, etc.) with no expectation of joining in. Of course couples, women, and mostly men notice her and she is the one that gets invitations to join the fun. When we started it was too just rev up our sex lives but that didn't last long. The first swinging was with 2 other couples who approached her and invited us to go to their motel room. She was very nervous that I'd get mad when everybody in the room was having sex with her. It took a while for her to see that I loved it.
Before long we were doing some regular soft swap because that was what she was comfortable with. That led to full swap, again when she was ready, which led to a stag and vixen lifestyle. I join in sometimes for a threesome but most often I photograph. Big surprise there. With a few glasses of wine and a hot guy she goes from not wanting her photo taken to being an exhibitionist. There is nothing more ego boosting for her than having a hot, very fit, younger guy wanting her and wanting to come back for more. In the end she prefers older men as lovers but the young ones are very exciting.
I set up an account on a swingers web site. Men approach us all the time. We review their profiles together. She flirts with them, talks to them on the phone, we then set up a meeting and if we both agree they go on to the next step. We can't possibly meet all the men who contact us. We have vanilla lives too.
Most of all I am very honest and NEVER judgmental and make sure she knows that I will NEVER get angry at anything she does during sex. That is the hardest message to get across. She was just sure I'd change my mind or didn't really mean it. That was the biggest stumbling block at first. The other one you are encountering which is the lady's own worries about how she looks? Will men really find her attractive, etc. Your lady is very beautiful and I'm sure that will NOT be a problem.
Just make sure you are ready for it. With my wife, once we got past the initial nervousness and uncertainties she became very sexual and has had dozens of lovers in the last 5 years. We always discuss each one, meet them ahead of time, and I let her drive the boat over which ones get to come home with us. It has kept the fires burning for us. We are having a great time.
Damn that is a long message. Hopefully you get some ideas. Feel free to ask questions but I'm sure there are lots of very experienced men here who can give you some good suggestions.
Fletch
Our first threesome was actually on my birthday back when we had been dating for a few years. I had to work that night and got back to my apartment late and she was there with a friend of hers. They had made dinner and a cake but I was a little disappointed that I had to put up with her friend when I was tired and just wanted to have my girlfriend alone time.
Anyways, we ate and had cake when Malena asked me if I was ready for my gift. When I said yes, she reached into her purse, took our a red bow and put it on her friend's head. I didn't get it until her girlfriend sat on the other side of me and they both started to kiss me. I was in shock. I had always had a thing for her friend, too. Another sexy latina. Best moment was getting oral from both at the same time but having sex with her friend and making her cum and then having Malena get right on me immediately afterwards was pretty amazing as well. The two of them kissed some and me and the friend were sucking Malena's breasts too and Malena loved that but they didn't give each other oral or go too far with each other.
I remember afterwards I went to the bathroom and literally danced a little jig.
Her friend left after and Malena and I slept well that night. At the time, we thought it was great but Malena and that friend grew apart. Malena believes that the 3sum changed the relationship even thought there was never a fight or anything. Malena actually believes that her GF had a thing for me and just couldn't just be friends after that.
Every year on my birthday, no matter what Malena gets me, I smile and say "This is nice but not the best gift I've ever gotten..."
Anyways, we ate and had cake when Malena asked me if I was ready for my gift. When I said yes, she reached into her purse, took our a red bow and put it on her friend's head. I didn't get it until her girlfriend sat on the other side of me and they both started to kiss me. I was in shock. I had always had a thing for her friend, too. Another sexy latina. Best moment was getting oral from both at the same time but having sex with her friend and making her cum and then having Malena get right on me immediately afterwards was pretty amazing as well. The two of them kissed some and me and the friend were sucking Malena's breasts too and Malena loved that but they didn't give each other oral or go too far with each other.
I remember afterwards I went to the bathroom and literally danced a little jig.
Her friend left after and Malena and I slept well that night. At the time, we thought it was great but Malena and that friend grew apart. Malena believes that the 3sum changed the relationship even thought there was never a fight or anything. Malena actually believes that her GF had a thing for me and just couldn't just be friends after that.
Every year on my birthday, no matter what Malena gets me, I smile and say "This is nice but not the best gift I've ever gotten..."
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Our second threesome was with a guy I was friends with at the time, again while we were still dating. After she had let me have her friend, we had begun talking about a MFM. I admit that back in the 90s I was ignorantly a little homophobic (I'm straight but over that stupidity now) so I was a little uncomfortable with the idea but she was eager and it seemed only fair. We talked about different guys and chose James because she thought he was hot and he was a friend but not a super close friend and we knew he was a bit of a player.
We invited him over for pizza and movies and drinking. We watched a comedy and then, I was flipping channels and turned on what we used to call "Skinamax". For the young folk, on Friday nights Cinamax (now merged into HBO) used to play mildly adult movies after 11pm. They were relatively tame by today's standards but they were sexy and we were watching and laughing. We were all on the couch, Malena in the middle but cozied up to me. I began to massage her shoulders. Then, we repositioned so we were sitting sideways on the couch, facing James, with Malena back to me and between my legs. I was massaging her shoulders and I began to unbutton her top so I had better reach. James kept turning towards us and glancing as her top was sliding off and she was moaning from the massage.
James then said "Guys, I can leave you alone."
I replied, "Sorry dude, didn't mean to make you feel like a third wheel. Why don't you help out and massage her legs..."
He looked to Malena and she smiled and nodded. He didn't need much more encouragement than that. He began with her feet and lower legs. I felt her intentionally wiggle against my erection against her back. At this point, I pulled her shirt off completely and began to massage her over her bra. James was working his hands up her legs, on her thighs. She was wearing a long light dress but he had it pushed up high. I was kissing her neck and shoulders when I pulled the bra straps down, reached into the middle and unclasped it. I remember him looking up and staring at her breasts as I cupped them both. Then I reached down, took his hand and placed it on her breast. That's when I saw that not only was he hard in his shorts, but Malena's foot was on his erection. He was squeezing her breast and began to kiss her thighs. She and I were kissing when he pulled down her panties.
I remember when he began to go down on her, my erection, still in my shorts, was pressed against her ass and it was weird to look down and see his head so close to it. I was humping her ass when she began to cum. The entire eroticism of it was too much for me and I came then, too.
Then, I had my first real moment of cuckoldery.
James looked at me and asked "Did you cum?"
I nodded yes. Then he said "OK, move away then."
I was a little confused but I did it and as I slid away to the floor, I watched as he pushed Malena back and positioned between her legs. He had slid his shorts off and he had a huge erection. I had never seen one so big. He pulled her dress off completely and I remember seeing her small hand slip around it and guide it in. James was a serious stud. They fucked missionary position for a while and she came multiple times. Then, he had her on her hands and knees and they did it from behind. He picked her up and walked with her wrapped around him and fucked her against the wall. She came and came, screaming. Finally, he had her on her knees and fucked her mouth harder than I ever have until he came, making her swallow him.
I came again watching them.
He left pretty quickly after that. I told him that we needed alone time and he was cool. In bed, I experienced something that I haven't experienced again since: I came a few more times almost spontaneously, thinking about what I saw. I've never been so turned on. I remember Malena laughing and asking if there was something wrong with me.
As you can imagine, James wanted to do it again and Malena did, too. They met up twice without me and when I found out, I got pretty upset because I wasn't informed and it felt like she was cheating. I wasn't as open minded then as I am now. She agreed to not see him again but she admits now that they did see each other a few more times but then it became moot because he was military and got stationed abroad.
We invited him over for pizza and movies and drinking. We watched a comedy and then, I was flipping channels and turned on what we used to call "Skinamax". For the young folk, on Friday nights Cinamax (now merged into HBO) used to play mildly adult movies after 11pm. They were relatively tame by today's standards but they were sexy and we were watching and laughing. We were all on the couch, Malena in the middle but cozied up to me. I began to massage her shoulders. Then, we repositioned so we were sitting sideways on the couch, facing James, with Malena back to me and between my legs. I was massaging her shoulders and I began to unbutton her top so I had better reach. James kept turning towards us and glancing as her top was sliding off and she was moaning from the massage.
James then said "Guys, I can leave you alone."
I replied, "Sorry dude, didn't mean to make you feel like a third wheel. Why don't you help out and massage her legs..."
He looked to Malena and she smiled and nodded. He didn't need much more encouragement than that. He began with her feet and lower legs. I felt her intentionally wiggle against my erection against her back. At this point, I pulled her shirt off completely and began to massage her over her bra. James was working his hands up her legs, on her thighs. She was wearing a long light dress but he had it pushed up high. I was kissing her neck and shoulders when I pulled the bra straps down, reached into the middle and unclasped it. I remember him looking up and staring at her breasts as I cupped them both. Then I reached down, took his hand and placed it on her breast. That's when I saw that not only was he hard in his shorts, but Malena's foot was on his erection. He was squeezing her breast and began to kiss her thighs. She and I were kissing when he pulled down her panties.
I remember when he began to go down on her, my erection, still in my shorts, was pressed against her ass and it was weird to look down and see his head so close to it. I was humping her ass when she began to cum. The entire eroticism of it was too much for me and I came then, too.
Then, I had my first real moment of cuckoldery.
James looked at me and asked "Did you cum?"
I nodded yes. Then he said "OK, move away then."
I was a little confused but I did it and as I slid away to the floor, I watched as he pushed Malena back and positioned between her legs. He had slid his shorts off and he had a huge erection. I had never seen one so big. He pulled her dress off completely and I remember seeing her small hand slip around it and guide it in. James was a serious stud. They fucked missionary position for a while and she came multiple times. Then, he had her on her hands and knees and they did it from behind. He picked her up and walked with her wrapped around him and fucked her against the wall. She came and came, screaming. Finally, he had her on her knees and fucked her mouth harder than I ever have until he came, making her swallow him.
I came again watching them.
He left pretty quickly after that. I told him that we needed alone time and he was cool. In bed, I experienced something that I haven't experienced again since: I came a few more times almost spontaneously, thinking about what I saw. I've never been so turned on. I remember Malena laughing and asking if there was something wrong with me.
As you can imagine, James wanted to do it again and Malena did, too. They met up twice without me and when I found out, I got pretty upset because I wasn't informed and it felt like she was cheating. I wasn't as open minded then as I am now. She agreed to not see him again but she admits now that they did see each other a few more times but then it became moot because he was military and got stationed abroad.
Our third threesome happened shortly after the second but didn't go so well. I had enjoyed our experiences so much and was eager to do it again. Malena thought I was nuts but she certainly loved the idea of getting lots of cock with my permission. When I asked about who she would want, she indicated a good friend of mine, Rob. Seemed like a good idea and we set it in motion.
He and I went out drinking one night, watched a game and then, we went to a strip club. We got pretty hot and bothered as you can imagine. That's when I told him that Malena did an amazing strip tease. He wasn't shy about saying that he imagined it would be amazing to see. So I said that she'd be willing to do it if he wanted to come over. He looked at me like I was insane but was all in favor so we went back to my apartment where Malena was waiting.
She was wearing a pj top over panty, no bra. Rob's eyes followed her around the room hungrily. She acted like she was about to go to bed and I had to "persuade" her to give Rob a lapdance and strip and she "reluctantly" agreed after we all did a round of shots. He sat on the couch and she danced between his knees slowly. Swaying side to side, unbuttoning the top. Then she reached down and took his hands and placed them on her bare breasts and squeezed. I remember him saying "oh fuck" and her giggling, staring at him in his eyes. After the top fell away, she reached down and slid the panties down off her sexy legs. When she was close, Rob leaned in and was kissing her breasts and tummy and then started to go down on her as she was on her knees straddling him on the couch.
She orgasmed like that and he then carried her into the bedroom but that's when things began to go sideways. I followed them in and Rob told me to get the fuck out. I was a offended-I was here to watch. He and I started to yell a bit. He wanted her for himself and said I didn't deserve her. He called me a "f@ggot!" for wanting to share her and watch. Malena eventually calmed me down and asked me to just wait nearby and listen.
I did but soon after, I could hear Malena screaming and yelling to me for help. Rob was super rough, hitting her really hard and calling her a whore etc. It was way beyond slapping or anything she would enjoy. I had to jump on him and break it up and he then got super angry and smashed some things in the bedroom. However, he did eventually grab his shit and leave. Malena's mouth was bleeding from one of his punches. I couldn't believe it.
That was the end of that friendship. Malena is such a gorgeous prize and he could have had her for a night but he was just too psycho. After such good experiences previously, this made us a lot more cautious and it would be a while before we would try anything with other people again.
But we did, one more time....
He and I went out drinking one night, watched a game and then, we went to a strip club. We got pretty hot and bothered as you can imagine. That's when I told him that Malena did an amazing strip tease. He wasn't shy about saying that he imagined it would be amazing to see. So I said that she'd be willing to do it if he wanted to come over. He looked at me like I was insane but was all in favor so we went back to my apartment where Malena was waiting.
She was wearing a pj top over panty, no bra. Rob's eyes followed her around the room hungrily. She acted like she was about to go to bed and I had to "persuade" her to give Rob a lapdance and strip and she "reluctantly" agreed after we all did a round of shots. He sat on the couch and she danced between his knees slowly. Swaying side to side, unbuttoning the top. Then she reached down and took his hands and placed them on her bare breasts and squeezed. I remember him saying "oh fuck" and her giggling, staring at him in his eyes. After the top fell away, she reached down and slid the panties down off her sexy legs. When she was close, Rob leaned in and was kissing her breasts and tummy and then started to go down on her as she was on her knees straddling him on the couch.
She orgasmed like that and he then carried her into the bedroom but that's when things began to go sideways. I followed them in and Rob told me to get the fuck out. I was a offended-I was here to watch. He and I started to yell a bit. He wanted her for himself and said I didn't deserve her. He called me a "f@ggot!" for wanting to share her and watch. Malena eventually calmed me down and asked me to just wait nearby and listen.
I did but soon after, I could hear Malena screaming and yelling to me for help. Rob was super rough, hitting her really hard and calling her a whore etc. It was way beyond slapping or anything she would enjoy. I had to jump on him and break it up and he then got super angry and smashed some things in the bedroom. However, he did eventually grab his shit and leave. Malena's mouth was bleeding from one of his punches. I couldn't believe it.
That was the end of that friendship. Malena is such a gorgeous prize and he could have had her for a night but he was just too psycho. After such good experiences previously, this made us a lot more cautious and it would be a while before we would try anything with other people again.
But we did, one more time....
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