Wife fucked her ex ap

Cut the long story short. We are in our 30s no kids. Married for 7 years. I’ve always had this fantasy and we would watch porn and talk about it. She stayed silent but I can tell her it turns her on.

Fast forward she had an affair with her coworker moved in with him for 4 months and came back.
She didn’t talk to him for a year or so but I always brought him up during that time.

He called me and wanted to come over for a few drinks and jealousy got the best of me and it fell through. But the thought turns me on.
he left for the night after we fought and few months later she went out and didn’t come until 4am and I knew she went out to fuck him.
She admitted she did the next day but was so guilty she was depressed and wanted to divorce.
I was so angry but the thought really turned me on. They don’t have any contact anymore.

I’ve tried messaging he reads my msgs to catch up but he’s not replying. I’m not sure why.

How do I convince her to continue?
She gets really wet for him.
 
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Cut the long story short. We are in our 30s no kids. Married for 7 years. I’ve always had this fantasy and we would watch porn and talk about it. She stayed silent but I can tell her it turns her on.

Fast forward she had an affair with her coworker moved in with him for 4 months and came back.
She didn’t talk to him for a year or so but I always brought him up during that time.

He called me and wanted to come over for a few drinks and jealousy got the best of me and it fell through. But the thought turns me on.
he left for the night after we fought and few months later she went out and didn’t come until 4am and I knew she went out to fuck him.
She admitted she did the next day but was so guilty she was depressed and wanted to divorce.
I was so angry but the thought really turned me on. They don’t have any contact anymore.

I’ve tried messaging he reads my msgs to catch up but he’s not replying. I’m not sure why.

How do I convince her to continue?
She gets really wet for him.
YOU DON'T! Never contact that guy again or respond to any contact from him.....unless you want to lose your wife. This situation for you is not the same as it is for her. She's telling you that straight up. Find somebody else...