Learned some new things about this hot-wife and her husband. I have questions.

I’m a 24 year old straight male. I’ve been visiting this middle-aged hotwife and her husband several times over the past couple of years. Recently she and I talked and she said that he enjoys fucking her after she and I are out done. When they have sex when they’re home, he dirty talks with her saying things like “you like it when he stretches you out”, you like it when he fucks you” She tells him she loves it when she and I fuck.

Apparently it’s a turn on for him. Usually when we meet she and I just have sex and he will watch or watch tv or play games on his phone. Something about him wanting to fuck his wife after she and I are done and then fucking while my cum is still inside her turns me on too. Apparently he will eat her cum-filled pussy out sometimes too.

If we meet again in the future, I want to have a conversation with them about what they like, what turns them on and what all of us are not interested in/rules to not break.

To be honest, I might stop seeing them at some point because I have become too used to this dynamic and too addicted to sex with her and pornography in general.

Anyways, what are your guys thoughts? Also what are the best ways to go about having a conversation about what we like and what we are not comfortable with and will not do?

[P.S. I could be misreading them but I think they would like it even more if I took even more of a lead during our visits.

Examples: Being more vocal with my dirty talk with her, directing her to dirty talk with her husband while she and I are fooling around (her asking him to stroke his cock [if that is okay with him] while watching us have sex), telling him he can fuck his wife after she and I are done - so I can watch him stick his cock in her cum-filled pussy “if they’re okay me directing”.
 
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The question to ask is "how can we make this better for you both?"...........and then make that happen. They need to get up to speed also as a couple, he wants her to do and say things, she has to get comfortable with that. It takes time to get that comfortable with someone sexually, so the months apart ase definitely slowing that progress down.......but at thesame time they are ramping up the desire when you are together. Make the most of the time together. And use the online converstions or phone chats to push her boundaries and find out how far the/they want it to go. SHE will set the boundaires, not him and definitely not you. J (the wife)
 
We have a pretty regular thing with a guy we know. 2 or 3 times a month. I'm husband, it's a HUGE turn on for me and my wife having him with us. I watch a lot, I take a turn when he's resting. We always do her twice each then they go once more before he leaves. My wife is horny as fuck fir days after he's been with us.
We keep it very private. It's improved our sex life like crazy.
 
I’m a 24 year old straight male. I’ve been visiting this middle-aged hotwife and her husband several times over the past couple of years. Recently she and I talked and she said that he enjoys fucking her after she and I are out done. When they have sex when they’re home, he dirty talks with her saying things like “you like it when he stretches you out”, you like it when he fucks you” She tells him she loves it when she and I fuck.

Apparently it’s a turn on for him. Usually when we meet she and I just have sex and he will watch or watch tv or play games on his phone. Something about him wanting to fuck his wife after she and I are done and then fucking while my cum is still inside her turns me on too. Apparently he will eat her cum-filled pussy out sometimes too.

Examples: Being more vocal with my dirty talk with her, directing her to dirty talk with her husband while she and I are fooling around (her asking him to stroke his cock [if that is okay with him] while watching us have sex), telling him he can fuck his wife after she and I are done - so I can watch him stick his cock in her cum-filled pussy “if they’re okay me directing”.
Everything above turns me and my wife on like crazy.
Are you their first guy or are they experienced with this?
Where do you meet up? Motel? Home?
We've done this with our guy quite a few times but other than him we don't have much experience.
 
As was mentioned above the best question to ask is what will make this dynamic better for them based upon their comfort level.

As for you. You're 24. You're young and having fun. You provide enhancement for committed couples. I will say though... You'll be 34 before you know it. If you're just looking for sex you're in the right realm. If you're looking to settle down and have a 'normal' relationship you'll have to ask whether or not that means having a partner into this lifestyle or hiding your past and pretending it never happened.

I've gone back and forth other the past few years on this myself. It makes going vanilla a bit challenging and the temptation to go back into bull mode will always be there.

You should ask what you can do for them. But you're also correct in asking what you need to do for you.
 
I agree with the comments as a long term cuck, maybe they are both ok with things as they are?

I would however ask her her views and see if she wants to expand things or for it to remain just as they have been in the past.

I do believe that as a young lad you can and will be advancing your skills, i assume you have a girlfriend or other sexual partners who are perhaps without knowing gaining the from the experience of your plays with them. Expereince make a good lover for all.
 
I’m a 24 year old straight male. I’ve been visiting this middle-aged hotwife and her husband several times over the past couple of years. Recently she and I talked and she said that he enjoys fucking her after she and I are out done. When they have sex when they’re home, he dirty talks with her saying things like “you like it when he stretches you out”, you like it when he fucks you” She tells him she loves it when she and I fuck.

Apparently it’s a turn on for him. Usually when we meet she and I just have sex and he will watch or watch tv or play games on his phone. Something about him wanting to fuck his wife after she and I are done and then fucking while my cum is still inside her turns me on too. Apparently he will eat her cum-filled pussy out sometimes too.

If we meet again in the future, I want to have a conversation with them about what they like, what turns them on and what all of us are not interested in/rules to not break.

To be honest, I might stop seeing them at some point because I have become too used to this dynamic and too addicted to sex with her and pornography in general.

Anyways, what are your guys thoughts? Also what are the best ways to go about having a conversation about what we like and what we are not comfortable with and will not do?

[P.S. I could be misreading them but I think they would like it even more if I took even more of a lead during our visits.

Examples: Being more vocal with my dirty talk with her, directing her to dirty talk with her husband while she and I are fooling around (her asking him to stroke his cock [if that is okay with him] while watching us have sex), telling him he can fuck his wife after she and I are done - so I can watch him stick his cock in her cum-filled pussy “if they’re okay me directing”.
If I was in her husband's position.I would be happy if you took more of a lead. Being dominant with the wife and myself is a turn on. Like telling me to lick my wife's pussy after you're done fucking her would be arousing. Or if you ordered me to be underneath her while you fucked her from behind would be a huge turn on also.
 
I’m a 24 year old straight male. I’ve been visiting this middle-aged hotwife and her husband several times over the past couple of years. Recently she and I talked and she said that he enjoys fucking her after she and I are out done. When they have sex when they’re home, he dirty talks with her saying things like “you like it when he stretches you out”, you like it when he fucks you” She tells him she loves it when she and I fuck.

Apparently it’s a turn on for him. Usually when we meet she and I just have sex and he will watch or watch tv or play games on his phone. Something about him wanting to fuck his wife after she and I are done and then fucking while my cum is still inside her turns me on too. Apparently he will eat her cum-filled pussy out sometimes too.

If we meet again in the future, I want to have a conversation with them about what they like, what turns them on and what all of us are not interested in/rules to not break.

To be honest, I might stop seeing them at some point because I have become too used to this dynamic and too addicted to sex with her and pornography in general.

Anyways, what are your guys thoughts? Also what are the best ways to go about having a conversation about what we like and what we are not comfortable with and will not do?

[P.S. I could be misreading them but I think they would like it even more if I took even more of a lead during our visits.

Examples: Being more vocal with my dirty talk with her, directing her to dirty talk with her husband while she and I are fooling around (her asking him to stroke his cock [if that is okay with him] while watching us have sex), telling him he can fuck his wife after she and I are done - so I can watch him stick his cock in her cum-filled pussy “if they’re okay me directing”.
You should have a conversation with them both. Ask him what he would enjoy seeing, hearing, ask her what she would enjoy doing, share your ideas and what you’d like. Does he ever join you for a MFM ? Thats what we enjoy most.
 
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You should have a conversation with them both. Ask him what he would enjoy seeing, hearing, ask her what she would enjoy doing, share your ideas and what you’d like. Does he ever join you for a MFM ? Thats what we enjoy most.
We're not into cuckold but we do enjoy mfm. Wife gets really turned on when we take turns with her, that's what makes it fun.
I'd say if she's into it and hubby is cool go for it.
 
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Well, think about it. They are probably very comfortable with you if you've been with them a couple of years. You said you met several times and at their house so, that means they must be ok with you. If you want to keep going, probably the best thing to do is next time you see them tell them what you're thinking.

To add to what another person posted regarding continuing, I'd say you should do it while you can. These opportunities are more rare than you might realize. Some men dream of what you're doing and will never have the chance. If you don't have any serious relationship to complicate things then keep on. See if you can make everyone happy, by putting yourself first, that's what bulls do.
 
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I’m a 24 year old straight male. I’ve been visiting this middle-aged hotwife and her husband several times over the past couple of years. Recently she and I talked and she said that he enjoys fucking her after she and I are out done. When they have sex when they’re home, he dirty talks with her saying things like “you like it when he stretches you out”, you like it when he fucks you” She tells him she loves it when she and I fuck.

Apparently it’s a turn on for him. Usually when we meet she and I just have sex and he will watch or watch tv or play games on his phone. Something about him wanting to fuck his wife after she and I are done and then fucking while my cum is still inside her turns me on too. Apparently he will eat her cum-filled pussy out sometimes too.

If we meet again in the future, I want to have a conversation with them about what they like, what turns them on and what all of us are not interested in/rules to not break.

To be honest, I might stop seeing them at some point because I have become too used to this dynamic and too addicted to sex with her and pornography in general.

Anyways, what are your guys thoughts? Also what are the best ways to go about having a conversation about what we like and what we are not comfortable with and will not do?

[P.S. I could be misreading them but I think they would like it even more if I took even more of a lead during our visits.

Examples: Being more vocal with my dirty talk with her, directing her to dirty talk with her husband while she and I are fooling around (her asking him to stroke his cock [if that is okay with him] while watching us have sex), telling him he can fuck his wife after she and I are done - so I can watch him stick his cock in her cum-filled pussy “if they’re okay me directing”.
Just fucking do it and see what happens... You worry about the wrong shit...
 
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We are very comfortable with a friend we've done it with many times.
We are mid 50s, he's 34. He is defanantly NOT the type my wife finds attractive. She often comments on men our age that look successful, clean, self confidence and well dressed. Our friend works for UPS, he's divorced, lives in an inexpensive but clean apartment.
99% of our fun has been with him, another guy once, different local guy 3 times. Neither worked out.
I'm positive the reason it works for us is were all comfy together. He's a cool guy, we tall about anything. It's very obvious my wife LOVES sex with him.
I say if it's working then it's good for everyone.
 
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We are very comfortable with a friend we've done it with many times.
We are mid 50s, he's 34. He is defanantly NOT the type my wife finds attractive. She often comments on men our age that look successful, clean, self confidence and well dressed. Our friend works for UPS, he's divorced, lives in an inexpensive but clean apartment.
99% of our fun has been with him, another guy once, different local guy 3 times. Neither worked out.
I'm positive the reason it works for us is were all comfy together. He's a cool guy, we tall about anything. It's very obvious my wife LOVES sex with him.
I say if it's working then it's good for everyone.
where you from
 
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