How does your wife prepare you before she goes on a date?

Obviously, you are confused. Thank you but I doubt you can help. I doubt I am your type, and you do not appear to be mine. Pics of both wife and me on my page, I only see you on your page so I am not sure how you could deduce singular. My previous request was not for critique but instead for real people to communicate real stories rather than indiosyncratic fantasies that are not useful in general.
Not confused at all. You claimed in a conversation you were mostly single with an ex yet claim to have a wife you want to get involved in the life style. You spent quite a few comments on how you SINGULAR wanted to join various females in various situations. So you can see how it raised red flags all around as who is to say the photograghs are not your ex.. So no you are not my type at all. As for only myself on my profile. Thats called personal choice by my husband. But hey ho!. My photograghs actualy show myself and bull.

Enjoy your stay here .
 
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It's ok to be here if you just want fantasy. But there are too many on here who claim to have a girlfreind/wife and have nothing of the sort or their partner has no idea. Be truthful and honest, then at least people will know what they are dealing with.

Nothing wrong in wanting or wishing.
Took the words right out of my mouth. The vast majority are not who they say they are, and usually are men with a wife/gf that never appears.
 
When out of town on a business trip, she'll call and tell me to put on my cage. Then she proceeds to tell me of getting ready to go out. She'll take a bath and shave. Lotion herself before wearing what I packed her for a care package. Stocking. See thru sheer black panties. Always a shelf bra. Sometimes she'll tell me what temp tattoo she's decided to wear for the trip. Sometimes lets me put one on her prior to leaving. When she's dressed to go out, she'll tell me to put on her favorite panties. Hours later she'll text. Drives me crazy
 
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We do this with a guy we know pretty regularly at our home. So it's not her dating.
When he visits its always on a Friday after work. Prep for her/me is wash up, brush teeth, etc...she and I sometimes in bathroom together, wash private areas with warm soapy washcloth, fresh under pants or none for her sometimes. Sometimes we have quick sex befor he arrives.
We always stay in work clothes, long sleeve button shirt, kaki slacks for me. Blouse/skirt or a dress for her, modest heels.
He always has showered, slacks, button shirt.
We always greet and start in the kitchen with a cold beer, glass of wine then a shot of Tequila or Jack, two for wife. Chat for a few. Wife(no bra) always unbuttons blouse a button every cpl of minutes kinda trying not to let us notice, but we do. Soon she's got either one button or none on her blouse, tits easily visible but not hanging out. She tires to act like it's no big deal. Soon she'll say she's glad he's visiting, gives him a hug, turns into a french kiss and we're off. Similar deal every time and its fun, it's her "thing".
She'll break away from him then kiss me same way, back to him, back to me, really gets her going. We play with her tits while we kiss. Been times she'll suck our dicks in the kitchen but not often.
Up to bedroom, more kissing. She likes to undress while we watch. We get naked, always both of us hard. More kissing, hugging standing up.
He'll lay on the bed, she starts oral on him. Can go several ways after that.
Long story... first Iines is how she "prepares" for our "dates".
That sounds like an awesome start especially her blouse routine -
 
I always help get my wife ready for her dates, she locks me up in chastity, I shave her pussy and pick some sexy dress for her to meet her lover in She likes to meet them in the bar wearing nothing underneath. My Wife and I usually go up to the room and I help her on with her knickers, bra and stockings. When she is ready we call her lover up to the room where they fuck alone, they send me pictures and short videos while I wait in the bar. When he has filled her pussy I get summoned up to clean up!
 

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My wife is considering finding a fun guy she can date occasionally. Hopefully a bi guy so i can eventually fluff him and more. But we are looking for ideas and examples of what other do or have done leading up to the actual date. She is a real person and is not going to out me in diapers or lock my cock permanently or have her mother monitor me. She enjoys denial when it elevates my attentivness to her, locks my cock occasionally, enjoys tying me to the bed and edging me etc.

So what fun and creative activities have you and your Hot wife done before, during and after dates?
My wife is generally quite stressed before she goes out on a date, like if she is going in the evening, she starts getting nervous from breakfast onwards, skipping meals, trying on body shapers, dresses, so many a times I have to calm her down. I will generally not let her drive herself even if that is the simpler cheapest or most convinient option, because she will drink and distracted from the exitement, so I will generally drive her or uber, we also setup safety call times and some panic words in case something does not go to plan. We dont do any fetish stuff, probably we dont have any.

Once she is settled she will send me an all ok messege, pre-stored on her phone - for us, it is like 'is the <stock name> share price a buy?" however if her message reads, some other stock price it will have a different meaning.
 
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So what fun and creative activities have you and your Hot wife done before, during and after dates?

I'll share a few things, I wont suggest that these work for every person or situation or dynamic - these are just those that worked for us. I'll talk about those where I'm not involved (so far there's only one such person that we're comfortable with). Dates usually are not super planned always, mostly spur of the moment thing, Fridays/weekend and long holiday events (we have our day-to-day life too, you know) - we're also very discrete .. probably a top concern for us!

- Dates look like they're mundane, but designed for her to be free and joyful; to me, they trigger cuck angst and jealousy - for eg. she goes to his condo and they together practice yoga (she's certified yoga teacher and is very flexible :) ) - they're both nude of course. There's plenty of positions that lead you to highly imaginative scenarios! sometimes I get pictures and sometimes its just audio telling me what they're in .. I have to then use my imagination
- it helps that all of us are into fitness - they go to the gym together (one that's a bit ways from where we are) and do workout - he pretends to be her trainer - after a good workout and run, they go to his place to take a shower - again, all I get during this are just hints here and there, to keep me guessing
- they try to re-enact scenes from my favorite porn/Netflix movies and send me pics
- they go perfume/lingerie shopping together - and again, send me pics/hints from the dressing room - just enough info (without details) to keep me guessing; she wont wear that perfum after and wont let me smell it
- she has surprised me with sudden-dates that nightouts with him
- sometimes all they is cuddle at his place - she has spent the night
- one of my sexy favorites is to see in porn is to see girls with a white top on, but no bottoms - she doesnt do that at home, but she'll do there with HIS white t shirt. Also, she wears pigtails when with him and not at home - drives me crazy!
- she once explained to me how she wakes him up in the morning - I was like, wow!

We do connect in detail after all the dates to go through every minute of it - I cant get enough of the detail!

As you see, these are not hard to do, neither are they that exotic - they don't have to be. Just what a typical boy & a girl do on a daily basis. It is not all about the Sex like some people here have written .. sex is definitely a huge part of it, but its more about the experience/imagination/angst/excitement!

To her, it helps relive her younger/single days and with lot more sexy fun; To him its all the sexy goodness without the responsibility of the family; To me its all the jealousy and 'cuck-rage' I can get! :)

Hope this helps and gives you some real ideas.
 
I'll share a few things, I wont suggest that these work for every person or situation or dynamic - these are just those that worked for us. I'll talk about those where I'm not involved (so far there's only one such person that we're comfortable with). Dates usually are not super planned always, mostly spur of the moment thing, Fridays/weekend and long holiday events (we have our day-to-day life too, you know) - we're also very discrete .. probably a top concern for us!

- Dates look like they're mundane, but designed for her to be free and joyful; to me, they trigger cuck angst and jealousy - for eg. she goes to his condo and they together practice yoga (she's certified yoga teacher and is very flexible :) ) - they're both nude of course. There's plenty of positions that lead you to highly imaginative scenarios! sometimes I get pictures and sometimes its just audio telling me what they're in .. I have to then use my imagination
- it helps that all of us are into fitness - they go to the gym together (one that's a bit ways from where we are) and do workout - he pretends to be her trainer - after a good workout and run, they go to his place to take a shower - again, all I get during this are just hints here and there, to keep me guessing
- they try to re-enact scenes from my favorite porn/Netflix movies and send me pics
- they go perfume/lingerie shopping together - and again, send me pics/hints from the dressing room - just enough info (without details) to keep me guessing; she wont wear that perfum after and wont let me smell it
- she has surprised me with sudden-dates that nightouts with him
- sometimes all they is cuddle at his place - she has spent the night
- one of my sexy favorites is to see in porn is to see girls with a white top on, but no bottoms - she doesnt do that at home, but she'll do there with HIS white t shirt. Also, she wears pigtails when with him and not at home - drives me crazy!
- she once explained to me how she wakes him up in the morning - I was like, wow!

We do connect in detail after all the dates to go through every minute of it - I cant get enough of the detail!

As you see, these are not hard to do, neither are they that exotic - they don't have to be. Just what a typical boy & a girl do on a daily basis. It is not all about the Sex like some people here have written .. sex is definitely a huge part of it, but its more about the experience/imagination/angst/excitement!

To her, it helps relive her younger/single days and with lot more sexy fun; To him its all the sexy goodness without the responsibility of the family; To me its all the jealousy and 'cuck-rage' I can get! :)

Hope this helps and gives you some real ideas.
Great share!
 
My wife is considering finding a fun guy she can date occasionally. Hopefully a bi guy so i can eventually fluff him and more. But we are looking for ideas and examples of what other do or have done leading up to the actual date. She is a real person and is not going to out me in diapers or lock my cock permanently or have her mother monitor me. She enjoys denial when it elevates my attentivness to her, locks my cock occasionally, enjoys tying me to the bed and edging me etc.

So what fun and creative activities have you and your Hot wife done before, during and after dates?
My wife has basically told me she’ll be gone for a while you might as well jack off

A few times I’ve asked what about me and her response was who cares

When she slept over the weekend one time she left her worn panties a towel and a note that said I’ll be back Monday
 
She has me answer the door naked with a butt plug in my ass when he comes to pick her up.. She makes fun of my cock and calls little dick in front of him..
 
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