I am curious to know if you ever received any good answers to your questions. I am new to the site and relatively new to the life style, but so far it does not seem like there are many real people on these boards. There are many wild stories about public events and open humiliation that are written by people who don't even display pictures. I enjoy the voyer aspect and get really turned on by my perception of events, but I cannot imagine that a man is humiliated by his wife on Friday night in front of coworkers and then able to boss those same coworkers on Monday morning. Of course, I am assuming most people in this life style are a little older so propably in upper management, simply because they have seniority. Anyway, I really would like some real suggestions on real things we can incorporate in our fun.
First and foremost sit down with your partner and set the limits. What you both like dislike. What are your fantasies, hers. What is to be included excluded in any fun or experiencies you want to build up.
After you both have discussed your lists, get rid of those who make you feel uncomforable-disgusted or are unwilling to try. You will be suprised how close your choices will be after having an open no recrimination conversation about it all.
A good start is one we have suggested before to others wishing to enter into a bull-cuckold relationship but didn't know where t start. And no we are not saying thats what you want, but the start is the same way. And just involves you and your wife to start.
It's Thursday. Your wife during the day starts sexting you about some dishing guy she has seen, how excited it has made her, how wet she is now. How much she wants to go with him You reply with questions such as is he more handsome, better build, can she feel her wetness as she moves. Things along those lines. Same for friday untill when she comes home or you if she is a stay at home mom. Assuming you have no kids running around spoiling the day, she goes off to the bedroom sometime later , where you give her 10-20 minutes to change and relax. MAke it fun, Sexting wiht photos of little things, a cleavage showing how sexy she feels, you a bulge in the pants. use your imagination thats the key.
On arrival at the bedroom she is playing using a toy or fingers ( doesn't matter which) You look from the door way. No interupting. She can be using any guys name you chose, point being she is using a imagine third person to which she can have fun and bring you into the situation. She tells you she needs your mouth, the toy, fingers are just not enough. Then she gives a detailed explanation of how this imaginary guy is, what she would like him to do, where, etc. You give answers ask questions, nicely or as dirty as you both are comforable with. Once at a peak. She can tell you she needs something more than your tongue. One sexing the sky is the limit of what you say about the guy.
What was just written was written for a couple who wanted to start dating BBC in the realtionship. They wanted to build it up slow, and the feeling is you do too. So go slow, have fun and see how each other reacts to it all. Once you know how the other feels you can take the next steps.
If you want to ask anything feel free.
Daphne.
