I agree with a lot of HWCouple, we have been active for over 20 years and there are plenty of sites for actual meets. Couples get inundated with messages on those hook up sites, you simply cannot answer everyone, people get nasty and impatient sending repeat messages, while we are thinking which of the 300 cock pics we got sent today should we even talk to etc, whereas this site seems great for chatting with like minded people and way less pressure, so we like it so far.
I hear what the OP says and the other views, but a lot of guys are fake too, the number of times Bulls have car trouble, punctures, death in the family etc and don’t show up, so I guess it kind of evens itself out!