My wife lost interest in the lifestyle (and sex) a few years ago...........we were only active for a short period of time for approx 4 years or so. I LOVED to watch her enjoy herself, and take another guy's thick cock, but I also used to let her play alone since we could often not find a babysitter in time for her play dates with other men. I also used to let her fuck alone on the first meeting, since it was usually kinda awkward the first time with a guy, and often the sex was hard to really get into with me sitting there staring at them.
However, during our 4 yrs in the Hotwife/swinger lifestyle......my wife fucked approx 20 different men (some more than once), one black guy twice, sucked off about 30, swallowed most of their cum, and let about 5 of these men cum inside her pussy. 2 of her "friends" she let fuck her in the ass.
I absolutely LOVED seeing her in action, and hearing her moan and talk dirty.........and there is NOTHING like hearing your wife tell another man to "cum in her mouth".........or "I want to taste your cum" Watching her take a thick cock in her pussy, and then see the guy pull out, and my lovely wife open her mouth and stick out her tongue as the guy shot several spurts of his hot come into her hungry mouth, was THE BEST THING EVER !
I wish I knew how to get her interested in the lifestyle again. I really miss seeing her enjoy hard cocks and cum again. She really loved men who could cum a lot, and I really want to meet 2 or 3 guys who could become regular fuck buddies for her once again.