How to I convince my wife to be with another man?

[BARS_1974]

We have been married for 26 years and the sex is boring, liked we haven’t a sex about 4-5 months, (Dec. 2025). Any advice would help! I think she would be okay with the idea with another man, right.?.

 

[pdxluv2suck]

We had a male friend who had gone thru a divorce come over to cook us dinner. After dinner and drinks I said out loud that we can't send him home all horny. Honey you should give him a blowjob for the road. It worked. For a few years he would come over and eat and drink with us, then fuck her before he left. Then her and I would fuck like bunnies. Try it. it worked for us.

 

[BARS_1974]

Maybe, I will. Do you got a friend going through a divorce on the east coast? 😂 No, I will try it out somebody we are friends with! Thank you

 

[Wantsomefunto]

Just ask her if she would give it a try

 

[Mark90]

We have been married for 26 years and the sex is boring, liked we haven’t a sex about 4-5 months, (Dec. 2025). Any advice would help! I think she would be okay with the idea with another man, right.?.

First of all, she has to agree. Don't expect her to tell you right away that she wants to be with another man. My wife wanted to but didn't have the courage to do it. It was a difficult undertaking, but in the end we managed it and it was beautiful.

 

[53biker]

Don’t try to convince her if she’s a hard no already.
Convince her that you’re ok with it. Let her know you support and encourage her to explore her fantasies. Be patient and supportive. The rest is up to her.

 

[Twirl]

We have been married for 26 years and the sex is boring, liked we haven’t a sex about 4-5 months, (Dec. 2025). Any advice would help! I think she would be okay with the idea with another man, right.?.

Have you tried maybe watching a sexy movie or porn together?

 

[BARS_1974]

Hey Twirl,
WE had sex, and you are right, sexy movie, “Deep Water” is the key. She should she would be willing to do it, have another man!

 

[Twirl]

Hey Twirl,
WE had sex, and you are right, sexy movie, “Deep Water” is the key. She should she would be willing to do it, have another man!

Yes, that movie got my wife in the mood too!

 

[SNJ_Dom]

We have been married for 26 years and the sex is boring, liked we haven’t a sex about 4-5 months, (Dec. 2025). Any advice would help! I think she would be okay with the idea with another man, right.?.

You have to make sure she WANTS sex AT ALL before introducing a huge wrinkle like sex with someone outside of your marriage.

Some women keep or even increase their sex drive after menopause, but many LOSE their sex drive. If you're married 26 years then my guess is she is premenopausal, or possibly even post.

Does she have a sex drive? Does she masturbate and get herself off regularly? Or is she just not interested at all.

Do you try to initiate sex? If so, what is her response?

Also, what if you introduce a bull to her, and then she only wants sex with HIM and not you?

I'm not trying to throw cold water on your fantasy, but think about the reality of it.

 

[BARS_1974]

Hey SNJ_Dom,
Yes, you are correct, she is premenopausal, and this weekend we are going away to have a romantic weekend. We (I) will let you know if it is real or she is not feeling it. She said she would, but you are right. 100% she is or not at all!