Ok so my wife is aware of my desire to share her and things haven’t gone so well in the past but on advice from other members I decided a while ago to back right off and leave a few thoughts spinning in her head - a few weeks back I noticed she went to meet an ex male work colleague but she had on a semi sheer lace black top and a push up bra . She hardly wears this and not whilst out with me , she has been a slut in the past and would love to re awaken this in her , she sometimes lets slip about her past but then won’t give any more details - it’s in her past and why would I want to know what she has done with other men ? . But she knows this turns me on also , in the car today she suddenly started talking about her past again without details but made a point of telling me that the coffee guys workmate wanted her phone no . I never reacted but does anyone suggest how to move things along for her to give him it or do you think she already has and was looking for my reaction ?? Or maybe was him she already met with the push up bra on ?