How to tell she likes it better with him?

[Rikx]

How do you tell if she likes it better with the other guy? She may say that she does (or does not), but does she really mean it? When she says it is "different", then what does she mean by that? If she says that it makes no difference, then why would you still let her? What if he's worse than you?

What are the questions you need to ask, to get an honest answer? And how biased is the cuck, for what he wants to hear? There are considerations to be kept in mind. What if you compared an ex to your current wife/gf, how would you rate them, based on what? I do not know about you but I have a very strong bs sensor when she is just making something up because she thinks I like to hear something versus the real thing. But when it comes do "do you like it better with him?" I have gotten confusing answers.

Is it about skills, eagerness, number of orgasms or intensity, body parts, love, hormones, the newness? What makes sex with one person better than with the other? Saying that all applies is boring. So, when you need to get a clear yes or no out of her: with what questions would you (do you) interrogate your wife to tell you the truth, once and for all?

 

[2wheel]

Be careful of asking a question for which you don't already don't know the answer.

I've never ask who is better, asking if she had a good time, if she enjoyed herself is a different tactic, after all it IS about her enjoyment, right?

 

[Bollox3]

My wife and myself trust us 100%, we talk about everything in total honesty. There is no room for bullshit. If she'd prefer with another guy, she would just tell me if I ask her. It can hurt but that's life and in the end, I am the love she loves and that won't change just because someone else is potentially "better" than me.
Also, saying "it's different" is not a flowery phrase, sometimes it's just not comparable as it's totally different indeed and there is no love involved.

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

How do I tell if she likes it better with the other men?

Well, she lets me watch. When she was with me, and I was on top of her, she would just sorta lay there with her eyes closed until I was done.

With them, she grunts, moans, squirms, and even screams. She has her eyes open and is looking at them and at me sometimes. She cums with them.

When we started the journey, I had to wait a couple of days before we had sex after she was with him. She was sore from his bigger cock. Within 24 hours of us having sex, she had gone back and had sex with him.

So I didn’t have to ask her. I can see that she is enjoying them more.

 

[DaveS]

I just have to watch her and listen and it is clear when the guy is pushing all the right buttons.

 

[Jeanswatcher]

"What are the questions you need to ask, to get an honest answer?"

Do you really need to ask?

Over my adult life as her cuck husband i have learnt many things,

One being i do not to need to ask, as i know from:

The pleasure and stimulation on her face,
Her level of submission to him,
The blank and glazed look in her eyes as she orgasms as if spaced out,
Number and intensity of those orgasms, her screams and panting,
Her primal hunger for more even after he has cum, i have been told by several she is like an animal in bed, unsatisfyable for a normal man
The list is endless.

I do however also enjoy being absent, then i know by simply asking, would you like to see him again if the answer is yes then i know he was good. If he is a regular lover if i simply ask if she enjoyed the night and she says yes i know.

However i dont need to ask if she comes home, has a drink, often tea then disappears and changes her knickers then asks to swop for my pair, then i know she feels horny as i feel her juices and his cum sticking to my locked balls and hair, then i know.

Then there is the simple and honest fact that If i was the best lover my wife could ever have, then she wouldnt keep going back for more with her lovers.

My cuckoldress has said that she likes the thrill and excitment of another mans kiss and touch, they are all different, their cocks feel different too and the way they use them, her favourite long term lover could make her have intense orgasms before even removing his pants by his touch, tongue and BDSM.

 

[hotwifelexi]

My wife lost interest in sex with me after she cucked me, that's how I know. She prefers more alpha men. I'm a submissive and somewhat fem bi guy (when we met, I had long hair and had just broken up with my boyfriend). Sex was okay the first few months, but I always had a low sex drive compared to a lot of men, and a long refractory period. If I came, I was done for a day or two. My wife never initiated sex. She’d been with over 20 men before me, and did a lot of wild stuff with them, but was vanilla with me. It was pretty obvious two years in that she was going to cheat, if she hadn't already. So I encouraged her to fuck other men if she wanted. She asked what would happen if she liked it so much she got addicted. (She’d actually already cucked me.) That's the point, I told her. She denied me sex, she went on trips and stayed out late, or all night. I was pussy-free for 5+ years at one point, but really most of our marriage. Her friends and coworkers all knew I was her cuck, and I certainly suspected it. We basically only had sex to get pregnant, and I was 99% denied during the pregnancies. She never bothered to fake interest, orgasms, or lie. She proudly tells me she gets very horny when drinking, but when she drinks around me she never wants sex from me.

 

[Siesta Swingers]

I learned pretty quickly.
She had the opportunity to drive into town after work on a Friday and spend the night with me at a hotel and have a steak dinner on my business account or drive out to her Bulls house and spend the Friday night fucking him.
She choose her Bull over me.

While she’s getting fucked if she starts cussing the guy, calling him a mother fucker and slapping his ass like you’s whip a horse to get it to run harder. Those are her signs that she’s getting fucked good! Better than me, which Im very happy with.

 

[575Cuck]

It’s going to be very obvious
Even more so if she even says it
My wife has no problem saying it
To her that’s the power she has in our relationship, otherwise I’m the dom in ours, as a man who is a protector should be
But to each their own in their relationship

 

[CuriousCathy]

Be careful of asking a question for which you don't already don't know the answer.

I've never ask who is better, asking if she had a good time, if she enjoyed herself is a different tactic, after all it IS about her enjoyment, right?

Exactly, it's a playdate! if he isn't fun to be with and good in the sack and a bigger penis too; I'd be at home instead 💯.

 

[compassionatedom]

Exactly, it's a playdate! if he isn't fun to be with and good in the sack and a bigger penis too; I'd be at home instead 💯.

Cathy, how important is size to you when it comes to sucking cock?

 

[Loridan]

We have a guy friend we see 2 or 3 times a month, many times with him. It's a fun, exciting and relaxing night for all of us.
We take turns with her, I watch them, he watches us, she likes us watching. He gets more sex time with her but I get plenty.
I'm 6 plus, he's 8 plus. She's never said anything that would make me feel inferior. I've never asked if he's better. It's very obvious she likes sex with him a LOT.
She's never cum with me from intercourse, she's cum from me licking her many times. She has and does cum with him fucking her. Yes I feel jealous but it's damn hot to see happen. When she does orgasm with him pumping her that quickly gets him off. I start with her right after and she's turned on like crazy. She fucks me different after he's done, not better but different. She's horny as fuck for days after he's been with us, we have a lot of sex.

 

[Rikx]

We have a guy friend we see 2 or 3 times a month, many times with him. It's a fun, exciting and relaxing night for all of us.
We take turns with her, I watch them, he watches us, she likes us watching. He gets more sex time with her but I get plenty.
I'm 6 plus, he's 8 plus. She's never said anything that would make me feel inferior. I've never asked if he's better. It's very obvious she likes sex with him a LOT.
She's never cum with me from intercourse, she's cum from me licking her many times. She has and does cum with him fucking her. Yes I feel jealous but it's damn hot to see happen. When she does orgasm with him pumping her that quickly gets him off. I start with her right after and she's turned on like crazy. She fucks me different after he's done, not better but different. She's horny as fuck for days after he's been with us, we have a lot of sex.

Wow!! That's really perfect!

If she comes with him and not with you, that's pretty convincing. Did she get her very first orgasm with him, or did she already know that she could come during penetration, but just not with you?

My girlfriend couldn't come during penetration, also not with him. But there were times that I really thought that she would when he fucked her. I hoped she would but she said it didn't happen.

She was a lot louder with him and she'd be so very wet for him too. I'm 5', his was 7'. It makes a difference.

 

[candaulasie]

i think it is normal she likes it better with a lover / boyfriend than her husband, otherwise why having one

 

[strayder]

i think it is normal she likes it better with a lover / boyfriend than her husband, otherwise why having one

My two cents too..
My wife always gets more exited, more horny and more willing to do things she might never have done before with her lover than with me, the everyday sex once a week almost. To my surprise I have found that my wife likes being peed on by her lover. And that she likes too ******** on him in the shower and that is something she never would have done with me. (I haven't even thought of that before...)
My wife almost always get huge orgasms on her lovers cock, both when he fucks her pussy and in her ass. Not because he has a huge cock (His cock is slightly longer than mine, but my cock is thicker so his cock fits better in my wife's tight ass...), but because she is very excited and aroused and very ready for her lover when she have sex with him. Sometimes she even get orgasm when she suck him off, coz she love too feel his cum shots in her mouth.
But that is really the whole reason my wife lover, a stranger we meet in a hot tub at a naturist camping, is fucking my wife and have been fucking her for three years now. I want her to have huge orgasms, I want her too feel really aroused and horny and that she have a really good time fucking with him or with both of us at the same time.

For me it is my wife pleasures that's come first. And that is the sole reason for letting another guy fuck her...

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Since the merely act of fucking with another person, after all the wait and nice expectations and excitement. contributes for a very much aroused and orgasmic experience.

The best you do is to enjoy all the scenario.

 

[hotratz]

Well, one friend, had this large mushroom head, thick cock (I should be so lucky). The first time I watched his cock head spread my wife's pussy lips, her pussy open up around that large head, then close around his shaft, well, was a sight. As he slowly went balls deep, then stopped and remained motionless, I looked at my wife's face, eyes partially open, but appeared rolled back - she ever so slowly started gyrating her pussy around on his cock, well, I knew...
Another friend, slightly larger cock than I, with a upward curve. 1st time he slid in my wife - on our bed - he started pumping her hard. She started making the low, guttural moan, and just kept moaning while he was pound her pussy hard - I'd never heard her make any similiar sound. When he stopped pounding - I wondered how he kept it up for so long - he rolled off her, onto his back for a breahter. My wife didn't miss a beat - she hopped on him, reached behind her, grabbed his cock, and 'impaled' her self on it, furiously started riding him - yep, knew she liked it better... lol

 

[compassionatedom]

Well, one friend, had this large mushroom head, thick cock (I should be so lucky). The first time I watched his cock head spread my wife's pussy lips, her pussy open up around that large head, then close around his shaft, well, was a sight. As he slowly went balls deep, then stopped and remained motionless, I looked at my wife's face, eyes partially open, but appeared rolled back - she ever so slowly started gyrating her pussy around on his cock, well, I knew...
Another friend, slightly larger cock than I, with an upward curve. 1st time he slid in my wife - on our bed - he started pumping her hard. She started making the low, guttural moan, and just kept moaning while he was pound her pussy hard - I'd never heard her make any similiar sound. When he stopped pounding - I wondered how he kept it up for so long - he rolled off her, onto his back for a breahter. My wife didn't miss a beat - she hopped on him, reached behind her, grabbed his cock, and 'impaled' her self on it, furiously started riding him - yep, knew she liked it better... lol

I’ve always savored married women worshipping my Cock

 

[2wheel]

My two cents too..
My wife always gets more exited, more horny and more willing to do things she might never have done before with her lover than with me, the everyday sex once a week almost. To my surprise I have found that my wife likes being peed on by her lover. And that she likes too ******** on him in the shower and that is something she never would have done with me. (I haven't even thought of that before...)
My wife almost always get huge orgasms on her lovers cock, both when he fucks her pussy and in her ass. Not because he has a huge cock (His cock is slightly longer than mine, but my cock is thicker so his cock fits better in my wife's tight ass...), but because she is very excited and aroused and very ready for her lover when she have sex with him. Sometimes she even get orgasm when she suck him off, coz she love too feel his cum shots in her mouth.
But that is really the whole reason my wife lover, a stranger we meet in a hot tub at a naturist camping, is fucking my wife and have been fucking her for three years now. I want her to have huge orgasms, I want her too feel really aroused and horny and that she have a really good time fucking with him or with both of us at the same time.

For me it is my wife pleasures that's come first. And that is the sole reason for letting another guy fuck her...

And there you have it!!!!

 

[owlmale]

My wife finally told me after I kept asking that are friend was better. His body cock everything felt better.