My husband has been hinting to me that he wants me to be more dominant and incorporate more humiliation in our sex. So, I just asked him point blank and he yes but seemed embarrassed about it. I whole heartedly believe in personal and sexual exploration so I'm not sure why he feels any shame to tell me things. Anyway, we had a solid conversation about it last night. He wants it from time to time in our sex as well as trying it with our friend that fucks me. Humiliation is not in my nature. I've never done it (on purpose) and am lost. I've been making lists trying to get ideas (yes I am very lame thanks for agreeing with me). Most things I've read online are pretty extreme and definitely not where I want to start. Our friend with benefits is coming over soon so I need to get my shit figured out! I asked him (since he'll be involved in the humiliation of my husband as well) but he doesn't have any bright ideas either. Of course, I asked hubs but said he wants "verbal emasculation and anything else you want to do." Awesome, thanks hubs! Any ideas I can use?! Nothing too extreme please.