Humiliation ideas please

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  1. Yoursexypanties

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    My husband has been hinting to me that he wants me to be more dominant and incorporate more humiliation in our sex. So, I just asked him point blank and he yes but seemed embarrassed about it. I whole heartedly believe in personal and sexual exploration so I'm not sure why he feels any shame to tell me things. Anyway, we had a solid conversation about it last night. He wants it from time to time in our sex as well as trying it with our friend that fucks me.

    Humiliation is not in my nature. I've never done it (on purpose) and am lost. I've been making lists trying to get ideas (yes I am very lame thanks for agreeing with me). Most things I've read online are pretty extreme and definitely not where I want to start. Our friend with benefits is coming over soon so I need to get my shit figured out! I asked him (since he'll be involved in the humiliation of my husband as well) but he doesn't have any bright ideas either. Of course, I asked hubs but said he wants "verbal emasculation and anything else you want to do." Awesome, thanks hubs!

    Any ideas I can use?! Nothing too extreme please.
     
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    • Put your husband in chastity for a while. For example, while he is watching you get ready, or while he is watching you make out with your boyfriend. Do things to try and get him turned on. This will drive him nuts, since the device will prevent him from getting hard.
    • While in chastity, tie your cuckold to a chair. Before your boyfriend comes in the room, give your cuck a little sexy lap dance to turn him on - Kiss him intimately, rub him, etc. Then bring your boyfriend in and make hubby watch while you get fucked.
    • Have your cuckold and boyfriend stand on either side of you naked. Compare your cuckold’s much smaller penis (constricted in chastity) to your boyfriend’s much bigger cock.
    • Have hubby hold your legs or pussy open so your boyfriend can have easy access. Or, if your boyfriend doesn’t mind, have your husband actually put your boyfriend’s cock in your pussy.
    • Here’s a great babystep toward more advanced techniques: Have your boyfriend cum in your hands, and then use his cum as lube to give your husband a handjob, whispering to him until he cums. It can be especially fun if you tie/handcuff him to a chair (and maybe gag him) to prevent any objection. Most likely your husband would be disgusted by the thought of another man’s cum, but using it as lube with a good handjob will inevitably cause him to cum despite his objections, which will confuse and embarrass him like he never imagined.
    • After your boyfriend cums in your mouth, show your husband, and then give him a long french kiss with cum still in your mouth or dripping from you lips. (If your cuckold is not ready for this step, try giving him a small taste of your boyfriend - While sucking your boyfriend’s cock, squeeze the base and try to get a drip of precum that you can then slowly lick off and show your husband. Then give him a long french kiss.)
    • Only have sex with your cuckold immediately after your boyfriend fucks you so he can feel the difference, especially how stretched out you are after your boyfriend fucks you. While doing this, whisper to him how you can barely feel him. (This works even better if your boyfriend cums inside you. Ask your cuckold what it feels like to be inside you, reminding him that that warm, wetness is what your boyfriend left behind.)
    • Get in the 69 position with your cuckold underneath you. (You’re not going to touch him, but you can lightly blow on his cock, and let your hair gently rub against his penis to keep him in agony). Have your boyfriend fuck you doggystyle while hubby licks your pussy. Not only will this torture your cuckold, but it feels amazing to be filled up with your boyfriend’s cock and at the same time have your clit licked by your cuckold’s warm wet tongue.
    • While doing the above 69 position, let your boyfriend cum inside you. After he pulls out, sit up so your pussy is over your husband’s mouth. Make him clean you up. (It will also feel really good as you kind of gently ride his face while he pleases you orally.)
    • Another technique is to give your husband a gentle handjob to keep him hard while he is “cleaning you.” Giving him a little reward like this is a good way to train him to physically enjoy an act that might otherwise disgust him. It will become like a Pavlovian response, and later you may be able to forego the reward.
    • While your boyfriend fucks you missionary, hold your husband’s head down on your belly, directly in front of your boyfriend’s cock going in and out of your pussy. After he cums inside you, tell your husband to get between your legs and “clean you up.” (Even if he doesn’t swallow it, this will still be incredibly humiliating for him.)
    • Give your cuckold ultimatums. Try to keep him turned on the entire time without cumming, and tell him you will only let him cum if he does [fill in the blank]. For example: I’ll only let you cum if you clean me up after he’s done.
     
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    CUCKOLD HUMILIATION
    Cuckold husband humiliations:

    1. Tease your husband with sex and sexual ideas.

    2. Comment on how good other men look to you.

    3. Tell your husband you like big dicks.

    4. Tell your husband his dick is not big enough for you.

    5. Tell your husband your lover/s are much better at sex.

    6. Tell your husband he is a wimp.

    7. Tell your husband is a fag.

    8. Laugh, grin, giggle or shake your head in contempt every time you see your husbands dick.

    9. Tell your husband you can’t wait to have sex with someone else.

    10. Tell your husband you’re horny because you have been thinking of some other man.

    11. Make your husband watch as you prepare to go out to look for other men.

    12. Make your husband watch as you prepare to go out on a date.

    13. Take a lot of care when you get ready to go out. Do your self up really good, a long bubble bath, shave your legs, paint your nails, wear perfume and jewelry, do your hair, everything, the whole nine yards.

    14. Shave your pussy.

    15. Make your husband bathe you, shave your legs and pussy, pick out clothes, jewelry and perfume to get you ready for your lovers.

    16. Get a tattoo of a suggestive nature: QOS (Queen of Spades for attracting black men), black snake, “Slut”, “Easy” “Robert”( your lovers name) etc. You can get temporary ones too.

    17. Wear ankle bracelets. These are a sign that you are available to fuck.

    18. Wear ultra sexy, revealing slutty clothing, especially high heels.

    19. Don’t wear underwear.

    20. If you do, wear the skimpiest, sexiest thongs.

    21. Flirt heavily with other men at all times, especially in front of your husband.

    22. Find, meet and go out with other cheating wives.

    23. Form a local cheating wives club.

    24. Make your husband give you lots of cash when you go out.

    25. Make your husband go out and get a hotel room for you and your lover to use and bring you the key.

    26. Make your husband go with you and watch from across the bar/club as you meet, flirt and pick up men.

    27. Make your husband drive you and your lover around while you and him make out, suck and fuck in the back seat.

    28. Make your husband drive you and your lover to the motel and make your husband sit in the car and wait until your done, whenever that is.

    29. Make your husband go out and find lots of men for you and you pick and choose which ones you like.

    30. Make your husband go into a bar/club and tell candidates that you are available for sex.

    31. Suck off men under the table in a bar/club.

    32. Suck off men in the parking lot or alley.

    33. Let men feel you up in public.

    34. Let men fuck you in the parking lot, on the hood of your husbands car or in the back seat.

    35. Let your husband see, feel and eat your lover’s cum that has been deposited in your face, mouth, pussy and ass.

    36. Make your husband watch.

    37. Deny your husband the privilege of watching.

    38. Fuck another man in your bed.

    39. Fuck another man while your husband is at work.

    40. Fuck another man while your husband is in the next room.

    41. Fuck another man, film it and make your husband watch it later.

    42. Place your husband in a chastity device.

    43. Tie up or otherwise restrain your husband and make him watch while you fuck other men. Consider gagging him too.

    44. While your fucking your men and your husband is restrained, call your husband nasty, demeaning names.

    45. While your husband watches, always verbally express how good it feels.

    46. Do things with other men you wouldn’t or haven’t done with your husband.

    47. Tell your husband all the details of your fucking.

    48. Deny your husband the details of your fucking, but let him know your fucking other men.

    49. Tell your mature daughters you fuck other men and Daddy likes it.

    50. Fuck your husband’s boss.

    51. Fuck your husband’s friends.

    52. Fuck black men.

    53. Fuck older men.

    54. Fuck younger men.
     
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    CUCKOLD HUMILIATION 2
    Cuckold husband humiliations:



    55. Fuck rich men.

    56. Fuck bikers, truckers and cops.

    57. Tell your husband you’d like to get pregnant by another man.

    58. Get pregnant by another man.

    59. Suck off a man in front of your husband and spit the cum in your husband’s mouth.

    60. Go to XXX adult video booths and suck dicks through glory holes.

    61. Make your husband suck your lovers dick.

    62. Make your husband lick your lovers asshole.

    63. Make your husband take your lovers dick up the ass.

    64. Make your husband wear women’s clothing, make up and a wig.

    65. Make your husband clean the house while you’re out fucking other men.

    66. Make your husband baby sit your lover’s children while you got out with your lover.

    67. Make your husband wash and wax your lover’s car while you fuck in your bed.

    68. Make your husband go to your lover’s house and mow, paint, do other chores while you fuck in your bed.

    69. Make your husband get a “Cuckold” tattoo.

    70. You and your lover escort your husband to the clinic for a vasectomy and you both watch while it is done.

    71. Make your husband work more overtime while you go out.

    72. Make your husband pick out and pay for gifts for your lovers.

    73. Make your husband ask your lovers to fuck you.

    74. Make fun of your husbands dick in front of your lovers and your husband.

    75. Deride, insult, and name call your husband in front of him and your lovers.

    76. Have your lovers humiliate your husband.

    77. Have your lovers slap your husband.

    78. Teach your daughters to have sex with your lovers.

    79. Teach your daughters to humiliate their father.

    80. Go out looking for men with your daughters.

    81. Piss on your husband right before you leave for a date.

    82. Shit on your husband right before you leave for a date.

    83. Deny your husband sex for long periods of time.

    84. Deny your husband all sex, even masturbation.

    85. Allow your husband only masturbation.

    86. Let a big dog fuck your husband.

    87. Walk around your house naked but deny your husband sex.

    88. Watch porn movies but masturbate but deny your husband sex.

    89. Masturbate in front of your husband while you tell him the details of your sex with others.

    90. Bring home used condoms and give them to your husband.

    91. Wear all jewelry, clothes given to you by your lovers.

    92. Have your lover’s call you at home and ask for you when your husband answers.

    93. Let your lovers use your husband’s prize possessions i.e. boat, motorcycle, guns, computers, car/truck, etc. anytime they want.

    94. Leave notes for your husband telling him your out on a date and for him to clean the house, wash the car, do chores etc.

    95. Call your lovers in front of your husband just to flirt, chat and make dates.

    96. Make your husband buy all of your condoms and lube.

    97. Make your husband pay for all items and services related to your fucking other men.

    98. Make your husband lick out cum from your pussy and ass.

    99. Make your husband lick off any pussy juice and cum from your lovers dick.

    100. Make your husband suck your lovers dick into a hard on so your lover can fuck your again.

    101. Make your husband guide your lovers dick into your pussy and ass.

    102. Make your husband lie under the bed while you fuck your lovers.

    103. Tell your girlfriends your husband is a cuckold and you cheat on him a lot.

    104. Tell your mother.

    105. Tell HIS mother.

    106. Find girlfriends you like to go out with that hate your husband.

    107. Make your husband buy you sex toys.

    108. When out buying slut clothes, take your husband with you and make it clear to the sales staff that the clothes will be worn for other men, not your husband. Say things like, “Oh! He’ll love this!” Or, “Mmm, I know I can pick up a lot guys with that!”

    109. Fall in love with another man.

    110. Tell your lover you love him in front of your husband.

    111. Have a second marriage ceremony with all your closest friends that know you’re a slut, remove the ring given to you by your husband and wear the ring given to you by your lover. Make your husband the ring bearer and an usher and leave for a honeymoon financed by your husband. Hell, take the kids.

    112. Same as above but leave the kids for hubby to take care of.

    113. Take photos and video of your husband sucking dicks and getting assfucked by lots of other men, then store them securely and threaten to use them in court if you ever need them.

    114. Flirt and kiss other men when you are out.

    115. Always let other men pay for your drinks when you are out.

    116. Show your husband phone nr from other men.

    117. Always dress you self like a slut when you are in other mens company.

    118 You and your lover, use the mouth of your huby like an ashtray after you made love with your lover.

    119. get rid of all the toilet paper in the house. in the morning when bull has to dump a load, have him drag sissy into the toilet on all fours. while bull does his buisness, sissy cleans off bull’s feet. then bull turns around and grabs sissy’s head and forces him to use his tongue as toilet paper. there is nothing more humiliating than having to clean shit off a big hairy bull asshole. and then having to thank him for the honor. repeat this every day.

    120. have your lover bring his buddies over for a football game. sissy will serve them beer and they won’t even have to get up to go piss. all they have to do is snap their fingers and sissy scurries over on all fours, opens his mouth and drinks all their piss. hope for overtime so that sissy can drink piss all night long

    121. After a lot of heavy sex in the bedroom, with the cuck being denied watching, tell him you feel sorry for him and tell him he can join you “for a few lines.

    When the little bitch starts looking around for his “lines”,hot wife opens her thighs and shows fluff boy lines of cum dribbling out of pussy and ass. The bull will then force the poor cuck to snort that nasty stuff up using his faggot (brown!) nose.

    122. Whenever you go away on a trip alone have your husband pack condoms and toys in your suitcase. Wonder aloud whether or not there are enough condoms. Then ask your husband if he thinks he should go to the store and buy more or risk having you run out.

    123. When your lover is over, send cuckold to bed early (like 8:00) so you can have some privacy with your lover.

    124. Threaten to give him a bare bottom spanking in front of your lover if he comes out of his bedroom before morning.

    125. Follow through on the above threat. While spanking his bare butt, lecture him about how you deserve a good fucking from a real man and you are not going to tolerate him interrupting that.

    126. When slut wife comes in from a date drunk she should piss on the carpet in the middle of the room and make the cuck clean it up, while he is cleaning it up she should tell him all about her date.



    Cuckold husband humiliation in front of your lover!

    Cuckold humiliation 1: Make him guide your lovers’ cock into you.

    Cuckold humiliation 2:

    Make your slave husband jerk your lovers’ cock. It has to be real hard for you!

    Cuckold humiliation 3:

    Make your cuckold lick your ass while getting fucked. Fart in his mouth if you can.

    Cuckold humiliation 4:

    Make him lick your lovers’ ass crack. Make fun of him.

    Cuckold humiliation 5:

    Make him lick balls. He has to beg for the privilege first.
     
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    Hi, hope the above helps u :)
     
  6. Yoursexypanties

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    Holy smokes that's a lot of ideas! Many are way too extreme for us but I do like a couple of them! Thank you
     
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    Yes, i know, but i listed down all the ideas im getting and gathering from other sites, u can sellect what suites both of u, enjoy. Good luck lady.
     
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    Being tied up and able to see you having your boyfriend, or not able to see you (gags, blindfolds, outside the bedroom) are all great.
    Lay hubby in the bath and one or both of you pee all over him.
    Get a cane and punish him (doesn't have to be from a sex shop, ordinary garden canes are wonderful and cheap) for whatever reason. Spread his legs and run the cane up the inside of his thighs - that is VERY erotic believe me.
    Hope you get to use some of the ideas here - there are so many.
    Do tell us how it goes.
     
  9. Rich1

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    How about you exchange sexy emails with a guy and get turned on, play with yourself and cum resulting from the sexy emails you receive while your hubby watches the whole thing develop. What do you think to that ?
     
  10. Funforus96

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    I want to watch my husband do these things.
     
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    I want my husband to be underneath us while we fuck. I want him to lick my pussy and the big cock that's fucking me.. Then I want hubby to be down in doggy style eating and cleaning my pussy while he gets his ass fucked! I'm getting so horny thinking about it right now!
     
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    U know, nothing tastes better than fresh cum out from wife's pussy
     
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    I chickened out the other night! I had a plan in place to incorporate more humiliation but I lost the nerve. The boys were staring at me waiting for me to give instruction and it made me panic. I did little things like have my hubby hold me while getting fucked and having sex with him afterward with Eric's cum on my stomach and thighs. Nothing crazy though. Sorry! I wish I had an exciting story to tell. I'll keep working at it though. Thanks for all the ideas peeps!
     
  14. Jack Taylor

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    My wife and I have progressed over the years. One thing that turns us both on is when I lick her boyfriend's cum from her pussy after he fucks her. Sometimes she makes me suck his dick and swallow his load too.
     
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    Would love to see that