I've seen my wife's ex boyfriend fuck her many times. A few months ago she said she would no longer fuck him and that she would only fuck me. I've only watched never participated in any of the activities. My question is this. If I can get her going again what does anyone think I should do to add to the excitement. I know people don't like to respond too much on this site, but step outside your comfort zone for once and give me your opinions. This question is to the women, the men the couples whoever. Tell me how you would spice things up.