Ideas for rules

what do you want/not want him to do or you to have to do? start there.
I wouldn't look for rules just for the sake of rules. the more there are, the less hot it gets.
 
As a couple we agreed no kissing thats hers mine no going down her pet names gifts or romanic talk so far. As for my rule no clue how that goes i know ill get caged while she is out.she said she wouldnt swollow him but im sure that will chamge which is fine.
 
Its been like since late last year since we have had sex or has she told him its been sooooo soooo long. I cant get her to say if she is saving herself for him or not. She wants to talk over rule ideas with him 1st which seems odd to me seeing has i am her husband and the being "cheated" on after all should i have 1st input in ground rules