I generally try to only hook up with men who my husband likes or approves of. At the end of the day, I want this to be something we do together and both enjoy. But, there are times when some guy I find hot is somebody my husband just does not like.
A few years ago, we went out to a swinger club and I met his very arrogant and dominant man. I do enjoy the whole bad boy persona but my husband is off-put by the type. This guy, like many of his type, thinks they are doing something for the lady that the husband cannot. I made out with this guy and we went as far as we could at an off-premise club. I told my husband I wanted to take this guy home and he reluctantly agreed. In the backseat of the car, I sucked this man's nice penis and he got me naked, although I was not wearing much, to begin with. The guy was calling me a slut and whore which drives my husband crazy, but it was turning me on. Once in the house, the guy was downright rude to my husband but he took it well and let me have my fun. After we were done, my husband took the guy back to his car at the club.
I have to admit, my husband lets me do what I want. I would not be as nice if he wanted to have sex with some woman I thought was hotter, or skinnier than me or who I thought was a bitch.