I'm going to cuckold my hubby - in progress

[Distraction79]

Those are really baby steps. I hope you are successful

 

[jess8eris5]

Thank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.

Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.

What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.

Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.

 

[Vincenzo]

Thank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.

Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.

What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.

Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.

I understand his reaction, and I think he just wants to be part of it. Not feel like he was cheated on. But is curious and wants to be a part of it all

 

[Vincenzo]

Thank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.

Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.

What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.

Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.

My wife and I have 1 rule,no playing without the other present. She can be tipsy and horny and just msg me to expect company and bring someone home to play. Ill watch, join or whatever

 

[Goldfather]

Thank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.

Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.

What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.

Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.

So far every is going fine as I see for you, but I think you should go a little farther or you take the risk that nothing ever comes.
Tell him that you fantasize with a man eating your pussy, nothing else, and ask him if he will allow that to happen?
He probably will mention D, you must remark, Noooo just a man.
That will make him less jealous towards D.
Keep that fantasy for a few days on his head and asked if he allow that if he knows a man who can eat your puss?
Then the next day shave your pussy show him, and tell him I'm ready for a stranger to eat it, that will blow his mind.
If you don't mention D he would be more interested and less likely to confront you.
Whem your only desire it is to be leaked a part of your body, he will feel that is not really cheating and he will be less apprehensive
The best will be if he comes with a name to fulfill your desire and probably that name will be D
Work together to find a man and the location where that will take place you will lead him to the man you want and the place you want.
If everything goes wright you need to call/text him and tell him that is really happening, then a call in the middle of the act, you need to thank him and ask him if you can go farther because you really needed but that you won't do anything without his consent.
All this can be also previously talk.
I think tell him your little fantasy, ask him, would you mind? Save the pussy, thank him how good husband he is and ask him to go farther will lead you exactly where you want to be

 

[Abaass]

Thank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.

Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.

What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.

Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.

Hey, you are doing great job of convincing him and as a man i will give you 3 steps that will give you the breakthrough you need. First step is you need to not let him do it alone and you have to be the dominant one, basically anytime he wants to do it you ask him to do it infront of you and not cum until you order him to, if that means not letting him jerk himself off it is fine, by making yourself the dominant one and the one commands to cum or not is a power move that will make him weak against you in term of sex, add some dirty talk about D or how he cant satisfy you and you will achieve step 1. Step 2 and 3 can be combined, which is porn and a dildo, hear me out, you can buy a dildo that is bigger than him and preferably blacked color and use it while you command him not to cum, this shows that cant satisfy you to the point where you use a dildo instead of him, and make sure he watches you use it and refusing to use his penis which will show how weak he is in bed, if he starts doubting and being sad, comfort him, he will still think about how much he is unable to satisfy you. Step 3 is porn which will actually give you a clean signs if he is okay with it, first watch normal sex porn with a man that has a giant penis and comment on in repeatedly and comment on how you wish you feel such orgasm or if he last this long, than slowly fill your porn account with cuckold videos, that will make the home page show cuckold porn and he will see it (you have to make porn account for that to happen), than slowly comment on how kinky that is and how you two should watch it for fun, here you have to show how interested you are in that by doing it in crazy way using the dildo, if he likes it he will show it and you could tell, if he does not he will not complain and just forgets about it, do that many times and he will eventually crack. Another tip is make him always involved in the stuff you do, like talking about D or cuckolding, if you make him feel alone he will stay away from it but if you show love with him and pleasure in other stuff you like he will be okay with it. I will wait for your breakthrough, good luck (i recommend maryberrie for cuckold porn)

 

[Stevens4fun]

If we have sex, it doesn't take long for him to come. I mentioned earlier that he shouldn't worry about lasting longer. Recently, I noticed that he started to let out a few short moans during foreplay. During penetration, he remained silent, and I could only tell he'd come because his cock went soft.

Once my wife told me not to worry about "holding off" and just let it go when I was ready, I knew she was ready for a BF. And I liked it. It took a lot of pressure off, and she was soon having orgasms with him. I liked that too. As a husband, I don't have to see my wife orgasm with her BF. Hearing her have the orgasm with him, or simply her telling me she's experiencing orgasms with him is enough to arouse me in most cases.

 

[HotOneWife]

My experience is very similar to yours. I love my husband very much. We had been married several years, and the sex was not so great. My husband was diagnosed with a micro penis, and he cums really fast, like in seconds. I was not getting what I needed. Before meeting and marrying him I had been in a number of very sexually satisfying relationships, but just not with the right guys. When I met my husband I knew he was the right guy. Except for the sexual part. He had brought up to me that he realized that he was lacking in the sex department. So, after several years, I told him that yes, the sex wasn't that good, but that I loved him very much. I then asked what he thought about me having another man just as a sex toy. No dating, no relationships, no cheating. He was a little surprised, but said that he'd think about it. We had a number of discussions about, came up with some mutually agreed upon rules, and then we went for it. We went to a club, I met a man, and we started having sex. Oh my, what a difference. Finally I was getting what I desperately needed. I usually don't have my husband in the room while I'm having sex. I know I respond to my lover with such extreme sexual excitement and energy that I don't want my husband to see that and be hurt. Also, I do things with other men that I don't do with my husband. So those time are my times, and not his. We agreed to this before we started and he's ok with it. I do let him in occasionally, and he either just watches (which he loves) or joins in for a threesome. Afterward, he likes me to give him all the intimate details, which he loves to hear.

So, that's a brief description of my story. I also knew that cheating was not an option, so this worked out perfectly. At first my husband was a little unsure, but we talked it through and now he loves it, and he loves knowing that all of my needs are being met. We are both much happier, our sex life is better, and our marriage is wonderful. I'm a lucky girl.

 

[nicebiguy]

I thought several times of sharing it. Should I or shouldn't I? I feel the need to tell someone what I've been doing with my husband for more than 1 year. Yes, I'm trying to train him to be a cuckold!

Since I've been here, I've had many great, but also many strange conversations with others. My original goal was to find a solution so that my husband could last longer. Cheating on him was and is an absolute no-go for me. Sex is important for a healthy relationship. Through some discussions, I have learned that I have a right to satisfaction and that love has nothing to do with it. It was not an easy decision for me to make. Don't get me wrong! I love him so much, but now more in an emotional way. I don't want to hurt him, I want him to be happy. But that doesn't mean that I want to abstain from sexual satisfaction. There was and still is a process going on in me. That's why I searched for ways to get his approval to "play" with others. Especially at the beginning I struggled with myself: Is that right what I'm doing? Just then, a few days later, my husband gave me another reason to continue my research. Because he is very dominant and we are in a monogamous relationship, he would never agree if I asked him. So, I needed an approach to convince him slowly. I really want to avoid making him angry. This avoids unnecessary fights or repetitive discussions. He can be stubborn when he wants sex. Then he gets very often on my nerves. You guys would say, he's just horny. We've already had several discussions about it, but he keeps trying. Thinking in categories like C1, C2, C3 is stupid in my humble opinion. Cuckolding is for me, that I can control his arousal. I decide when we have sex. Humiliation in terms of cuckolding is not what I want! Someone gave me good advice to open my husband slowly and to test what he's willing to do and what not. I know that there is no specific approach to convincing someone. How-to guides that say "Follow these 10 steps exactly and within 7 days he'll be a sissy cuckold" are so stupid and wrong. Many paths can lead to the goal, and some work for one person and some for another. My personal approach was to invent a fictional man I've met and tell my husband about him. That way, I can test his reactions without cheating on him and get him used to the idea of someone flirting with me and so on.

About a year ago, the topic of having kids came up. We both agreed that we don't want a kid. So, I was able to get my husband fixed last spring. I've read in two well-written guides that this will help him on his journey to cuckolding. Of course, I expected other positive aspects out of it. What you have to know is that when he's horny enough, he's comfortable with a lot, at least he gets pleasure out of it. So, it was Win-Win for us both.

That's how I started:

In summer, my husband and I were lying in bed together, talking about our day. I told my husband that I was in a food store where I met a group of paramedics. I told him that I was surprised that they must work 24 hours regularly and that they purchase food and will cook for the colleagues who are waiting in the station in case an emergency call comes in. My husband agreed that he knows that they must work 24 hours regularly and he finds it great that some cook for others. I told him that the name of one paramedic is D. and that he was a sympathetic and kind person.

I cuddled my husband and began to touch his body. I was kissing him. I think he was surprised because he didn't say anything anymore. The reaction to my touches and kisses didn't take long. We had sex and I rode him hard which made him to come quick. I didn't comment on that and cleaned myself. My husband asked surprised something like "What was that?" and I replied that I just was in the mood.

I repeated that a few days later with much more the same story. I saw another group of paramedics at the food store. Some of them looked very nice. Then I fucked the brain out of my hubby again. He didn't say something about that. I guess he liked that. He got sex and everything was fine. Again, a few days later I told him that I saw the paramedics. I mentioned that they must go shopping every day at the same time. I also added that I saw D. again and we said Hi to each other. When we began to have sex, my husband was a little bit reluctant and asked why I always told him about the paramedics and then begin to have sex with him. I thought damn, he suspected something. The only option I had was to move forward, therefore I didn't really answer him. Just replied "it doesn't matter" and started fucking him. Before he came, he requested to slow down to last longer. I didn't care about it. I just told him that I loved him and continued at the same pace. It took only a couple of seconds and he groaned.

For some weeks I didn't mention the paramedics. But in the meantime, I had sex with him regularly. My goal was that he doesn't try to last longer. I regularly told him that he shouldn't take care of me and should release into me when he feels that he is beginning to come. Well, I must say it worked. Faster than I expected. I also began to jerk him as foreplay a few times. Sometimes I was wondering myself what I was doing. I had days that I tried to get him horny as long as possible. Because he was so aroused, he needed only a few thrusts before he came. But he didn't complain (which was different before). He just enjoyed the feeling which is good and shows me that he accepted that he doesn't last long.

When my period started, I requested that he jerks off. He was sad because that means no sex for at least 1 week. But I encouraged him, that I like it when I see a guy jerking off. That made it easier for him. Almost daily I requested that and he agreed each time. As I mentioned, I learned that I need to get him excited enough to break down any walls of resistance. I began to join him when he showered. Jerk him with enough soap is effective to get him near the edge of pleasure but that does bring him over the edge. He requested sex then regularly, but I refused all the time. I wanted to make sure that he doesn't care about what others think. If he has the need to jerk off, then he should do it. The first few times, the said that it's strange for him to jerk off in front of me but it went better each time. In an earlier post I mentioned that I caught him masturbation during watching porn. I didn't talk with him about that. But I'm sure he made use of it more than before.

Some other stories where I got him excited are:

(1) Two months ago, we went to a 90s retro party in a party tent. There was an older couple (approx. 50 years old) who cuddled and kissed the whole time. They whispered into each other’s ears, smiled and kissed again. I noticed that my husband looked at them very often. At one time they walked outside, holding hands. I asked my husband what he thinks and that I assume they are going to have sex. He replied „Really?“. It felt like 10 minutes later they came back, holding hands. But they didn't continue cuddling and kissing. I placed one hand on my husband's leg and told him that I was right. Then I glided with my hand up and removed it. I felt that he was semi-hard, so he liked the thought what I told him. To avoid him annoying me, I whispered to him "later, at home". We came back at 3 am. I totally forgot what I whispered him, but he asked for sex before we go ....... I denied because I was tired but offered him that he can jerk off. He did without complaining and I had to smile. I think this is a good step we have taken so far.

(2) We regularly visit the wellness area of a swimming pool or go to a spa. There are often many couples there, and in the evening it’s quiet. We regularly see couples kissing passionately. I point this out to my husband and ask him where he thinks their hands are when they’re not visible. Meanwhile, his imagination is running wild. He watches the kissing couples for minutes, even when we are talking. It turns him on too, because he regularly suggests that we get romantic in the water as well. So far, I've managed to hold him off, and it's nice to see how he's constantly aroused and sometimes can't think straight because of it.


Of course, we still have sex! My husband can be really a jerk sometimes. So, I think it's good for him to lower his ego. He doesn't care about coming quickly anymore. I noticed that putting pressure on him to try to last longer results in the opposite. I started wearing an ankle and to make dirty talk to him while having sex. This helps me to give him the general idea of wife sharing bit by bit. I already mentioned to fuck me harder, increased that to fuck me like a real man, even I mentioned to release his sterile cum in me. Also to be my bull. I think he likes what I was saying because I notice that he tries to do his best. I must admit that it's also fun for me. It's really giving me a kind of pleasure to have control about how he acts.

I know that fantasy is not comparable to reality. Especially that we both are alone and everything is between us. So, two months ago I was trying to go deeper. I mentioned that I went to the food store. After buying all the stuff, I tried to drive home but the engine didn't start. I was shocked because this never happened before. It was cold and I didn't know what to do. My husband asked surprised why I didn't call him. I answered that I was right before doing that when I noticed the paramedic D. with a colleague of his. So instead of calling him (my husband) I asked D. for help. I said that he was able to fix it. Because of the cold, the battery went low and he helped me start the engine again. I told my husband that I was so grateful that I had to hug him. I mentioned that D. has beautiful blue-gray eyes. Then I started making out with my husband. Mentioning that D. and the other paramedics really save lives. On one side my husband didn't say something about that. But on the other side when I noticed that he was trying to say something I really made him silence him by kissing him or saying "shhh". After we had sex he didn't say a comment. The next days he also said nothing about that.

I know some of you may not like what I was doing. Some of you are celebrating. I was not even sure to post this, but I'm interested in your thoughts if I'm on track. Especially from other wives. My intention was not to write a guide or something in that direction. I've read this text several times and each time I felt the need to add something. That's why it got longer and longer. Looking at the threads, a lot of guys asking how to bring up the topic to their wives, I noticed questions from wives are rare. Hopefully my experience so far can give you good ideas to start (not more).

Have you considered locking his cock in a cage? I know when I'm locked and haven't cum in a while my submissive side comes. to the surface and makes me a lot more willing to surrender, submit and obey.

 

[atantonov]

My experience is very similar to yours. I love my husband very much. We had been married several years, and the sex was not so great. My husband was diagnosed with a micro penis, and he cums really fast, like in seconds. I was not getting what I needed. Before meeting and marrying him I had been in a number of very sexually satisfying relationships, but just not with the right guys. When I met my husband I knew he was the right guy. Except for the sexual part. He had brought up to me that he realized that he was lacking in the sex department. So, after several years, I told him that yes, the sex wasn't that good, but that I loved him very much. I then asked what he thought about me having another man just as a sex toy. No dating, no relationships, no cheating. He was a little surprised, but said that he'd think about it. We had a number of discussions about, came up with some mutually agreed upon rules, and then we went for it. We went to a club, I met a man, and we started having sex. Oh my, what a difference. Finally I was getting what I desperately needed. I usually don't have my husband in the room while I'm having sex. I know I respond to my lover with such extreme sexual excitement and energy that I don't want my husband to see that and be hurt. Also, I do things with other men that I don't do with my husband. So those time are my times, and not his. We agreed to this before we started and he's ok with it. I do let him in occasionally, and he either just watches (which he loves) or joins in for a threesome. Afterward, he likes me to give him all the intimate details, which he loves to hear.

So, that's a brief description of my story. I also knew that cheating was not an option, so this worked out perfectly. At first my husband was a little unsure, but we talked it through and now he loves it, and he loves knowing that all of my needs are being met. We are both much happier, our sex life is better, and our marriage is wonderful. I'm a lucky girl.

LOVE your story!

 

[dickhurtz]

My experience is very similar to yours. I love my husband very much. We had been married several years, and the sex was not so great. My husband was diagnosed with a micro penis, and he cums really fast, like in seconds. I was not getting what I needed. Before meeting and marrying him I had been in a number of very sexually satisfying relationships, but just not with the right guys. When I met my husband I knew he was the right guy. Except for the sexual part. He had brought up to me that he realized that he was lacking in the sex department. So, after several years, I told him that yes, the sex wasn't that good, but that I loved him very much. I then asked what he thought about me having another man just as a sex toy. No dating, no relationships, no cheating. He was a little surprised, but said that he'd think about it. We had a number of discussions about, came up with some mutually agreed upon rules, and then we went for it. We went to a club, I met a man, and we started having sex. Oh my, what a difference. Finally I was getting what I desperately needed. I usually don't have my husband in the room while I'm having sex. I know I respond to my lover with such extreme sexual excitement and energy that I don't want my husband to see that and be hurt. Also, I do things with other men that I don't do with my husband. So those time are my times, and not his. We agreed to this before we started and he's ok with it. I do let him in occasionally, and he either just watches (which he loves) or joins in for a threesome. Afterward, he likes me to give him all the intimate details, which he loves to hear.

So, that's a brief description of my story. I also knew that cheating was not an option, so this worked out perfectly. At first my husband was a little unsure, but we talked it through and now he loves it, and he loves knowing that all of my needs are being met. We are both much happier, our sex life is better, and our marriage is wonderful. I'm a lucky girl.what is it do things with other men that I don't do with my husband.

what is it that you do with other men that you don't do with your husband?

 

[DarkSpectre]

My experience is very similar to yours. I love my husband very much. We had been married several years, and the sex was not so great. My husband was diagnosed with a micro penis, and he cums really fast, like in seconds. I was not getting what I needed. Before meeting and marrying him I had been in a number of very sexually satisfying relationships, but just not with the right guys. When I met my husband I knew he was the right guy. Except for the sexual part. He had brought up to me that he realized that he was lacking in the sex department. So, after several years, I told him that yes, the sex wasn't that good, but that I loved him very much. I then asked what he thought about me having another man just as a sex toy. No dating, no relationships, no cheating. He was a little surprised, but said that he'd think about it. We had a number of discussions about, came up with some mutually agreed upon rules, and then we went for it. We went to a club, I met a man, and we started having sex. Oh my, what a difference. Finally I was getting what I desperately needed. I usually don't have my husband in the room while I'm having sex. I know I respond to my lover with such extreme sexual excitement and energy that I don't want my husband to see that and be hurt. Also, I do things with other men that I don't do with my husband. So those time are my times, and not his. We agreed to this before we started and he's ok with it. I do let him in occasionally, and he either just watches (which he loves) or joins in for a threesome. Afterward, he likes me to give him all the intimate details, which he loves to hear.

So, that's a brief description of my story. I also knew that cheating was not an option, so this worked out perfectly. At first my husband was a little unsure, but we talked it through and now he loves it, and he loves knowing that all of my needs are being met. We are both much happier, our sex life is better, and our marriage is wonderful. I'm a lucky girl.

Fuck that is just so hot

 

[K4play]

In the future, after you have successfully cucked your husband, do you believe you will be able to share this thread with him? Let him read it, so he truly knows how he became a cuck. If the answer to that is no, if you really want to stay in your marriage long term, imo you should stop what you are doing right now and re-evaluate what you are doing.

Please reread the experience of the most recent reply from another hotwife. Can you not see the fundamental difference? She was open and honest about her desires to her husband. She did not create a fantasy and use it to manipulate her husband. She treated him with respect.

This section is dominated by men that have a very strong desire to be chucked. Not something I share but the dynamic fascinates me. Different folks, different strokes. And while the % of men that want to be clicked is much higher than I expected, it is still less than half of men. So I hope you are taking this into account that most of the answers you will receive here are heavily biased in favor.

Now back to a scenario in the future, you got your husband around your finger. He is sitting in the chair watching you with your bulls. You got him trained to immediately clean up the cream pies. If he learns that you started this with a lie with the intent of him getting him to do what he is doing, that you manipulated him, are you certain he would be telling you what a great job you did like the men responding hear.

Do you think that saying cheating is a no go, but doing this ethical? Are you willing to maintain the lie or deception forever?