So we have been playing with this lifestyle and so far I know what I like and don't like as far as most of it , not really talking about sex parts or BDSM stuff but about Jealousy issues I seem to be having.
Wife has sex with her playmates and I'm not jealous about that or how long or big or better looking or the normal things like that, that would tend to make it a jealous issue.
What I seem to get jealous over is her not doing some of the positions that she does with her guy, like we both love missionary together, but now I wanted to try one that they do and she said no.
And he took her to the beach in Miami and last week she asks me if we can go to the beach and she took me to same place they went.
Another example was he had her suck his balls completely in her mouth and I asked for that one day and she turned me down.
So as far as him bigger than me and lasting longer I'm not at all jealous but I'm jealous of the denied stuff she gives him but not me .
So my question is this another form of jealousy or is this something different.
Like I feel sad that she does withhold stuff that she is doing with her guy friend and when I want to try it with her she doesn't want to do it,
I'm not a Cuckold and don't want to be one and I have told her this and she says I have my signature moves and position being missionary that she says she won't do with him and for me to just wait till after she dumps him then we can do all those things together,
As for sex we always have fun together and with her guy friend as a 3 some and yes I'm in the mix also , just not getting some positions and other stuff .
I don't ask while he is with us only after he is gone cause I don't want to be rejected in front of him.
So is this jealousy or something else?
Wife has sex with her playmates and I'm not jealous about that or how long or big or better looking or the normal things like that, that would tend to make it a jealous issue.
What I seem to get jealous over is her not doing some of the positions that she does with her guy, like we both love missionary together, but now I wanted to try one that they do and she said no.
And he took her to the beach in Miami and last week she asks me if we can go to the beach and she took me to same place they went.
Another example was he had her suck his balls completely in her mouth and I asked for that one day and she turned me down.
So as far as him bigger than me and lasting longer I'm not at all jealous but I'm jealous of the denied stuff she gives him but not me .
So my question is this another form of jealousy or is this something different.
Like I feel sad that she does withhold stuff that she is doing with her guy friend and when I want to try it with her she doesn't want to do it,
I'm not a Cuckold and don't want to be one and I have told her this and she says I have my signature moves and position being missionary that she says she won't do with him and for me to just wait till after she dumps him then we can do all those things together,
As for sex we always have fun together and with her guy friend as a 3 some and yes I'm in the mix also , just not getting some positions and other stuff .
I don't ask while he is with us only after he is gone cause I don't want to be rejected in front of him.
So is this jealousy or something else?
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