Hopping to start a conversation or shared thoughts on the subject of "Wannabe Cuckold"
With a added poll to see where we stand as a community on the subject.
I ask the question "Is There Such A Thing As A Wannabe Cuckold?" because it bothers me sometimes in the way it gets used. Example you hear it often referred to as a fantasy like "it's my fantasy to be a cuckold so I am a wannabe or I really want to be a cuckold but my wife is against it so I am a wannabe.
Through the years I evolved in my understanding of the feelings and desires of being a cuckold and that it is real not just a kink. I have been very fortunate that my wife like many others decided to explore the hotwife lifestyle after a couple years of me suggesting it. Since then we have blossomed together in our same page roles and with that my full understanding that I now embrace my sexuality as some call Cuckold while others feel better calling it Stag.
With that said I feel one is either a Cuckold or they are not. I mean they may have Cuckold tendencies or fantasize what it would be like. So please if you will allow me to try to use the gay lifestyle to try to explain my question of wannabe cuckold.
When we refer to those in a gay lifestyle we don't say they fantasize about being gay or they are wannabe gay but aren't because they haven't had an experience with someone yet. If someone feels they are gay, they express themselves that way in their desires and mannerisms would we still refer to them as gay, I think so. Some are not sure and feel they have gay tendencies or curiosity to try the lifestyle. In those cases some find that when they do have an gay lifestyle experience that they are in fact gay while others feel they enjoyed (or not) the experience but prefer a more straight vanilla lifestyle. So in those cases we don't still refer to them as being gay because they experimented with their curiosity of the gay lifestyle.
Sometimes we have to fantasize, experiment to evolve in knowing who we really are. Sometimes we just know who we are even if we haven't had a lifestyle experience involving someone else. I felt this way and knew it immediately when I learned what a cuckold was but believed I was not one because my wife had not been with another man with or without my approval. I see lots of men wishing and living their cuckold existence through others experiences. I know who they are and they are the same as me a simple twist in fate and I could be the one trying to fulfill my Cuckold desires through them.
So I ask again Is There Such A Thing As A Wannabe Cuckold because in my eyes we are the same with the full understanding of who and what we are and desire without the need to explain it's not a kink or fantasy it's who we are.
I want t recognize my fellow cuckold/stags as such as in recognizing who they are no matter their level or lifestyle experiences.
With a added poll to see where we stand as a community on the subject.
I ask the question "Is There Such A Thing As A Wannabe Cuckold?" because it bothers me sometimes in the way it gets used. Example you hear it often referred to as a fantasy like "it's my fantasy to be a cuckold so I am a wannabe or I really want to be a cuckold but my wife is against it so I am a wannabe.
Through the years I evolved in my understanding of the feelings and desires of being a cuckold and that it is real not just a kink. I have been very fortunate that my wife like many others decided to explore the hotwife lifestyle after a couple years of me suggesting it. Since then we have blossomed together in our same page roles and with that my full understanding that I now embrace my sexuality as some call Cuckold while others feel better calling it Stag.
With that said I feel one is either a Cuckold or they are not. I mean they may have Cuckold tendencies or fantasize what it would be like. So please if you will allow me to try to use the gay lifestyle to try to explain my question of wannabe cuckold.
When we refer to those in a gay lifestyle we don't say they fantasize about being gay or they are wannabe gay but aren't because they haven't had an experience with someone yet. If someone feels they are gay, they express themselves that way in their desires and mannerisms would we still refer to them as gay, I think so. Some are not sure and feel they have gay tendencies or curiosity to try the lifestyle. In those cases some find that when they do have an gay lifestyle experience that they are in fact gay while others feel they enjoyed (or not) the experience but prefer a more straight vanilla lifestyle. So in those cases we don't still refer to them as being gay because they experimented with their curiosity of the gay lifestyle.
Sometimes we have to fantasize, experiment to evolve in knowing who we really are. Sometimes we just know who we are even if we haven't had a lifestyle experience involving someone else. I felt this way and knew it immediately when I learned what a cuckold was but believed I was not one because my wife had not been with another man with or without my approval. I see lots of men wishing and living their cuckold existence through others experiences. I know who they are and they are the same as me a simple twist in fate and I could be the one trying to fulfill my Cuckold desires through them.
So I ask again Is There Such A Thing As A Wannabe Cuckold because in my eyes we are the same with the full understanding of who and what we are and desire without the need to explain it's not a kink or fantasy it's who we are.
I want t recognize my fellow cuckold/stags as such as in recognizing who they are no matter their level or lifestyle experiences.
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