Just a story my wife told

She isnt preparing me. My wife belongs to me unless she wants to be shared very occasionally and I allow it. She can dream about what she wants, and can enjoy chatting about it when we are having fun. But there is no becoming a duo for her, me cleaning his mess or him taking control of my wife.
Well said, never loose control of your wife let her know how far you are prepared to let her go and how far you will go,
It sounds like you have a lovely sexy wife on your hands but you need to make sure she doesn't get carried away it's easy when a woman is turned on for her to do something that might cause a problems for both of you in the future so you need very clear boundaries,
Good luck and I hope both of you find what you are looking for,👍