Looking for a mentor, a guide to help me subtly sow hotwife seeds to my wife.

[Goodhubby7]

Hi im a married guy 52 and my wife is 43, from Birmingham, England. I have been a long time cuckold wannabe but my wife has no idea. She is a very attractive, well educated, extremely gym fit and a successful buisness woman.
She always has to be in control and have things done her way. She loves to be regarded as a good Catholic girl and wife.
If i were to mention hotwife and cuckolding, her first reaction would be anger, then suspicion before complete refusal and that would be the end of it for good. She is extremely stubborn. It would have to be her idea initially and not mine, her way or nothing. This is why i need to try and plant the seeds to see if she would think along those lines. As i have no one local to me, trusting and discreet enough to chat with her etc i was hoping to find someone online, someone who actually knows what he is doing and understands this type of woman who could help and guide me. A long shot i know but any help would be a start. Please DM me to discuss more.

 

[Olderwhtcpl]

Hi im a married guy 52 and my wife is 43, from Birmingham, England. I have been a long time cuckold wannabe but my wife has no idea. She is a very attractive, well educated, extremely gym fit and a successful buisness woman.
She always has to be in control and have things done her way. She loves to be regarded as a good Catholic girl and wife.
If i were to mention hotwife and cuckolding, her first reaction would be anger, then suspicion before complete refusal and that would be the end of it for good. She is extremely stubborn. It would have to be her idea initially and not mine, her way or nothing. This is why i need to try and plant the seeds to see if she would think along those lines. As i have no one local to me, trusting and discreet enough to chat with her etc i was hoping to find someone online, someone who actually knows what he is doing and understands this type of woman who could help and guide me. A long shot i know but any help would be a start. Please DM me to discuss more.

Well let's see what she looks like . More gentleman will respond to assist you with this .

 

[Dogstar6969]

Hi,

Has there been any mention in the past of this?

Does she have no idea at all? If not I'd say safest bet woud be let her find some cuck porn on your devices etc. Initiate a possible conversation. Allow her to coax it out of you, as if its excurtiating to speak of.

Hope you get what you both want.

 

[Melrose]

Hi im a married guy 52 and my wife is 43, from Birmingham, England. I have been a long time cuckold wannabe but my wife has no idea. She is a very attractive, well educated, extremely gym fit and a successful buisness woman.
She always has to be in control and have things done her way. She loves to be regarded as a good Catholic girl and wife.
If i were to mention hotwife and cuckolding, her first reaction would be anger, then suspicion before complete refusal and that would be the end of it for good. She is extremely stubborn. It would have to be her idea initially and not mine, her way or nothing. This is why i need to try and plant the seeds to see if she would think along those lines. As i have no one local to me, trusting and discreet enough to chat with her etc i was hoping to find someone online, someone who actually knows what he is doing and understands this type of woman who could help and guide me. A long shot i know but any help would be a start. Please DM me to discuss more.

Im 50 and my wife is now 47. shes very attractive. It took me 7-8 years to convince her. The direct approach is totally wrong and would backfire. 1) you have to be very loving to your wife and make her very comfrotable everyday b) planting the seed is the next step (again indirectly) when her mood is right c) its important to make her know that you will never cheat on her and she has to believe this d) the safe way to start is through a massage and in a funny way you slip in the idea of a guy doing a massage......trust me this takes a lot of patience and the right time to make the move is while you both are on vacation and stress free...... The firsst time my wife allowed another man to massage her, I remember it was so exciting. It took many years of periodical seed planting and 30 min before the massage she made it clear she wont remove her bra nor panty.. Teh guy was a gentleman and not in a hurry and well mannered and handsome too....45 min in to the massage, he had removed her bra and i was shocked when she allowed her panty to be slipped down.......i was trembling when i watched him slowly spread her legs and lick her pussy.. she was moaning throught the time and her eyes were fully shut. he turned her around and was on top of her sliding his naked body up and down her naked back and without warning her slipped it in and then he made her cum... after a break of 5 min, they were at it again..... thats the first

 

[arltxstagnvixen]

30 min before the massage she made it clear she wont remove her bra nor panty..

A long shot i know but any help would be a start.

The above is a good example of what will throw you for a loop - or leave you uncertain how to respond. The rejection of the idea, even those that come out of the blue. For example, on a different topic, she says something like, "cheating is gross." It is said for the very purpose that it serves: To lead you to believe that she never will.

 

[Jack the Giraff]

I'm in Solihull if you want me to pop round

 

[Olderwhtcpl]

Let's see what she looks like 👍

 

[toolman2c]

Im 50 and my wife is now 47. shes very attractive. It took me 7-8 years to convince her. The direct approach is totally wrong and would backfire. 1) you have to be very loving to your wife and make her very comfrotable everyday b) planting the seed is the next step (again indirectly) when her mood is right c) its important to make her know that you will never cheat on her and she has to believe this d) the safe way to start is through a massage and in a funny way you slip in the idea of a guy doing a massage......trust me this takes a lot of patience and the right time to make the move is while you both are on vacation and stress free...... The firsst time my wife allowed another man to massage her, I remember it was so exciting. It took many years of periodical seed planting and 30 min before the massage she made it clear she wont remove her bra nor panty.. Teh guy was a gentleman and not in a hurry and well mannered and handsome too....45 min in to the massage, he had removed her bra and i was shocked when she allowed her panty to be slipped down.......i was trembling when i watched him slowly spread her legs and lick her pussy.. she was moaning throught the time and her eyes were fully shut. he turned her around and was on top of her sliding his naked body up and down her naked back and without warning her slipped it in and then he made her cum... after a break of 5 min, they were at it again..... thats the first

WOW , that worked for you, but was more exciting for her and him, I think you wanted it exactly that way,

 

[cilexok760]

Im 50 and my wife is now 47. shes very attractive. It took me 7-8 years to convince her. The direct approach is totally wrong and would backfire. 1) you have to be very loving to your wife and make her very comfrotable everyday b) planting the seed is the next step (again indirectly) when her mood is right c) its important to make her know that you will never cheat on her and she has to believe this d) the safe way to start is through a massage and in a funny way you slip in the idea of a guy doing a massage......trust me this takes a lot of patience and the right time to make the move is while you both are on vacation and stress free...... The firsst time my wife allowed another man to massage her, I remember it was so exciting. It took many years of periodical seed planting and 30 min before the massage she made it clear she wont remove her bra nor panty.. Teh guy was a gentleman and not in a hurry and well mannered and handsome too....45 min in to the massage, he had removed her bra and i was shocked when she allowed her panty to be slipped down.......i was trembling when i watched him slowly spread her legs and lick her pussy.. she was moaning throught the time and her eyes were fully shut. he turned her around and was on top of her sliding his naked body up and down her naked back and without warning her slipped it in and then he made her cum... after a break of 5 min, they were at it again..... thats the first

Happy to help if you were in houston. Especially indian wife.