I discovered that my wife was having an affair the night she ended it after three months,
Because the guy she was having her affair with wanted more from her the sex wasn't enough for him he wanted her,
He wanted her to leave me and go and live with him but all along she had told him that would never happen,
He became to clingy he wanted more than she was prepared to give so she ended it,
On that night as she was driving home he rang our home phone and told me about her affair with him hoping I would get mad about it and throw her out of the house, and I very nearly did,
I did get mad and confronted her as soon as she walked through the door,there were tears,yelling, cursing, from me,apologising crying pleading and promises from her that it was over and she would never see him again and that she would never do anything like that again,
We are still together after ten years but is was hard for a long time my trust in her was shattered and it took a very long time for her to regain it,I started to notice her more her moods if anything was out of the ordinary if she came home later than usual even if her car was putting up more miles than it should,
But would I have rather not have known as she had ended it, no I needed to know even if it did cause me so much pain and you my friend need to know if not it will eat away at you you need to know for certain then you need to take whatever action you need to take,
Find out any way you can,👍