My wife, our situation, your thoughts
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Take her out to a nice club dinnmer drinks etc make sure she really dressed up.buy her a new outfit tell her how hot she is. While your out tell her you saw guys checking her out .even yoi heard guys talking about how hot she looked take her home let nature take its course and talk about the night whie shes really turned on .Bob
With women, who knows haha... I would say it is probably a dream but likely a dream that was the result of her thinking about being shared.
At the same time, I think it is not unusual for women to do seemingly weird things (to us men at least) like knowing their husband wants to share them but then doing it in secret by themselves first because they're too nervous to admit they want it / do it openly with their husband. Then after they've cheated and decided they liked it / maybe feel guilty, they share some more tame and limited version of what happened or say it was a dream, to test the waters and see how the husband reacts. If you respond positively, maybe more will be revealed... although because it was done secretly and is basically cheating, she may never feel comfortable fully admitting to what happened but given a positive reception, may be more likely to repeat it openly with you.
I still say it is more likely just a dream but you could try to get a better idea by finding out, did she go out with friends while you were away? Ask for details about the dream - if her dream is very specific and detailed, maybe it could be more? Even if it is really just a dream, asking for more details about next time you have sex, showing her how much it turns you on, could help her get closer to taking a real step.
Maybe she is. Dreams are part of subconscious, so probably she is already starting to think about that possibility.
In my case, we started this trip time ago but my current practice is to let her think she is dating her bull without my consent. I know she is not comfortable with me in the room, and even with me knowing she is dating him, so I kind of "forse" these situations. Now I'm "playing" tennis three times a week. And normally she doesn't ask me anything about it except some days. Then I'm sure she will be dating him.
You are probably far from that if she didn't find the right bull and or motivation. Finding the right bull is a complicated process. In my case, I found a perfect candidate for her on this site, and I know she is quite happy 😁.
You can reach me for advice when you can achieve the next step.
Good luck 🤞
Similar situation. After many months of trying I convinced her to do some sexting with another person.
I started fucking bet and kept talking to her in her ears and I painted some vivid pictures. One day I said about a guy that was looking at her at the restaurant we were before. She became super wet and later she told me it happened not because he was good looking but because of the thought of someone staring at us. After that these “guys” started touching her and recently they replaced me. While I was fucking her she held her eyes shut and I was pretending to be another guy. This helped me propose the idea of sexting to see if she will find pleasure with another guy. I hope she does so I can build on that and start throwing cuckold in the conversation
I started fucking bet and kept talking to her in her ears and I painted some vivid pictures. One day I said about a guy that was looking at her at the restaurant we were before. She became super wet and later she told me it happened not because he was good looking but because of the thought of someone staring at us. After that these “guys” started touching her and recently they replaced me. While I was fucking her she held her eyes shut and I was pretending to be another guy. This helped me propose the idea of sexting to see if she will find pleasure with another guy. I hope she does so I can build on that and start throwing cuckold in the conversation
