My wife and I have been looking for play partners for her for a while, but haven't had the best of luck. Not for lack of interest in others but on our part. I'm not sure if it's the area we're in or what, but no one is up to our, admittedly high, standards. We live in a small town in the Bible Belt, and browse other areas when out of town.

If she's going to get fucked by someone else, we want her to get something she can't from me. Be younger(optional), fitter, bigger dick, etc. I guess that's the problem. I'm an attractive guy, fairly fit, with a slightly thicker than average (I'm guessing) 6.5 to 7 inches.

Does anyone have advice on where to look or how to overcome these issues without lowering our standards? It gets a bit frustrating having to put in so much work and we usually just give up for a while. We just got on Fetlife, thought about posting on Reddit (which doesn't look promising for our area) and have even started using her face pics on Tinder.
 
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My wife and I have been looking for play partners for her for a while, but haven't had the best of luck. Not for lack of interest in others but on our part. I'm not sure if it's the area we're in or what, but no one is up to our, admittedly high, standards. We live in a small town in the Bible Belt, and browse other areas when out of town.

If she's going to get fucked by someone else, we want her to get something she can't from me. Be younger(optional), fitter, bigger dick, etc. I guess that's the problem. I'm an attractive guy, fairly fit, with a slightly thicker than average (I'm guessing) 6.5 to 7 inches.

Does anyone have advice on where to look or how to overcome these issues without lowering our standards? It gets a bit frustrating having to put in so much work and we usually just give up for a while. We just got on Fetlife, thought about posting on Reddit (which doesn't look promising for our area) and have even started using her face pics on Tinder.
Our feelings or maybe mine, as to how my husband finds men to share me with, are some quality swing sites, or we attend some smaller but well attended private parties, or swinging clubs. I think the clubs are better than parties in that there may be more options, and no obligation to play unless you find someone you desire to be with. I think your ego may be a bit too big, there are many men out there who can give her more than you are giv8ng her, besides the fact they all have something you do not have. A strange or different dick
 
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