I have wanted to share my wife with a friend/another man for a long time, it’s a huge fantasy of mine. I say friend because the idea of finding someone you don’t know would probably sketch her out. She has sometimes seemed interested to a degree, going as far as wearing lingerie and giving lap dances to a trusted friend, or sending pictures, but it’s always been while very turned on and under the influence, which usually increases our sex life. Although we’ve had a lot of fun it hasn’t went much further, mainly because she is afraid that it is going to far. She has mentioned her concerns the next day on one occasion. I also worry if I get off will I still be into it as it’s happening, these are things I am sure other couples have thought about. I’m sorry for the lame questions, but if it means my marriage will go south I will stop trying. I mentioned setting ground rules, but how can I get her on board and to stop worrying about the aftermath???!!! Help!